2007-01-08 00:42:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WHY NOT??? IS THE DIFFERENCE IN AGE THE ONLY PROBLEM? THAT SHOULDN'T BE AN ISSUE AT ALL. WHEN I WAS 16, MY BOYFRIEND WAS 22 AND OUR RELATIONSHIP CONTINUED FOR 4 YEARS. NOW I AM 26, AND MY HUSBAND IS 55 AND WE'VE BOTH NEVER BEEN HAPPIER!!
2007-01-08 00:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who was exactly in your situation last year : her boyfriend was 20 and she was turning 15... Trust me, this is not the right decision.. im saying this because although 5 years is not a huge age difference and often works out well for adults, there is a huge gap between 15 and 20.. Pretty soon he's gonna be able to go to bars, and believe me he'll have plenty of opportunities to cheat.. I'm not saying all guys do, but between college and girls his age, he's gonna have his hands full..
My friend regreted it.. and they were always on again off again because he still had some feelings for the girl.. but she was never happy.. My advice to you would be to find someone your age, or at least someone in highschool.. concentrate on your studies, your friends, having fun at the moment..
Good luck !
2007-01-08 00:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by hedZy ♀ The Dancing Banana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the countries have social customs and rules to accept a person to be a major when one can take a decision about his or her life partner. A man and a woman get into a wedlock to be recognised as life partners to beget children and to take the responsibility of their offsprings. The concepts of staying together are not proven as successful bondages on either of the participants. Life is short to make newer experiments. Love is to be developed after understanding each other. When there is a social binding like a wedlock, there is a security and purpose for the lives of the two who would understand each other. It is often by mutual understanding and by accepting each others values in life, one can lead a comfortable and happy life. Life has a divine purpose and hence one should lead a divine life full of love and kindness to others. If one cannot behave the way his/her elders like it , it reflects on the gratefulness one has for them. It will be a wise decision to consult your parents and accept their suggestion.
2007-01-08 01:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by nvkrao6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most llikely all adults and your parents will want you to stay away from him, i met my boyfriend when I was 15 and he was 23, we are still together now but it was extremly hard until I was 18. you would have to be smart about it and not have the I dont care attitude. Since you are fifteen you are either in 8th grade or 9th. If you are in 8th you should not be with him but if you are already in high school then its a little better. Just be careful. And to all the people that are going to criticize me I was a junior and senior when I was fifteen so get over it.
2007-01-08 00:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kat A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb u should wait a bit. But im 20 my man is 25
2007-01-08 00:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you have put him in a serious situation due to your age. You are basically jail bait. He could go to prison for a very, very long time if someone reports him to the police.
Even with your consent, the law states that no one his age should be doing anything in a relationship with someone your age.
2007-01-08 00:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 15 most girls don't really understand what real love is and where I live in the US it would be illegal for him to have any sexual relations with you. Date him but you are risking his freedom if anything sexual happens(intercourse) and the law gets involved.
2007-01-08 00:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by justme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been together a long time and it looks like a strong thing, just keep it low key and do nothing foolish to get either of you in trouble..
2007-01-08 06:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, at that age you do not love anyone.
He'll go to college and cheat on you more than likely, and you'll be left hanging in high school some where..
It'll never work out...
ONLY true love prevails !! Muahahahahaa
Ok, good luck.
2007-01-08 00:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by Phlow 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be VERY careful! !!! IF you have sex with him -he could go to jail, be labeled a sex offender, have to register with the police every time he moves for the rest of his life, and all of this because he had a girlfriend who was tooo young to be with him!!!!
2007-01-08 01:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋