Hello. I'm 23 years old. I have a 21 month old daughter and a 5 1/2 month old son. I have been married for 3 1/2 years now. About 3 years ago, my husband and I hit a very low point in our lives, financially speaking. Every since then I have had a very low sex drive. With the stress and sadness and unhappiness weighing on me, it sort of decreased dramatically. Since then, things have gotten better, but I still don't even think about it half the time. I can go months without having sex, but my husband needs it on a regular basis. Can anyone tell me what may be wrong and how to fix this?
2007-01-08 07:19:19 · 9 answers · asked by Ticia27701 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You could be suffering depression. That is a major cause for women to lose their sex drive. See a doctor and TALK about your problem. There is help out there and you will find you are back in the swing of things before too long.
2007-01-08 07:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been going through the same thing and I think that when a woman has too much of all the things you said thats what happens. I would rather go to sleep than to have to put the energy into that.You need to talk to your husband and tell him that you feel like if you had more help and not so much worry that it might fix this problem. I have even thought about selling my home to take the stress from the huge house payment away. You are not alone. Hang in there it could be your horemones to go get those checked first.
2007-01-08 07:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are going through. But you have to remember that your husband has needs, and while you may not be able to do it several times a week, you have to meet him halfway. Try setting the mood. Get someone to take the kids for an evening, and cook a nice dinner or go out to eat. Then dance to some soft music, whatever it is that can create a romantic atmosphere. You pledged your life to this man and you owe it to him to make him happy, and there are times when you have to put your feelings aside in the interest of your marriage.
2007-01-08 07:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have lost the respect that you once had for your husband.....The Finances is what did it......We women have to be secure or everything falls apart and once that security goes away we lose respect for ourselves and spouse.....I went through this and I promise it will get better.....The money will be there and when you get to that point you will be asking how did we make it - It just seems to be so tight that you can't breathe....Remember You married Him because you Loved Him and you still Do.....Focus on Him and the love that you have for each other and you will Get Hungry for Him again....
2007-01-08 07:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 00:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by minogue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have more on your mind than sex. Try doing mind exercizes to get your head back into it, think about it. Also, exercize is proven to release feel good endorphines to your brian which can help with feeling more "in the mood" if you don't already.
2007-01-08 07:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by nightstar114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like you should speak with your doctor and he/she will probably subscribe something. Maybe you should have your husband do things that turn you on
2007-01-08 07:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are depressed and need a little pick me up with medication!!
2007-01-08 07:22:08 · answer #8 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you need some advise from your doctor on this one, it may be a hormone imbalance
2007-01-08 07:22:33 · answer #9 · answered by sissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋