i think its pretty obvious!!???

Question

i asked my boy friend about his suspious behaviour and he told me that he was planning a romantic night out for his mum and dad for their wedding anniversary and he didnt tell me because he wanted it to be a real surprize. but then the next day he forgot his mobile phone i didnt realise it until i heard it ring ,it was a text ,i cant remember what it exactly said but it was something like you promised you would be there and choose!im praying it isnt from a woman but it seems pretty obvious! i dont want to ask him about it because he might think i stole his phone to check on him ,i dont want to lose him ,but is it too late to sort things out???

Answer 1

Maybe the text is something to do with the surprise,eg,a restaurant and he was choosing the right table.a hotel and he was choosing the room ,choosing the right flowers,it could be anything,why are you assuming its a woman,Im not saying it isnt ,but you have to give him the benefit of the doubt.
Surely by now you have given him his phone back and he knows you have seen that text?

Answer 2

Is there anything else making you suspious? Maybe watch his behaviour over the next few weeks? I know it's snooping but can you check his fone to see if there are any names you don't recognise? If your intuition is trying to tell you something it's usually right. I ignored mine recently and boy did I pay the price!

Answer 3

Well, in this day and age, I think its a little odd that he conveniently forgot his cell phone at your place. If he was cheating, and didn't want you to know about it, I'd think that he'd want to be a little more comfortable. I would, kinda of matter-of-factly mention that you came across his cell phone. That you heard the sound of a message coming through and you wanted to make sure he got it. See what his reaction is. Then you'll probably have a pretty good idea what the deal is.

Answer 4

It looks pretty obvious, but never assume anything. I would just simply tell him that he left his cell phone behind and you heard it ringing, you went to look for it and saw the message. Tell him you would appreciate and honest answer, so that you know where you stand.

Answer 5

ask his parents after the event if they enjoyed their surprise.

also ask him about the text. you wasnt snooping- he was the one who left it round yours....

it may well be from a woman (why didnt it come up with who sent it???) doesnt he know them that well???

in any case - why dont you ask him what he has planned and see if it matches up to what his parents will say.....

if it doesnt - its not looking good. when you get an instinct like this - more often than not you are right.

though i hope you are wrong.....


good luck

Answer 6

i do not comprehend if there's a information superhighway web site for it yet there are also the patriarchs of the jap Orthodox church homes and the mainline Protestant denominations are headed by way of various of councils that would have diverse names like synod reckoning on the denomination. do not ignore the Archbishop of Canterbury. There are also the political leaders and televangelists who I evaluate become independent from commonplace pastors.

Answer 7

If the trust goes the love soon follows! Sorry but its true you end up living a lie and nobody wants that.

Answer 8

ask his parents AFTER their anniversary what they did for their anniversary. If the don't mention your BF, ask. If they look clueless, confront him. Give him time to explain, and prove your points, eg.his parents, the text etc.. good luck!

Answer 9

You already know the answer. It is from a woman. You really need to tell him you read the text and know about her. You have some decisions to make!!

Answer 10

It is hard to say from the little information we have but I would talk to him. Doesn't sound like he is being honest.