We are married with four children 3 months through 11 years old. Mom has a great deal of pent of anger and takes it out by bieng mentally abusive on the children. She calls my 10 year old step daughter the "B" word all the time. She calls the 3 month old a stupid piece of "S". Three of the four children are terrified of her, I am scared to leave her home with them. I am concerned that she has already done severe emotional damage and I am not sure about any phisical damage. Dad needs help and advice. Does anyone have any?
2007-01-08 02:04:06 · 6 answers · asked by In_search_of_bliss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Oh man! My guess would be that she is taking her internal feelings about herself and projecting it out on the children. Sad enough, you and the kids are the target. It's hard to leave I'm sure, being the protector of them and, the children being step-children you couldnt take them when you leave. However, you can move out, call CPS, report this abuse! You cant stop it, how long have you been trying?? She needs help and you cant give it to her. The children need a safe and loving home to live in, your not giving them that by staying.
Report this before it get phisical!
cyn
2007-01-08 03:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by meha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk with Mom, and FAST. Make sure she doesn't hurt any kids, and if things get even worse, call child security. And, as for the Mom, she needs counceling. Just make sure you get the kids away from her, the kids are more important. It makes me sad to see a mother mentally abusing her children. Just get them AWAY. FAST.
2014-07-09 21:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by Carson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your children and leave. Can her mother help? A decent grandmother would have stopped this already.
We are to bless our children, not curse them. Your wife is full of the devil and could be possessed by a demon. This is abnormal behavior.
2007-01-08 10:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
file for custody of the kids and get them out of that situation, emotional abuse is a life long thing, they will need counseling and she needs anger management, and parenting classes...
2007-01-08 10:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it works for kids it should work for adults
SOAP
do us all a favor and grab the kids put them some where safe. then go back and kick some @#$^&##. you know i have to put this one on you as well. you are letting this get to far and now it is out of control, get out and dont go back till she has respect for every one in the house.... WAITE kick her butt out till she can respect everybody in the house....if not, she lives else where like on the street they talk like that she will fit right inn.
2007-01-08 10:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by d1goodman4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need help - your wife does. Sounds like she doesn't like kids! Tell her to knock it off or get counseling. She's very angry about something.
2007-01-08 10:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by Dacious P.I. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋