Can girls help me with that....!? I don't know what to do!?!?

Question

I really like her but she hates me...what should I do!?
There's a girl in my class who I really like. We used to like each other for a while even though we didn’t talk that much. Anyway, it now seems like she really hates me for no reason and I don't know if she likes me. When I start talking to her she tries to ignore me... well I don't know what's going on cause she asked me last week whether I hate her. Should I just talk to her and ask her whether she doesn't like me and tell her that I feel like she ignores me or is it a bad idea?!

Answer 1

You should definitley talk to her. But then again, why waste your time when she's showing you clear signs of no interest? Just make the right choice. Don't let that little heart of yours get broken.

But I highly recommned you to talk to her, because if you really liked her, you would find out if she likes you. And if not, it's okay, it's her loss, not yours sweetie.

Answer 2

Well, sometimes girls act rude to guys and they dont realize they are doing it or they are making him feel bad. You could ask her why she ignores you. A guy asked me that question once, and the truth is, i didnt even notice i was ignoring him. I didnt think he really knew me, so i never really talked to him. So yes, i say you talk to her about it. She probably doesnt hate you if you didnt do anything to her. Maybe shes just shy?

Answer 3

Call her or IM her so she can't ignore you and ask her if she's upset with you. If she says that she is, then just ask her what you did. Go from there. And make sure to let her know that you don't hate her.

Answer 4

sounds like you both need to talk, maybe your not clear on how eachother feels, you could just start by asking...."have i done something to upset you" that way it is a question ya know & she has to answer, if she says No, you could go on & say, oh i just feel like you dont want to talk to me lately, if she says Yes, then you have the opportunity to sort out what is going on, i say communicate, good luck with it Oh & at the end of the day if she is not in to you let it go, because the only person we can change is OURSELVES!!!

Answer 5

poor you. i think there are maybe two reasons here, either someone spiteful has told her something about you that's changed her view or shes clocked on that you like and is now wary. if think you should just keep your distance for the rest of the week and then just casually nod your head when you see her. when you feel ready then talk to her, but for now just give her some space. fingers crossed i hope it works out for you. xxx

Answer 6

yes u should talk to her never hold ur feelings in always tell somone how u feel..if u dont tell her she will never know.i ts prolly the same with her she feels u dont like her..but, u do...as she prolly likes u and is jus not saying so.. maybe she has low self esteem and just needs too hear it from u how u feel.. jus ask her to talk and tell her how u feel it cant hurt..and u both will get out what u are feeling with one another good luck hun..things will work out :o) just open up too her

Answer 7

well if it were me, i think that i would confront her about it. ask her if there's something that you've done to make her mad and apologize if you have. if she still ignores you and wont listen, then just give her a dose of her own medicine: give her the cold shoulder and ignore her for a few days. if you let it simmer for while, whatever it is that is ticking her off is bound to blow over.

Answer 8

She likes you. Definatly. If she hated you, she wouldn't ask you if u hated her, she wouldn't care. I wish you both luck :)
PS : I'm not a girl, but who cares
-Mrs. Beli, let's not joke. It's his loss too. Let's hope he makes it :)

Answer 9

That's good idea !!!U should tell her as soon as u can,maybe she is really hurt inside,she sure gets a broken heart !!!
When ur gf broke up,let's her meet me !!! (Just joking !!!)

Answer 10

Talk to her, i bet someone is telling her lies.............