We dont have a commitment, so I dont have the right to question it. What would you do honestly?
2007-01-08 07:06:40 · 19 answers · asked by John's Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly if we were commited i wouldnt care!!! i mean hes here wit me not her so i wouldnt be jealous!!!
2007-01-08 07:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just his charming way of saying, "I have zero respect for you, so while I am banging you, I'll be taking calls from other broads in my booty call ho lineup - which you are a member of, even if you don't know it. While I'm at it, I might as well p*ss on you too if the mood strikes me. That's what I think of you."
What a doll - he's a real keeper!
Best thing to do? Hang around for a year or two, complain to your girlfriends -- but keep giving him all the p*ssy he wants while you bellyache -- and then CALL HIM some night so he can talk to you while he's banging the NEXT DITZ.
2007-01-08 07:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all its called respect and if he dont have that for you then you need to move on and find someone who does, Second of all i see that you say that you are his lady, so what do you mean when you say that yall dont have a commitment? If he is your man and you are is woman that is enough commitment right there. And personally i wouldnt fool with him anymore. If a man dont have respect for you then you are nothing to him.
2007-01-08 07:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by twelve_play_xxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would make me very uncomfortable. I would be tempted not to go back even though there is no commitment I still feel he should be more courteous. If you don't know who she was and you were wondering then I guess it gets harder because there is no subtle way of finding that out.
I would stop going over unless I was sure I could deal with it being possibly someone he will be seeing as well.
2007-01-08 07:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time, YOU answer the phone while breathing very heavy. I'll bet that will put an end to it. If it's a camera phone, get a picture of the 2 of you, send it back showing the reason he can't answer the phone.
2007-01-08 07:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by johN p. aka-Hey you. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if there is not any commitment there as you stated then you really have no grounds to stand on--BUT if you have feelings starting to grow for him and say later he returns this to you and he is still receiving calls (and taking them) then be concerned--till then ???? Well all is fare in love and war
2007-01-08 07:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there before, HATED IT, and din't sleep a wink while it was going on...all it will do is eat at you unless you are nieve...If you aren't in too deep i would walk away and wait till it clears up.....at least that will show him that you aren't going to deal with that and then he can decide what to do, if he really wants you or not
2007-01-08 07:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you two aren't married doesn't give him any right to be playing you for a fool. Fine if he has female friends but there's something wrong when she has to call non stop.
2007-01-08 07:14:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he answer? If he doesent he has no commitment to her either and is playing the both of you. Ask him the deal
2007-01-08 07:10:00 · answer #9 · answered by sw312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want commitment ask for it,if u dont leave him alone and move on who u would feel committed to or want to be committed to.
2007-01-08 07:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by marsha w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either suck it up, or move on, or make a request that he not answer the phone while in bed with you. That's pretty rude and inconsiderate.
2007-01-08 07:09:06 · answer #11 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋