Help...its sorta a ''race'' thing.......losts of answers please. I really need opinions.?
Okay. I am like, white, and I guess I have been always hvaing crushes on white guys. Not racist, but hey, they were what i was attracted too. Now this new thing...I am not into white guys anymore. I am into indian guys. Like, darkish skin, beautiful accents, thick black hair... I realyl wonder is this just a phase. I thought so....but now I'm not sure. I mean, I am currently in a relationship with Saavan, my bf, who I have been attracted to more then any white guy. I am definetly not racist to whites----I am white.
I am not trying to be racist to ANY race.
But what do you think. I suddenly think the indians are beautiful people..they're languages...traditions...........
Do you think this is a phase, or something that will stay?
ps, This by ''indian'' I mean they ones from india..not native americans so much.
2007-01-08 06:56:08 · 7 answers · asked by ~ Lillie ~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't worry if it is a phase or not...just have fun...you may stay attracted mostly to Indians or you may not....sample life's rich pagaent...to limit yourself is to only enjoy part of the buffett....
2007-01-08 07:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by Tikcus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a phase or being racist, its just what you prefer right now. Maybe you've had bad experiences with white guys in the past but thats not to say that you would never date one again because one bad apple doesnt spoil the whole thing. Just enjoy being you and what you like
2007-01-08 15:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're putting yourself into an interesting "box" here.
Are you dating Saavan because he's Saavan? Or because he's of Indian heritage? I think that's the real question here.
And if it's the latter, is that really fair to him?
2007-01-08 15:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like what you like. Your tastes will change, too. Just go with it. There are beautiful people in all races. Personally, I like Italian men. Just a matter of what you find attractive.
2007-01-08 14:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you can't help who you are attracted to. I don't know if it will stay or not. Don't stress on it. I have always gone for a certain "type" physically, too, but I've found myself jumping outside of that box from time to time with guys who are really interesting to me. trust yourself.
2007-01-08 14:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just think you're becoming more mature and aware of what's out there.
The world getting smaller all the time and we can now see the forest for
the trees.
2007-01-08 15:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by Ammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does it have to be a phase?? just because you are attracted to someone outside of your race??
that doesn't make ANY sense!!
you cant help who you are attracted to!! its nothing to be so concerned about!! relax!!
2007-01-08 15:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋