if a guy has been chasing you for a while, but then after you have met up he ignores you (we havent slept together), what is this about?am i supposed to chase him now???
2007-01-08 01:58:46 · 18 answers · asked by Special Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't know maybe he lost the interest****
2007-01-08 02:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ever think that you will understand how a mans mind works. Maybe he wants to be chased for a little while. I would back off its much better being the chased one rather than the chaser.
2007-01-08 10:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by goobygum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he was in it for the chase maybe he thought you were a different person to the person you turned out to be???? I am not being horrid to you in saying that I mean he may have let his imagination run away and you didn't match that....I'd forget him he probably wants you to chase him now as it will make him look good your well shot of him!!
2007-01-08 10:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by donna_eade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're not as cool as you think you are. The chasing stage usually lasts up until he's done the deed with you at least, then some lads may ease off. However, he's given up quite quickly, maybe you're giving off the wrong signals.
2007-01-08 10:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by PvteFrazer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an ego thing he has going on. Yeah, he wants you to chase him so he can reject you again. Don't chase him. I had someone tell me once that when a man acts like he doesn't like a particular woman; she wants him more. It's that rejection factor going on.
2007-01-08 10:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He liked the thrill of the chase and the mysteriousness of you. But the reality is that he just liked the fantasy and the reality probably scared him to bits. Just let him go.
2007-01-08 10:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like He's playing hard to get, what you have to work out is, is he worth the chase? if he is go for it, if not kick him to the curb, plenty more fish in the sea.
2007-01-08 10:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by bty912324 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer: Only if you want to play his game.
I'm always interested in why people choose the names they go by. 'cool chick' is yours, but judging by your question, then it seems something of a misnomer, or you wouldn't be asking your question!
If that's the case, how do you feel about the name you use and would you chose another name here?
Oh, sorry, it's not a question, but a proposition.
Sash.
2007-01-08 10:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by sashtou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not playing by the rules. He was chasing you, he tagged you, now you are it. You are supposed to chase him and tag him.
2007-01-08 10:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes turned it around and wanting to see how badly you want him. Or maybe hes just got fed up of playing games and cant be bothered anymore.
2007-01-08 10:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just one of those blokes that the thrill is in the chase
2007-01-08 10:24:56 · answer #11 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋