My boyfriend and I have been together 8 years (3 years of this living together) and I am having trouble with the fact he has not proposed to me yet. I keep questioning myself and the relationship because of this. When the subject is broached my boyfriend avoids the issue and wont talk about it. Any advice?
2007-01-08 00:47:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't sweat it. He's probably not thinking of it the same way you are. Marriage isn't such a huge step. I took me and my wife about 7 years to get married, and three kids later. Marriage is really just a piece of paper. And what is so wrong with you asking him to marry you. If you love him and he loves you, you both enjoy each others company just relax the rest will come in time.
2007-01-08 00:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by willy g 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have thought that you'd broach the subject at least once in 8 years - or at least before you'd moved in together. He has his cake, and gets to eat it too. Why would he propose? He already has the whole package! You need to let him know what you're thinking - maybe he's oblivious!!
2007-01-08 01:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think you have to just be open to him. tell him your feelings. maybe you can say it in a way like this:
"hon" i know you don't want to disscuss issues with me about this, but i would really like to tell you how i feel. we've been together for a long time now and i just don't really understand why you have'nt propsed to me yet. i'm not forcing you and i understand if you're not yet ready for marriage but i would really like to know the reason why you have'nt proposed to me yet. sometimes i wonder if you really love me or sometimes i question our relationship becuase of this. i would realy like an answer from you and i don't want you to avoid this topic becuase sooner or later this topic will come out to. so please tell me what you feel right now and the reason why you haven't propesed yet. i would really like an answer.
then wait for his answer and whatever his anwser is, justbe calm and try to understand one another. Calmness is the key to a good disscussion. but before making the "next step" PRAy first to God and ask him for guidance and wisdom so that you will be able to do the right thing (believe me it helps). i wish you all the best!
2007-01-08 01:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by Thug Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If IT IS important to you, it should be important to him too, if he really loves you. I mean, at least he should talk with you about the subject and after 8 years together he really own you some explanations about that.
Make him talk about what important to you and refuse talking about anything else. Because it's disrespectful of him avoiding serious stuff like that. He knows that.
Yet, be ready for his answer. You might won't like it, so prepare yourself.
2007-01-08 06:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 09:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously does not want to marry you after 8 years (3 years with live in snatch). With that said make your decision accordingly. The next step would be to leave...
2007-01-08 00:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him the time limit is 8 years, time to speak up.
2007-01-08 00:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may think this is very old fashion but it may apply to your situation. Is he getting the milk for free? With some men that is how they justify not popping the question.
2007-01-08 00:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to have an honest discussion with him! Tell him that this is important to you! If he doesnt feel the same or care about your feelings, then you need to let him know that it is time for you to move on!
2007-01-08 00:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
then take it in to your own hand and your propose to him and see what he does if he become a baby and runs away then you know. but if he gets mad and says hay that my job to perosed to you and if he dose not do it to you in the next few days then it time to leave him. good luck
2007-01-08 00:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋