Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

i met a boy at a rock band day camp and me and him clicked really fast, he plays drums, and i play guitar. but the problem is i forgot to ask him for his aim or phone number. so now i feel like i can't even like another boy. He lives somewhere in my area i'm gussing but he goes to another school. i don't want to be stalker and get his phone number from the camp. my sister thinks i'm crazy and obsessive, but something happened that i've never felt with anyone else. i'm usually extremely quiet and i don't have a lot of friends, so you can guess that how my luck with boys is. please help!!!!

2007-01-08 07:24:28 · 18 answers · asked by TnT 1 in Singles & Dating

I was separated in November of 2005, permanently. No relations, barely any contact, just for kids etc. I obviously took time out NOT dating for me and getting clear etc. I consider myself divorced, obviously.. she does also, and is even practicly having my 2 boys call a new boyfriend "Step-Daddy"! Fine..

If people ask me if I am married or divorced. Is it ok just to say divorced?

I mean I do not want to have to go into the details of our divorce is going to trial etc..

Esspecially in dating.. can I just say divorced?
I think separated has a different conotation in that the couple may or may not get together. And me/we are not. 0 chance.

2007-01-08 07:23:37 · 44 answers · asked by DanjoHart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I love to turn on my wife -bubble baths,massages, trips,and she has never refused me within reason. So what can I do to make her feel vibrant again?

2007-01-08 07:23:25 · 12 answers · asked by BKN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 07:22:55 · 11 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

I know that if you have been married before, you must get it annuled before marrying in a catholic church. I'm wondering... how does the church know if you've been married before? The reason is... my husband-to-be was married before, when he was very young, to a foreign girl. It was basically so she could get citizenship. It was a good friend of his and I am okay with this. Please don't judge.

The problem is, my family doesn't know about this previous incident of his, and they would be VERY upset if they knew. I am Catholic and want to get married in my church. My fiance says we just don't have to tell them. He says they're not the government or the mafia so they'll only know what we tell them. I know lying about this is not the best thing to do, but I'm slightly desperate. Is there any way for the church to find out about this previous marriage?

Or... how quiet and private is the annulment? Would my family ever find out? Any help is appreciated.

2007-01-08 07:22:48 · 14 answers · asked by Natrasha77 1 in Weddings

I love to turn on my wife -bubble baths,massages, trips,and she has never refused me within reason. So what can I do to make her feel vibrant again?

2007-01-08 07:22:08 · 11 answers · asked by BKN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A good friend of mine has finally left her abusive husband....I've been divorced for almost a year.
Her and I have both admitted that we want to be together, but I know that she needs some time alone to get her life together. I will be there as a friend for now, and wait till she is ready to move things further.
I know she has the hots for me right now, and want to make sure that her feelings stay like that, but I don't want to push it too far while she is vulnerable and still dealing with the custody battle, etc.
So the question is simple: How do I keep her interested enough so that she WILL want me when she's ready, but not interested enough to do something stupid that we will both regret later.

P.S. I'm new here....this is a great site!

2007-01-08 07:22:01 · 4 answers · asked by Paul L 1 in Singles & Dating

She is not sure!!!

2007-01-08 07:21:50 · 5 answers · asked by german girl 1 in Singles & Dating

all these bf/gf questions, who can help?

2007-01-08 07:21:45 · 8 answers · asked by SEAHAWK 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 07:21:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WTF IM SO ERIOUS RIGHT NOW.

2007-01-08 07:21:41 · 8 answers · asked by Zero 1 in Singles & Dating

I love to turn on my wife -bubble baths,massages, trips,and she has never refused me within reason. So what can I do to make her feel vibrant again?

2007-01-08 07:21:30 · 14 answers · asked by BKN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i rily fancy this boy but im not sure if he fancies me back he said im a bit hyper and laugh for no reason to my mate, my mate asked him if he fancies me or not but he just changed the subject, i am good friends with and i madly like him but i get nervous when i talk to him, my friends say i should tell him i like him but i get to nervous, he doesnt talk to me much but he talks about me to my best mate. recently he asked my best friend out but she rejected him because she knows i like him so much, do you think this boy fancies me or not?

2007-01-08 07:21:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

back?
He will tell me all - he has changed buy me stuff and I know he wont ever change.
How to stop being so dumb and naive?

2007-01-08 07:21:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a problem, my 21st birthday is coming up in Feb. My problem is my husband doesn't drink anymore ( bad temper) and hasn't for more than a year. But I would like to get drunk, just for fun. But I think it would put him in a bad state of mind if I came home drunk. ( maybe he would get mad and start drinking again) Any ideas on what else I could do or should I just go out and have fun, and hope for the best. Did anyone else not drink on their 21st birthday? I want to have fun but not at the risk of hurting my marriage.

2007-01-08 07:20:35 · 12 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5 in Marriage & Divorce

hi...
im wondring when do guys (Males) feel lonely ??? and what do they do about it ?

Thanx

2007-01-08 07:19:55 · 15 answers · asked by Non_SEnse 3 in Singles & Dating

Hello. I'm 23 years old. I have a 21 month old daughter and a 5 1/2 month old son. I have been married for 3 1/2 years now. About 3 years ago, my husband and I hit a very low point in our lives, financially speaking. Every since then I have had a very low sex drive. With the stress and sadness and unhappiness weighing on me, it sort of decreased dramatically. Since then, things have gotten better, but I still don't even think about it half the time. I can go months without having sex, but my husband needs it on a regular basis. Can anyone tell me what may be wrong and how to fix this?

2007-01-08 07:19:19 · 9 answers · asked by Ticia27701 1 in Marriage & Divorce

they also happen to be in love but the girl is simple and he is married,says marrying second time for reasons understandable& now that itslove he is all the more after her but i havea feeling he might not keep her happy as wife number two(acceptable inmuslims).Tell me ways to know he is not lying about future promises and how can the young girl's happiness be ensured.help people with genuin answers.

2007-01-08 07:19:12 · 8 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 07:18:49 · 15 answers · asked by rusco21 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-08 07:18:44 · 20 answers · asked by Leslie S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 07:18:36 · 8 answers · asked by saaqibmom 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my boyfriend live together. we have a good relationship except for the fact that he never wants to have sex. He is 29 and im 24 . I consider myself a very pretty girl. but when it comes down to me wanting to kiss my boyfriend passionatly. he always thinks i want more and pushes me away. I one day asked him if he were cheating because i didnt know what else it would be. He said no and we had a huge fight over it because i asked such a horrible thing.. that's done with but he still doesnt want to touch me.. He always says " its the wrong time , and my mind isnt into it" .. i try to start things when hes not working, like when were just watching t.v, or when were in bed, or at a time when he's not stressing over work, but its like he only wants sex 1 time every 2 weeks.. I dont get it? He always tells me he loves me very much and he tells me he wants to be with me forever, but he alwasy make up any reason to say no. like my head hurts, im tired, i dont want to, i have to work.ect

2007-01-08 07:18:19 · 16 answers · asked by shellz23 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

And how did you deal with it? I'm 27 and have found over the past few years that it's impossible to communicate and understand my parents, as hard as I try to be respectful and not take things too personal. I live 2000 miles away from home and my mom has said I'm the one that left and they haven't changed at all. I see her point, but that doesn't make it easier to share my feelngs. Thanks for your suggestions!

2007-01-08 07:17:50 · 12 answers · asked by Andrea K 2 in Family

2007-01-08 07:17:41 · 16 answers · asked by meagan b 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 07:17:27 · 6 answers · asked by Fake Your Death 3 in Singles & Dating

We had a simple verbal agreement. Now the mother is controling the situation b/c she has legal custody. Is there anything I can do?

2007-01-08 07:17:07 · 6 answers · asked by dunit73 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It is a lifestyle for me, and has been for over a decade, for health, comfort, and spiritual reasons. Read on if curious.

I know many folks find it strange, rude, or even unsanitary to go to an eatery barefoot. As for the latter, it is simply untrue. . .At least for a true barefooter like myself. After all, my feet do not touch the food, nor can I spread any more germs than shoe-wearers - I wash my feet thrice a day (how many x are shoes washed?). As for fungus, I can't spread that either, as I could never contract it, because I do not stuff my feet into damp, moist, warm environs like shoes, where fungi thrive. As for looks, what's the difference between two straps covering the tops of one's feet and one's feet being bare? Being barefoot all the time, everywhere, is a passion of mine, and an eccentricity, that's all. So, would you mind?

2007-01-08 07:16:58 · 45 answers · asked by Philip Kiriakis 5 in Singles & Dating

Why do guys have to pay for everything on dates?

2007-01-08 07:16:55 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 07:16:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. Only answer if you are engaged or married

Ok how many of you women have a little bit of a fear going into this? Are you nervous? Scared youre making the wrong choice? Are any of you a little scared that your days of going out and flirting and all that are over?
Be completely honest with yourself and tell me the fears youre having before marriage!

2007-01-08 07:16:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce