Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

My 14 year old daughter thinks she's in love with her boyfriend, she's always with him. I'm worried she might start having sex with him. how can she possibly be in love at her age? How can I get her to slow down?

2007-01-08 07:03:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I like the idea of a lady who is dating someone else using her ex as a slave

2007-01-08 07:03:00 · 12 answers · asked by docile_fool 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok...

Working on planning my Reherasal Dinner... I am wondering who HAS to be invited. I am not close with my Grandmother or my Aunts and Uncles for that matter. They are invited to the wedding but I have no idea if they will come or not.

So do I have to invite the extended family? Should Grandma come.

Also what exactaly happens at a Rehearsal Dinner?

Thanks

2007-01-08 07:02:56 · 16 answers · asked by akholler 3 in Weddings

hi all.. my case is really complicated..
i am 20 years old girl , arabian and persian from Bahrain. i am crazy about spain. My dad promised me that i can go to spain by myself after i graduate from university.. i was thinking to find a cute spanish boyfriend there and to marry him. But the problem is, WHere is HE? its impossible to find a suitable spanish muslim , around my age , coool and perfect in my eyes , good guy !!
what should i do ?
i dont wana any guy from here, i hate them all.. they are stupid and player toooo..
please i need advices ??

2007-01-08 07:02:30 · 7 answers · asked by Princesa De Muerte 2 in Singles & Dating

She always calls me names and puts me down to every 1 including my step kids & his ex's.I am preggo with his baby she tells people it's not his. He respects his mom and refuses to tell her where to go.When i stand up & say something it causes us so many problems.Does any 1 have advise to get her out of my life or get her to shut up.She is miserable and wants me 2 be miserable with her...HELP

2007-01-08 07:01:53 · 30 answers · asked by in desperate need of help 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a sister and i want to know which one is better but i will think there both pretty good.

2007-01-08 07:01:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Where can you find a good man? In church alot of pretender on the streets to many freaks, at work not a good idea if you know what i mean. Strangers may ask you out you don't know who to trust, most of your male friends already married. Everyone said wait and the right guy will come along. STILL WAITING. Any advice biological clock ticking.

2007-01-08 07:01:02 · 9 answers · asked by Ans 3 in Weddings

I loved him. But when he comes around wanting something he loves me sooo much and the next day he says no.
How can i stop being sto stupid?
I cant believe how stupid i have been

2007-01-08 07:01:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I've asked this a few times, but the answers seem to stall out after a while and I'm just trying to get some advice from a bunch of different people....
I've read many posts out there regarding different things that turn me on, but my wife won't go near them, (specifically stockings, high heels) and it seems like many on here really get into that.
Anyone out there know how to help me? (outside of any snide remarks regarding divorce, looking at adult images or movies; etc If we ever do go out..her heels are the first thing off when we get home...even if I try to sweep her off her feet. And this is not all about me...I am asking because we do things her way all the time..she's on top (which I don't mind) and its right before we go to sleep... I should note its only once maybe twice a week that anything actually happens at all.

2007-01-08 07:01:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay this girl likes me but she just broke up with one of my good friends last night...he sid that he didnt care that she broke up with him but i know he does but i do not know what i should do about this one so please help me....THANKS!!!!!!

2007-01-08 07:00:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has not worked in years. I am the sole wage earner, and pay all the bills. I have tried talking to him, reasoning with him, demanding, threatening, all to no avail. I give him $20 a wk. to spend. He takes no responsibility for providing for our family financially, and hasn't for almost 20 yrs. I have a home based business, so don't want to leave. Our kids are grown and gone. He blames me for not "helping him" get a job, as I won't sit down and hold his hand thru the process. I refuse to do this, as it always comes back on me. What steps to take next?? Any ideas would be welcome.

2007-01-08 06:59:28 · 11 answers · asked by Irishgal 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have had my bestfriend for over 7 years. We have grown up through highschool together and gone through a lot. After highschool we hung out all summer like normal. I hate to say it, but I have always had my stuff together more so than her, but finally she is getting her stuff together as well. I am moving out, but she isn't ready monitarily. She just got a job at 24 hour fitness and is gaining a lot of confidence she didnt used to have from her male co workers, who drool over her. She stares in the mirror and wants to work out and be around guys all the time. We used to just chill and talk about fun stuff, now she just talks about her work, and how they flirt, but are too ugly for her, and how she has this crush on some married guy. I don't know, I almost don't like being around her. Is it just me, or what? She seems immature, maybe I am just getting to old?

2007-01-08 06:59:15 · 7 answers · asked by Fran Y 3 in Singles & Dating

so i broke up with me boyfriend on x-mas day..not nice but wat can ya do...anywho him and his friends are in my e-mails..msn...and he even broke into my house...plus hes using other names to try to talk to me...my parents think a restraining order would be a good idea...however i do not know what to do about this..help please..

2007-01-08 06:59:00 · 10 answers · asked by nawti969 2 in Singles & Dating

me and girlfriend thinks about sex allot shes a virgin and i am not i did it once wasn't gd at it but
we talk about sex allot and we do phone sex cybersex we love each other allot we talk about our future plans

kids kissing cuddling is it wrong for us to think about sex so much shes 17 and i am 18 thanx

2007-01-08 06:58:59 · 7 answers · asked by ermaarthur@sbcglobal.net 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 06:58:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What is as sharp as a blade, can cut like a knife, but is not a knife?

2007-01-08 06:58:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been single for over a year now (35, M) and am trying to meet new people, esp. women. I was never the really outgoing "ladies man" type of guy, in fact the few GFs I have had were the result of match.com or just starting off as friends. Well, I have struck out completely over 2 courses of match.com and am not meeting any women. While I may not be the best looking guy on earth, I am not fugly either (tall, great shape, decent looking etc). I keep hearing about how women hit on guys and ask them out, esp. nowadays, which got me thinking...women never approach me to flirt or ask me out when I'm out. Does that mean that I am just not attractive? This stinks, I try to go out, joined classes etc. and I still can't meet any women, and the few times I do, they aren't into me. Feel like giving up...but if I do that frankly I don't want to be around anymore.

2007-01-08 06:57:59 · 6 answers · asked by Atlas 1 in Singles & Dating

My new in laws are stuck in the past with my new hubbys X wife they dont seem to mind to go on and on about what they bought the X for their wedding and seem to think i should sit about talking about her I am not jealous as i have an X too and they are X's for reason my family never mentions mine as they find it disrespectful but my new ones do.MY hubbys X ran around while they were married got herself pregnant .They have been divorced for almost 10 years she still hangs around and she is married but the new in laws say she is part of their happy past.If she was so much of a happy memory why is my hubby not married to her? how do i deal with this as i have told them to stop .My hubby wont visit as this too is upsetting to him but they just dont get it.

2007-01-08 06:57:40 · 5 answers · asked by Donna Marie 2 in Weddings

The guy I was dating said some really rude, mean things to me just because I want a committed relationship with one person. Then he said he doesn't want to be with me that way (even though he says he loves me all the time and wants to be with me all the time).

He said I am strange, difficult to be with and that I am closed minded. No one has ever said anything like that to me before, but it still really bothers me that he said those things and now I feel like everything was my fault, even though I know that it wasn't. How can I make myself feel better? I now know that he isn't right for me, but he just always knows how to shift the blame back on me so that it feels like I was wrong...

2007-01-08 06:57:19 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

if you where 26 and a woman would you go out wiht a 22 year old mature guy ?? if not why

2007-01-08 06:56:45 · 29 answers · asked by davenewman21 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems latley that all I can think about is getting it done. I am not asking this to be sick or anything but is it normal to just want to have sex all the time? My husband seems a bit angry at me and a little worn out. He gets mad at the littlest things and I was wondering if that had to do with the fact that I want to have sex all the time. Not all the time but often and he seems to be distant. He wont let me kiss him as much or for a long period of time. I don't know if there is something wrong with me because I think about it more than my husband. I didn't think men thought there was such a thing as too much sex. As a wife, is there anything I can do to make this better besides giving up on trying to have sex?

2007-01-08 06:56:34 · 49 answers · asked by The T Cozy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 06:56:24 · 34 answers · asked by ♥ sweet-n-low ♥ 2 in Weddings

because if the foundation is weak, the relation just becomes an obligation.

or should it be compromise

2007-01-08 06:56:14 · 12 answers · asked by Razor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 06:56:14 · 5 answers · asked by Giggly Giraffe 7 in Singles & Dating

I am 28 and he is 31-we have been married for four years.

I have told him before that it bothers me and he says he won't do it , but come to find out he still looks at it.

Please give me some insightful answers! Thanks!

2007-01-08 06:56:09 · 20 answers · asked by indymama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Help...its sorta a ''race'' thing.......losts of answers please. I really need opinions.?
Okay. I am like, white, and I guess I have been always hvaing crushes on white guys. Not racist, but hey, they were what i was attracted too. Now this new thing...I am not into white guys anymore. I am into indian guys. Like, darkish skin, beautiful accents, thick black hair... I realyl wonder is this just a phase. I thought so....but now I'm not sure. I mean, I am currently in a relationship with Saavan, my bf, who I have been attracted to more then any white guy. I am definetly not racist to whites----I am white.
I am not trying to be racist to ANY race.
But what do you think. I suddenly think the indians are beautiful people..they're languages...traditions...........

Do you think this is a phase, or something that will stay?

ps, This by ''indian'' I mean they ones from india..not native americans so much.

2007-01-08 06:56:08 · 7 answers · asked by ~ Lillie ~ 4 in Singles & Dating

I see this guy fairly often but I'd rather avoid it because its been hard to not think of him since I made the decision to be with bf. I think there is or was a spark between the other guy and me but now I'll never know but that doesn't make it easier to forget. I seen him the other day and I couldn't duck into the office soon enough. So we xchanged the usual 'hi, hows it goin' then I was gone only to regret not speaking to him because I really wanted to.

2007-01-08 06:56:04 · 3 answers · asked by Katy 1 in Singles & Dating

i asked my boy friend about his suspious behaviour and he told me that he was planning a romantic night out for his mum and dad for their wedding anniversary and he didnt tell me because he wanted it to be a real surprize. but then the next day he forgot his mobile phone i didnt realise it until i heard it ring ,it was a text ,i cant remember what it exactly said but it was something like you promised you would be there and choose!im praying it isnt from a woman but it seems pretty obvious! i dont want to ask him about it because he might think i stole his phone to check on him ,i dont want to lose him ,but is it too late to sort things out???

2007-01-08 06:55:53 · 14 answers · asked by louise b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Some friends lie to me and i hate it and i know when she lie's cause she starts smiling and laughing and i hate when my friends lie to me and my friend likes lieing to people thats why im not really that good of friends with her i need some advice?

2007-01-08 06:55:27 · 11 answers · asked by heather h 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and My Ex Went out for 6 months And i Really Loved Him we Broke up Like 1 month ago and im really sad Cause its not funn without him I know i Should ask for him back and i dont wanna cause he's going out with another girl which by the way shes my friend But i dont wanna take him away from her just to be with me Should i ask for him back or just leave him alone ?

2007-01-08 06:55:11 · 9 answers · asked by Mizz.. Not under stood 1 in Singles & Dating