He has already asked me to mmove in with him after i get out of high school he wants me to come downthis weekend and he also is 25 and he keeps getting texted by a 44 year old women. and he says he dosent want anything to do with her so what do i do?help me please.i think he is mr.right ?how do i know for sure
2007-01-08 01:18:09 · 10 answers · asked by KIMBERLY P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like there is more to it than he is letting on. Also he wants things to move very quickly once you are out of school. You sound very young and he sounds like a player.
2007-01-08 01:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you but something about this whole story doesn't add up. If he truly loved you he would end the text messages from the 44 year old. How do you know he is 44. How do you know that she isn't his wife? There is something amiss and if I were you I would get out of this relationship now.
If you don't, you may be the next "44 year old" that is texting him while he is out with some other high school girl.
2007-01-08 09:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by nana4dakids 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think before you leap. You are young and have not even finished school yet. What is this man's rush? It would do good for his ego to have an 17/18 year old run to his side. If he respects you and wants to be with you, he will wait for you. You're just beginning the most important parts of your life. Take it a day at a time.
2007-01-08 09:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by Nunya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know anybody that knows him. Tell him to introduce you to some of his friends.
he is a bit older than you, and has experience to make you believe him. how do you know of the 44 lady. what does he do for a living. What does he do during the week Do you know where he lives.
There are too many open questions. Open your eyes before going with him. if he is a transparent person, he will not mind your questions. If there are many "buts", he is doubtful. Ask your parents.
2007-01-08 09:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he tell you that he keeps getting texted by a 44 year old woman? If he loves you, he wouldn't get texted. He might be looking for only physical fun with you be careful. If someone doesn't send signals, he wouldn't keep getting texted. There is something wrong with it.
2007-01-08 09:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by bubi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know that he loves you? have him ask this lady to stop texting (because it make you feel uncomfortable). he surely wouldn't want some guy texting you, would he? o.k., now, don't ever, ever, ever, move in with a guy that you are not sure that he has your best interest in mind. you deserve the very best. don't let this love (emotion) blind you. you still need financial comfort, respect and plans for YOU to get on with your education. i didn't see that in your question. you only have one life, live it with dignity. don't settle for just anybody. let say....if you moved in with him, stay for a year. things didn't work out...where would you go, what would you do for a living? how is this man going to make a positive in your life. please don't get pregnant, don't. get your head on straight girl.
2007-01-08 09:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by REALLY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is being true to u and treat u right, then i would say that he is telling the truth. if u think that he is Mr. right, all u have to do is follow ur heart and do what is right. good luck
2007-01-08 09:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the things he do for you even when you dont ask him to. By the things he say. By the way he looks at you. When when he says he loves you you feel it.
2007-01-08 09:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by Wifey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He ain't mister right if he can't get rid of miss wrong.
2007-01-08 09:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck
2007-01-08 09:20:03 · answer #10 · answered by Amy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋