2007-01-08 01:56:10 · 21 answers · asked by Lisa B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't know what you saw, honestly. You have something that looks pretty damning, though.
How about approaching him to discuss it?
2007-01-08 01:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Who is the "her" in your sentences? There is no need to tell the other woman anything. And there is no need to tell your Mom (assuming that she is the unnamed "her") anything either as just seeing your stepfather with someone may be nothing.
Where did you see them? What were they doing? Are they coworkers? Are they friends? Were they having coffee on the way to work? Was this a business meeting?
2007-01-08 01:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her. It may cause problems but at least she would know. He is making a fool of her. I had a best friend that knew my old man was messing around but she did not tell me. I found out on my own. She confessed that she knew. I still have a hard time with the fact she did not tell me. I was faithful to him. I had opportunities and turned them down thinking that it was the right thing to do. I may have made a different decision had I know the facts;) Peace out.
2007-01-08 02:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think something suspicious is going on, tell your mom that you noticed your step-father with another woman and tell her where you saw them.
Perhaps it is nothing. He might just work with that woman. There might not be anything wrong going on, but at least you talked to your mom and you will feel better.
If something is going on, your mom should know, but do not expect her to do something about it immediately. She might or might not choose to handle the issue. That is her decision and you cannot push her on it.
Take care,
Troy
2007-01-08 02:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he wasn't out on a business lunch or something?
Why don't you talk to your stepfather first? I'm assuming you two get along ok... If not, this may explain why you're quick to jump to conclusions.
2007-01-08 01:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would not get involved in it. You are not sure what they were doing. They could be just friends, co-worker, or just someone he started a conversation with. If you feel like you have to say something. I would ask him something like " hey i drove pass you today. who was that you was with" If his answer sounds shaky i would ask more questions. If he starts to get defensive or angry then you know he was up to no good
2007-01-08 02:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by mr_football2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course. Wouldn't you like to know if you are being cheated on? (if thats the real case here)...Especially since it is your Mom I think that you are talking about.....The guy is a worm if he is doing the cheating thing and you know it.
2007-01-08 02:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by Fergy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the chips fall where they may and tell your mother what you saw. Don't add anything to it; just tell her what you saw.
2007-01-08 02:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who your mom? Only if the other woman was prettier than your mom. If not, she was probably a one-nighter anyway. Good luck
2007-01-08 01:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes, since it is your mom I definitely would. You don't want her to find out and then know that you knew two. Goood luck!!
2007-01-08 01:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by Christina 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋