I love to turn on my wife -bubble baths,massages, trips,and she has never refused me within reason. So what can I do to make her feel vibrant again?
2007-01-08 07:23:25 · 12 answers · asked by BKN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Women need to feel that emotional connection.....sure, you can separate emotional from the physical, but we can't. In order to have great orgasms, we need connection...love, compassion, security...maybe you're trying too hard. Back off a little and let things happen. Maybe she needs to talk about stuff that's bothering her (work, home, kids, you, etc?). Talk with her. Level with her. Make her feel wanted. We love talking about our emotions.
2007-01-08 07:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. It may have nothing to do with you and there may be nothing you can do. For example if she's under a lot of pressure or has a lot on her mind it may be hard for her to tune out to all of that. I had a month at work where I was under a great deal of pressure. I couldn't help myself that everytime my husband and I made love, I had a running to-do list in my mind. I made a point of letting my husband know it had nothing to do with him I was just too distracted. Sometimes this stuff just happens.
2007-01-08 15:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by CA DIVA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude like come on do some thing exotic stop the romantic stuff will like don't really stop it just give it a break and start with the erotic stuff to spice up the sex life a bit Kamasutra and that kind of stuff and try to use some arousing products they work u can get them from the net or the local XXX store but search the net i think its better wish u all the best and tell us what happens.
2007-01-08 15:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by d.i.c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not know what is going on in your lives. I have to ask first, have you talked to your wife to find out what is going on? Is there a possibility that she is currently unhappy with her present physical condition/appearance? This can really wreck havoc on a woman's desire to be intimate and truly has nothing to do with being turned on by you. But it can be embarassing for a woman to come out and say because it may appear that once she does, it will be true! If you know what I mean.
If you can rule this out, perhaps something else physical is going on with her. I do not know your ages or length of marriage to comment on this subject.
2007-01-08 15:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is over 40, she could be going through menopause. You need to have this conversation with your wife. Once the man takes the questions outside of the marriage, that's a sign that it's in trouble. You need to have a discussion with you wife. Maybe you could explain to her why it's easier for you to share her intimate details with strangers on the internet.
2007-01-08 15:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Give a lot of foreplay without giving up the real stuff for a couple of weeks...then when you do she'll explode!!!
2007-01-08 15:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by tx girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
watch some porn together or get some sex toys. or try some new things like tieing her to the bed. they got these kits where u can strap her down. one end goes on her hands or feet . the other end goes under the bed. dunno just a suggestion. give her some head too. that always turns mine on.
2007-01-08 15:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Keep doing what your doing!! Try doing it in different positions, Let her ride it that may get her to have a orgasm
2007-01-08 15:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by sw312 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
She need to see her OB GYN. it has to be something wrong, maybe they can take care of it. It may be depression or whatever, just go see the doctor.
Best Of luck
2007-01-08 15:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by Nicki 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Love and orgasms are not linked, silly!!
2007-01-08 15:26:06 · answer #10 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋