well ive fancied this boy for 1 yr and we are good friends but i find it hard to talk to him in a proper conversation. he talks to my best mate on msn and they talk about me, and hes said stuff like hes embarrassed of me because i laugh for no reason and im hyper for no reason but he says that when im hyper and he feels upset it cheers him up. my mate also asked if he fancies me or not, the first time he said he doesn't know, the second time he didn't say anything he just changed the subject do you think he fancies me or not?
2007-01-08 07:04:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
time will tell , the thing is do you like him.
2007-01-08 07:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by dendeedenise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really know were you are coming from because I've been stuck with this boy named Eric for three long years. and the stuff he says about you Eric has said about me. but you have to realize that if a boy doesn't want to express his feelings to you then if you ever get into a relationship there are going to be a lot of trust issues. but then again he might just be a little bit nerves because he has never felt this way about another female. but just give it some time the truth will come out one day it might take a long time but you can wait.
2007-01-08 07:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by Badydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you fancy him then ask him out. We're not Victorians so it's ok. Be prepared for his resonse (yes or no).
Sometimes people confuse love and lust. If he will accept NO as an answer to his "advances" and still wants to go out with you then it's love. If he gets pushy and stroppy when you say "NO" then it's just lust and you should politely drop him. This also applies to girl advances to boys.
Having said that, don't be a teaser - it's cruel and a sure way to get a yourself a bad reputation.
2007-01-08 07:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the looks of it...
You'll have to calm yourself down a bit when you're around him.I don't mean to offend you.I'm a wackjob, myself.Be funny and humurous around him, everyone likes a comedian.Cheer him up with your hyperpowers when he's sad.
As for the liking part.
Maybe he likes you as a friend.
Maybe more.
He's probably not telling your mate his true feelings because he knows she'll tell you.
Good luck.Stay friends.It could grow as time passes.
2007-01-08 07:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a boys point of view. You should probably try to be yourself. It's hard to tell if likes you as a friend or a girlfriend. I think he probably needs more of a sign from you that your intrested. You could just ask him how he feels to.
2007-01-08 07:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by gman25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does and maybe he doesn't, but never assume. I doubt he 'loves' you as it sounds like he probably doesn't even know you very well. If he hasn't approached you though, asked you out, tried to have a conversation, something....then he's probably not interested. It would be best to focus on someone else instead. Good Luck
2007-01-08 07:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking him is the hardest thing..but the only chance of you getting a striaght answer..or ask someone to add him on msn and ask him if he likes anyone..if you dont ask him..you'll get hurt..if you ask him you MIGHT get hurt..either way you'll lose..so just try it..i know tha pain you get in love is hard...but people get through...just try asking or do the inside undercover thing lol..i pray with all my heart you find out and that he loves you =D thats if you want him too lol
2007-01-08 07:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Saммч ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like me! being hyper and stuff lol! i think he likes you! not love! but likes and thats a very good thing! u make him happy! you go girl! tell your mate to sort of hint, but not make it too obvious, that you fancy him! good luck xx
2007-01-08 07:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by Spinach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hangs out with you and does nice things for you then he loves you. Boys are less mature than girls so he is probably very shy about it. But you should be able to tell based on his actions. If you are brave, try discussing it with him sometime.
2007-01-08 07:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me thinks he might fancy your mate...sorry!
2007-01-08 07:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by flyingconfused 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to tell. Boys are so confusing sometimes.
2007-01-08 07:07:33 · answer #11 · answered by stephanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋