Where can you find a good man? In church alot of pretender on the streets to many freaks, at work not a good idea if you know what i mean. Strangers may ask you out you don't know who to trust, most of your male friends already married. Everyone said wait and the right guy will come along. STILL WAITING. Any advice biological clock ticking.
2007-01-08 07:01:02 · 9 answers · asked by Ans 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You'll find a good man soon enough. I found mine when I was 15, at a Church function in Washington state. Not that THAT helps.
Just be patient. Desperation is the key thing that will find you nothing but a lousy man. You need to be strong, cool, and collected. Otherwise all you'll find is the man on the street corner, looking for a little you-know-what.
Take a deep breath, relax. Get yourself a nice raspberry mocha and hang out at Starbucks or Olive Garden (It's been my experience that lots of hotties work at those places... although I'm not vouching for their credibility). =)
Good luck!
2007-01-08 07:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX............
There are tons of really nice men out there asking the same question about women.
In order to find a good man, you have to go where there are good people.
You have to be living an interesting life, filled with the things which interest you. You have to be going out of the house, mingling with ALL people, being busy and active - and guess what? By doing that, you will not only feel happier, you will cross paths with someone who shares the same interests, which means a healthy relationship and a well-balanced person. Forget chat rooms and dating services - that tells you nothing about the person, other than they are at home alone. Probably in their Mom's house, surrounded by Star Wars models.
...and please remember that life is not a rehearsal. It's not on hold until a man comes along. As John Lennon said, life is what happens to you while you're making other plans. Live your life. Be happy right now.
2007-01-08 15:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre male friends may be married but all of thier friends might not. Of the people I know almost all of them (myself included) met thier mate through a friend. Co-workers have freinds too, and while i agree that coworkers dont make for good boyfriends thier freinds shouldnt be off limits
You can also go to cofeeshops book stores the grocery store. Join a book club be social and get youreself out there. The more people you meet the better, and even if they dont turn out to be the man you'll marry...maybe they know the man thats perfect for you.
The best thing to do is make new friends and maybe one of those friendships will blossom into something more.
good Luck
2007-01-08 15:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by Courtney C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can honestly say this: You will find the man of your dreams when you arent looking for him.
Its amazing, but of all my siblings, cousins, friends etc, I only have one story of "going out to meet guys". Everyone else met their perfect match in all different ways, but none were out looking at the time.
Dont worry, he's out there, probably looking for you too. And one day you will crash your grocery cart into his by accident and 6 months later you'll be married.
2007-01-08 15:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting is good but when heart-stoppers don't just appear, knee-shakers are always good. ^_^ I'd say the library is the best place to meet a guy. You can always check what he's getting out. Cartoons probably means kids and Kamasutra...well it's all up to you. Cheers!
2007-01-08 15:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by Marie E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP looking. that is your problem. i dont mean stop being available but stop hoping every encounter will be the ONE. go on with life as usual. and he will arrive if you keep being preoccupied with "is this the one?" then you are gonna miss him.
i told God what i wanted and what i was looking for in my long term mate. i continued to date did the fixer uppers everyone drug me to but i took that as "practice" u got to keep on your game.
we were at a corner vendor where one of my friends wanted to stop so i stopped. while she was making her purchase this person approached me, we exchanged numbers that was 4 years ago and we are getting married in July.
i dont buy CD's from vendors i go to Best Buy but since she does we stopped. who would think after all that searching and dating that i would bump into what i asked God earlied that year for in such a casual environment.
so i got what I asked for, if you have already asked stop asking and just wait if it happened to me he will also take care of u.
good luck
2007-01-08 21:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by ray g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God every day and he has the right person for you you will be blessed with a GOOD MAN. Do not try to find ask God.
2007-01-08 15:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by kibara 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
match.com
seriously. I met my bf on there and so have alot of my friends and friends friends. You can screen first so your not wasting time...just don't wait months to meet someone, it's totally unproductive to do that.
2007-01-08 16:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by nightstar114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good man is hard to find.....but a hard man is good to find!
2007-01-08 16:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by Vanessa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋