Guys, is this weird? Would you freak out?

Question

I like to be spanked like hard and not just playfully! I asked a guy to do it the other day and he did and he seemed to really like doing it and even started telling him that "I was naughty" and getting into it. I was just drunk when I asked him and I hooked up after him doing that. He gave me his number and told me to call soon, does he want to do it again you think? I was just wondering if a lot of guys have done this or how they'd react. I hope this isn't too perverted, I just need some advice! I feel like a weirdo. Do you think I am?

Answer 1

You're far from weird, as this is a pretty common kink. There are parties across the country where fellow spankophiles get together to practice the art. I'll be attending one in March that's in Texas. :P I, for one, would be calling you back myself, and if you're anywhere near Florida, message me of you and him don't work out. ;)

The main reason that erotic spanking is a turnon is because the same nerve that feeds to the lower bottom (the "sweet spot" as spankos know it) also feeds to the genitals. A girl with such an interest can quickly be heated to deep arousal, and it's such a fun way to do it, too.

Answer 2

Let me assure you this is a very common "kink". If you don't believe me just type adult spanking in your seach engine and a billion websites will pop up! It is so common that people will post personals looking for someone to spank them, usually women looking for a nice, sane guy to spank their bottom. For some reason there are more women looking for men than the other way around in the spanking world :o). There is nothing like a man taking you over his knee, raising your skirt, pulling your panties down, and spanking your bottom. Nope, you are not weird....
L.

Answer 3

No, Jenni, you're not perverted or a weirdo, just kinky - and that's fine. In fact better than fine - girls who ask to be spanked are a delight, and make life worth living. You're lucky to have found yourself a guy who enjoys spanking you - and yes, I bet he's looking forward to spanking that naughty bottom of yours again.

So go ahead and have fun! (Oh, and better get in a good stock of cushions. You may be needing them....)

Answer 4

if he gave you his number, then YES he is interested in doing it again. Nothing wrong with a little spanking but if it gets to the point where you need that to get turned on...then it could be a problem.

Answer 5

Your not a weirdo your Kinky, its not a bad thing and it can be fun. you should know though that some guys that r kinky can give violant and lose themselves in the moment so lol becareful in wht you guys do and how you guys r whn you do something and find out if u like it sober and if u do i recomend staying that way whale being kinky lol

Answer 6

yes, plant a tree, and vote for green peace.
I just have a tendancy to think that you might be to focused on the useless obvious when in fact you should be focusing on the usefull obvious. I sort of missed if you were having sex or not but I suspect you were, if not ya that is weird.

Answer 7

Where were you, when I was your age? You'll grow out of it. Just watch for someone, that goes too far. You're inviting some real Weirdo's, to treat you like garbage.

Answer 8

I believe that there is a little captain kink in all of us but you should be careful and know your partner a bit better before sailing off into uncharted waters. Keep it light and fun and if it gets too creepy run!

Answer 9

As long as you enjoy it, and no one is hurt by it, go for it.

However, keep in mind that this sort of thing can get out of control. What might start out as a lot of fun, and sexually stimulating, can end up with a lot of pain.

So, be careful.

Good Luck!

Answer 10

there is nothing wrong with that. Different things turn different people on. Some guys might not be into it and if that is so they are not meant to be with you..... Have fun and fnd guys that are into the same things as you