i went on my boyfriends computer recently and saw that all he had been looking at were websites of girls, i know im pretty myself and most of them werent half as good looking without being bigheaded. It just makes me feel like im not good enough for him otherwise why would he look elsewhere. I dont understand why men do this i have no need to look at other men.
2007-01-08 01:15:34 · 14 answers · asked by noidea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think the problem's wit u. Its with him. I am a complete women's man, but whenever im in a relationship...(serious relationship), i never look at another gal.
Of course, the underlined word is serious ;-) lol
2007-01-08 01:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by tornjeansandguitar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not jealous you are normal .Men who look at porn are disgusting perverts and they only get worse. He will never stop looking and and getting his fingers sticky. Do you respect yourself? If the answer is yes run for the hills or stay with the perv and keep getting upset and bothered and disrespected! Theres no cure for these perverts and as long as the whores keep whoreing themselfs porn for profit it will never change sad but the honest truth!
2007-01-08 09:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are very visual people they need sex shots to get them in the mood or to just releases some built up stress. do not take defiance of that. you girl need a good romantic novel or story to put you in the mood so this is a guys way of a romantic novel to get him in the mood or to relax from a stressful day with out asking for sex all the time. good luck
2007-01-08 09:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him how you feel, especially if it was a porn site. Society has pushed it into young boys heads that it's ok to objectify women. Even women's magazines are telling young girls to accept their boyfriends pornography. Don't tolerate it. Put your foot down.
p.s. It has NOTHING to do with how you look. I'm sure you're gorgeous.
2007-01-08 09:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by penhead72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister had the same problem her b/f was looking at girl sites and she felt worthless..she asked him if im good enough then why do you have to look at other girls? and his reply was its just a guy thing..and my sister argued her case.. and finally made him realize how this made her feel...now she hasnt seen any on his computer..but who knows...tell him u feel lyk ur not good enough see what his reply is...good luck
2007-01-08 09:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it!!!! A man is gonna be a man, and looking at women is what they do! Theres no need to be jealous unless you see some numbers that he shouldn't have!
2007-01-08 09:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by Live.Laugh.Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just what all men/boys do. I brother just started doing that and he is 13. My guy friends say that it is normal and that they do it. Which freaks me out. And your not being jelous. Its not you, its their minds.
2007-01-08 09:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by morglovsya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend caught me doing the same thing. We just like to look. Don't worry, he probably loves you.
2007-01-08 09:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can be like that, I don't know why. Ask him about it, maybe he will give you an honest answer. Good luck to ya!!
2007-01-08 09:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by Tami H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They cant help it, they find women or womens' bodies a piece of art
2007-01-08 09:27:10 · answer #10 · answered by Wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋