Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

My wife and I have been together for just over 5 years now, almost 3 of them we have been married. She has 2 wonderful twin boys whom I love very much, they call me Daddy, the whole nine yards. I treat them like they were my own.
I think I love her but I know I'm not in love with her. Lately we have nothing to talk about to each other. I come home and she is usually on the phone or watching TV, the house is a huge mess and nothing has been done. Yes I understand she works "part time" but its only 5-6 hours a day while I'm working 12-15 hours a day to pay for HER car and HER past due credit cards, none of this stuff is mine, she brought it into the marriage. Its like she expects me to bust my butt so she doesn't have to. I feel cheated on the deal. I make close to $1200 every 2 weeks and she makes $100-$110 a week. Not much.
When it comes to sex I have no desire to do anything with her at all. We go to bed and the fire is out. What should I do? I talked to her and nothing worked.

2007-01-08 07:16:03 · 15 answers · asked by doughboy09bravo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i love this guy so very much but sometimes i fell that he keep stuff from me..... i want to be with him and i don't want to be with him i just know what to do HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-08 07:15:58 · 11 answers · asked by Larissa ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Whats average

2007-01-08 07:15:39 · 3 answers · asked by superjohnson 1 in Singles & Dating

in a relationship...

2007-01-08 07:15:16 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Dad has my original copy of my change of name document and i am trying to get a provisional driving licence. So i can start my driving lessons, but i am unable to get one because you have to send the original and i dont have one.

I cant get another original as there is only one which my parents have and wont give me back.

is there anyway i can get around this, without contacting him an causeing more trouble between us than there is already.

2007-01-08 07:14:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-08 07:14:47 · 15 answers · asked by rapstar 3 in Singles & Dating

YES OR NO

2007-01-08 07:14:06 · 5 answers · asked by SUPERMAN 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a foot/shoe/boot fetish and can support the weight of up to 150kg's

2007-01-08 07:13:33 · 4 answers · asked by docile_fool 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 07:13:33 · 9 answers · asked by saaqibmom 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This could relate to anything we are tempted by.

Do we crave and want the very things we cannot have more, because we cannot have them?

2007-01-08 07:13:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she asked.."how much money do you make?"...i just said nice/but firmly..."Oh, i feel that is personal...i do not tell people...she says ..oh....NOW SHE ASKS OVER THE PHONE...WHAT ARE YOU HOUSE PAYMENTS?...i said.."wow, i consider that private information.."..she gets snotty...( i realize she is trying to protect her brother, but that is BOLD...and she should realize we are not going to be friends...just acquaintances...)WOULD IT BE A GOOD IDEA TO TELL MY BOYFRIEND WHAT SHE SAID???? because i thought it was INTRUSIVE...YOU'VE ONLY BEEN DATING 3 MONTHS...wow!!!

2007-01-08 07:12:12 · 19 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Family

touch

2007-01-08 07:12:00 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here is some background information on the couple:
Ages: girl=19 guy=17 (18 in March)
Length of relationship: 2 1/2 years
Both are Christians and want to please God.
Girl is currently in college and the guy is graduating from high school this May and going on to college.

Should they get married anytime soon? Should they wait until they both graduate from college? Should they get married during college? Any other insight?

Thanks!

2007-01-08 07:11:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 07:11:44 · 14 answers · asked by yjrarmendariz 1 in Family

My ex boyfriend died almost 2 years ago. and i am having the hardest time getting over it and i dont know what to do about it. My friends are always there to help me through it and i always have his family. But i just want to try and get over it... but i dont know how. How would you do it?

2007-01-08 07:11:25 · 16 answers · asked by Chelsea P 1 in Friends

2007-01-08 07:11:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I work and live in the US and have a french gf whom I love very much.We are in a long-distance relationship.We've dated for over a year and things are good between us but lately there have been some problems and i don't know how to handle them.My mom lives with me and doesn't like her.I have tried to talk to her but everytime i end up disappointed.I think she should go back to India and stay there with family where she will be in better health and people.She stays sick here most of the time.I pay for my brother's tution and take care of my mother.But i feel sometimes that i am being held back because i m being forced to live a certain way and act a certain way according to wat my family and mom prefers.I don't want to abandon her but at the same time i want my freedom and my gf who is ready to give up france, friends and family for me.I've met her parents and they r nice ppl.I m only 22 and young to be taking care of others when i can't do wat i want and move ahead in life like this.

2007-01-08 07:10:21 · 7 answers · asked by tiger 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it genetic?will i become a nag some day?

2007-01-08 07:09:51 · 35 answers · asked by Jessy A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i have been living together for 6 months. we have been fighting alot lately. he asked me to move out but i refuse to because i have 3 kids and no where to go? he has been paying the rent but now i want to make a deal with him until i move out. the problem is that he paid this months rent and i refuse to give him anything. iam right or wrong? what can make it easier for us if we both refuse to move out.

2007-01-08 07:08:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you don't have anything nice to say don't e mail me help me or don't read what i write

2007-01-08 07:08:13 · 43 answers · asked by Larissa ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i went on this date last night.
It was a first date so i was wondering how it would go.
I took her to the movies and we talked to each other through the whole thing mkin jokes. dont worry there was no one near us to annoy! then it was like 12 at night so i dropped her home.
she got out of that car so quick i think i heard the roadrunner beep beep noise. but she said to txt her!
So i went home and about 40mins later i txt to say i had a great time and she said so did she and it was nice to c me.
so i left it there and was planning to ring her in like 3 days but she txt me today!! i cant tell if she likes me or not!!! very confusing!!!! can u guys help? thanks for bothering to read this small book lol!!!

2007-01-08 07:07:52 · 16 answers · asked by blondestring 1 in Singles & Dating

i keep sayin no, can we wait and see how it goes. things are good the way they are!
i cant bring myself to say yes, is there sumthing wrong with me?
and will he get bored of me and just give up and leave..? i dont want that either.... help!

2007-01-08 07:07:04 · 26 answers · asked by laulyl86 1 in Singles & Dating

We dont have a commitment, so I dont have the right to question it. What would you do honestly?

2007-01-08 07:06:40 · 19 answers · asked by John's Lady 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont know whaere to go, or where to start. but its ergent that i find him soon. i need to get in contact with him ASAP. Please help me, and give me as much information as you can.

2007-01-08 07:06:28 · 5 answers · asked by Payghling 1 in Family

Lately I have really been interested in girls. I am married but have been with women before. Is it wrong I get so turned on my other women?

2007-01-08 07:06:21 · 11 answers · asked by jUsTmE 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 07:05:47 · 19 answers · asked by jureesa 1 in Singles & Dating

I am planning the games for my friends Stag and Doe...what are some good games. We have decided to do a 50-50 draw and draws for stuff. Please provide games that you have tried and they worked good for people who may have been drinking :)

2007-01-08 07:05:45 · 3 answers · asked by STACEY W 1 in Weddings

well ive fancied this boy for 1 yr and we are good friends but i find it hard to talk to him in a proper conversation. he talks to my best mate on msn and they talk about me, and hes said stuff like hes embarrassed of me because i laugh for no reason and im hyper for no reason but he says that when im hyper and he feels upset it cheers him up. my mate also asked if he fancies me or not, the first time he said he doesn't know, the second time he didn't say anything he just changed the subject do you think he fancies me or not?

2007-01-08 07:04:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

isn't it weird when you've known someone your entire life. like you always used to see them when you were really little, but now you don't see them anymore. and then suddenly one day you see them, and that person stares at you non-stop? especially if they are of the opposite gender?

so yeah... isn't that weird, especially if you've known them since childhood? well it may not be weird for everyone, and i know it happens often, but for me it kinda is.

2007-01-08 07:04:09 · 4 answers · asked by starbucksluvrxoxo 3 in Friends

Ok why does the question or some derivative there of keep appearing..."I am dating my friends ex-?" or "My friend is dating my Ex...?" Why oh why can't people just find other friends and or boyfriends and girlfriends? I see this every day and I don't know why these people can't figure it out. Figure it out geez!!

2007-01-08 07:03:52 · 3 answers · asked by jim 4 in Singles & Dating