i keep sayin no, can we wait and see how it goes. things are good the way they are!
i cant bring myself to say yes, is there sumthing wrong with me?
and will he get bored of me and just give up and leave..? i dont want that either.... help!
2007-01-08 07:07:04 · 26 answers · asked by laulyl86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's nothing wrong w/your hesitating to say yes to your guy's request that you be official boyfriend/girlfriend. There's no predicting what this guy may or may not do, although guys do get bored rather easily. That could happen even if you were quick to say yes. But, it sounds like you like the guy and want to see what develops. It's okay to tell him that. You can also tell him that you want to give your relationship time before committing--he should understand. Good Luck
2007-01-08 07:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys have been exclussive to each other for 4 months, then sorry to break it to you but you kinda bf/gf. At least in his mind. I guess it's a good thing you remind him about you not wanting a boyfriend. It's kinda more like you guys are friends with rights. If he is looking for something serious though, and he does not see it happening with you, perhaps he will move on. Unless you are seeing other people besides him, why dont you give each other a chance?
2007-01-08 07:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Hotcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't bring your self to say yes after 4 months you probably never will. Don't waste his time. I had someone do that to me once and I stuck around for an entire year hoping that he would change his mind, but he never did. I wish I had decided to end things sooner and get on with my life.
2007-01-08 07:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by MyQA's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not go for it well ,you may find nothing will change and the realtionship still runs smoothly.
it depends on how long and on how much hes been asking it doesnt really seem like you want a relationship at the moment so why not just step back and think about things whatever decision you make im sure its the right one
2007-01-08 07:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself what you are so scared of to be considered bf/gf. After you come up with a good reason to be or not to be that should tell you and give him the answer of yes or know.
2007-01-08 07:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you care for him, and dont want to date anyone else,,,, that would be the reasons for officially being girlfriend/boyfriend, it really doesnt change you as a couple,,,, it just makes a public statement and a statement to each other,,,, of where the relationship is at,,,,,,,,, if you dont care seriously for him and/or you do wish to be free to date other people, keep saying no
2007-01-08 07:11:27 · answer #6 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been 4 months. If you like him then why not. you do not have to have sex with him or anything just because you are his girlfriend. I dont think he will get bored of you. He seems to like you alot in order to want to be your boyfriend.
2007-01-08 07:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by jacksonvillegarycollins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Official? You would think your already official after 4 months.
2007-01-08 07:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say that you don't want him to get bored with you and just get up and leave, but yet you drag him on and wont be his girlfriend??
yes, there is something wrong with you!
if you want to be his girlfriend, JUST SAY YES, and if not, then let him get bored and walk away from you, then you will realize that you cant have your cake and eat it too!!
2007-01-08 07:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 10:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by raper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋