if you split up with sum1 and had a kid together, would you take the child away from them never to let them see the child again?
I never did anything to deserve this but it happened to me. and i think its very unfair.
2007-01-08 02:00:38 · 11 answers · asked by mech_warrior172003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Never unless their a child molester, every child deserves to no their parents good or bad.....
2007-01-08 02:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends, if the person was an abuser of any kind, then ABSOLUTELY, I would take the child away.
BUT, if not, then I think both parents should be involved in the upbringing. It's a horrible thing to take the child away from a parent, the child will only suffer. I would get a lawyer and pursue this.
Good luck
2007-01-08 10:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by irlefw 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. The child will seek you out later in life. Keep a diary of your thoughts for the child. Buy presents. Write letters. Vidieo tape messages. It is one sided communication but the child will appreciate it later. I am sorry that this happened to you. Peace out.
2007-01-08 10:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Lucy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is SOOOOOOOOO wrong and only hurts the child to not allow the other parent into its life. the only cases where it would be ok is if there was some sort of abuse involved with the said child. But if you did none of those things then its your RIGHT and your childs right to see eachother. im so sorry this is happening to you. i wish you luck
2007-01-08 10:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every child deserves a mother and a father, that's natural, don't punish your child. Let your child have his other parent.
You may not deserve what the scoundrel did but your child is innocent, he/she did nothing.
2007-01-08 10:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I AM SO SORRY!! how horrible! was it court ordered that you can't be with the child or was it the mom? if it wasn't court ordered then you can go to court and hold to your rights to be a parent to the child! GOOD LUCK! hope things work out!
2007-01-08 10:04:36 · answer #6 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY. Why punish the child?
2007-01-08 10:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by Dacious P.I. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. its really unfair. Punishing a child for ur deeds........
2007-01-08 10:08:33 · answer #8 · answered by || SMI || 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to court for your visitation, you're legally entitled to at least joint custody, as long as you weren't abusive, and you're not on drugs/alcohol/gambling or something illegitimate.
2007-01-08 10:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no child support no visitation simple as that if your not helping take care of the child you shouldnt get to see him and YOU ARE NOT HELPING!
2007-01-08 13:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by Tori 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋