Right i really like this boy and hopeing he'll ask me out soon but last night i told a boy that likes me and i don't want to upset him...who should i stay with?
the boy that likes me says he loves me but when i talk to him it just feels like we're mates and the other makes me feel loved..
2007-01-08 01:25:17 · 17 answers · asked by Laura S 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ginger i am not 14 i am 16
2007-01-08 01:37:23 · update #1
Just flip a coin.
2007-01-08 01:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Puma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so maybe you should apologise to the boy that likes you for saying anything to him in the first place about liking this other guy, and if that's the case and you don't feel that way about him then him saying he loves you is not a good reason to date him if it's not reciprocated.
You say the guy you like makes you feel loved? Have you even asked him how he feels, cuz if you haven't you should just tell him how you feel and wait for his response. If you don't ask you don't get girl, so bite the bullet, life's 2 short!!!
2007-01-08 01:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by crazychicklisieloo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's never a good idea to be with someone just to spare their feelings. Sure, the one that likes you will be upset but being with him and not liking him back will just make things worse. How about making a move on the guy you do like? You don't always have to be the one that waits on a guy. He might like that, too. Good luck.
2007-01-08 01:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by chiliboop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart. I've made the mistake of confusing friendly love with emotionally-sexual love and gone out with a girl who mutually thought our love was the sexual relationship sort of love, but the lovemaking was boring and we found we had little or nothing in common. She couldn't really go out with me socially as she didn't drink, didn't eat properly, worked all day and left me to her own devices and loads of other things. I couldn't even smoke her ciggies as she liked Consulate. I've lost a great friend now. I'd like to contact her to be a friend again but I don't want her to think I'm coming back to haunt her with her new boyfriend.
2007-01-08 01:31:40 · answer #4 · answered by Uncle Sid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is some serious thing you feel some thing special with both of them but if you feel like you are mates then that means that you feel every thing, but if you feel that you are only loved then well there is a posibility that he is doing that just to get you after that it might change there is a big posibility so my opinion would be Mate!!
2007-01-08 01:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is listen to your heart dont refect the love you feel for the other. Hopefully the one that loves you will understand. if the one you love loves you back thats the right choice
2007-01-08 01:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by crystalnubi2007 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your soul what is saying. Follow your heart but do not make the other one to suffer.
2007-01-08 01:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by ArchAngel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Feel loved' is the answer, if u r looking for love, however, my feeling is that since u r in doubt, both are unsuitable !! wait, have patience, love is round the corner !!!! Good luck.
Andy
2007-01-08 05:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by PatentlyAndy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for Love... take a chance and try to find happiness, you live only once! and well don't get stuck with regrets!!!
2007-01-08 01:27:58 · answer #9 · answered by djp6314 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one you love.
2007-01-08 01:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by morglovsya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋