they also happen to be in love but the girl is simple and he is married,says marrying second time for reasons understandable& now that itslove he is all the more after her but i havea feeling he might not keep her happy as wife number two(acceptable inmuslims).Tell me ways to know he is not lying about future promises and how can the young girl's happiness be ensured.help people with genuin answers.
2007-01-08 07:19:12 · 8 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is terrible! Who in their right mind would settle to be wife number two? Do they really think wife number one is going to be kind to wife number two? There are enough men in the world that this woman should be able to find her own husband and not need to share with someone else. If he is really in love with her, he needs to leave his first wife.
2007-01-08 07:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by shannon d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess would be the money. But I have to say - I myself am married to someone 16 years older than me. I did not lack a father figure, I did not need a "sugar daddy" - he just knew how to treat me right. Again - that's just me - since there was mention of #3 having a lot of money - my guess would be money. Any older man is willing to spend it all just to have a young "prize" wife on his arm. Sad.
2016-03-29 16:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is married already and is gonna marry another that is bigamy in the us and even if he is a muslim living in the us its still against the law in the us you can only have 1 wife.
2007-01-08 07:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the man is currently already married, I would be highly suspicious of his motives. If he was divorced or widowed, it would be an entirely different consideration. Be cautious on this one.....
2007-01-08 07:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but getting involved with a married man is always bad new, he is legally comitted to someone else!
2007-01-08 07:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by cowgrl3611 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need ways to know. He is just after sex with a younger woman and nothing more.
2007-01-08 07:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the whole polygomy thing just baffles me. i could never be happy sharing my man, regardless of what my rank was.
2007-01-08 07:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure he is LOADED!
2007-01-08 07:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋