Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

last night i had a HUGE fight with my b/f he called me names i will never forget (swears), but when we arnt fighting it is amazing and i know this is the person i want to spend my life with. anyway yesterday we fought, horribly, but after i just gave in and forgave him-we made love, and the night ended, but thinking about it now i am still mad and i feel like i have made a HUGE mistake in forgiving him, what should i do now? is it to late to let him know how i really feel?

2007-01-07 03:58:40 · 10 answers · asked by Ash 4 in Singles & Dating

Do we get upset seeing a male who goes out with a female who is blonde, big breasted, with a fabulous body?

If we do get upset, why??

2007-01-07 03:57:56 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiancee is a great guy...but quite frankly he has NO sense

For example, someone on the road in front of him stopped in order to let someone turn onto the same road that we were on. My boyfriend passed the guy that stopped. When I yelled at him for being rude...he asked me "what are you talking about."
**Thats just one example.
I truley believe that he does not do this on purpose, but that he really doesnt know any better.

I'm not a trickey girl. If something upsets me, I come right out and say "Look, I'm getting angry". He doesnt seem to get it though. He does the same things over and over again and it comes to the point where I scream and yell about it becuase I dont know how else to show him I'm angry.
We have talked about it and he knows that he 'doesnt get it' He really isnt a bad guy... and I know that in the end I'll have to just accept the fact that he has no common sense.
Is there anything I can do to help him thoug?(not just with our relationship..but with life?

2007-01-07 03:56:19 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this is the stupidest question ever, but i just wanted to ask this question and u might be in luck if i pick u as my best answer.....with the 2 points....

2007-01-07 03:55:36 · 26 answers · asked by ~ღMissღSENღ~ 2 in Friends

I wont 2 make our marriage work,Ive been unhappy before but i didnt divorce him over it.id just like some advice.

2007-01-07 03:54:41 · 25 answers · asked by devilish101280 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Help me out with this male body language please.
My boyfriend will
1-Stand in front of me while im sitting and talk to me while looking down at me
2-He will start biting his nails after we kiss or cuddle (is that like a"bono-er"thing)
3-Hes always trying to look me straight in the eyes but I've never really been comfortable looking people directly in the eyes so why does he do this?
4-If we're play fighting or something he always has to end up the winner or the one who restrains
5-Hes always saying things like"if you do that again imma tackle you but Id do it gently"
6-And we just started (french kissing) and when we're kissing hes always pushing his tounge in my mouth even when I'll back away a bit(usually when were laying down watchin a movie)
7-An we will be sitting down like on a bed and he'll like playfully push me down onto the bed and lay all his weight on me.
8-An he will get angry or ignore it if I talk about any of my guy friends
What does all this mean please help!

2007-01-07 03:54:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked thst and if you think its bad to lose your virginity before you're married.

2007-01-07 03:53:40 · 19 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy, we have been working together for 6 months now and we have always liked each other since the beginning. We finally hooked up after I broke up with my b-friend and when we went on our date, he was somewhat agressive and I did not know how to take it. (never thought he would be like this on a date)

He started off by holding my hand the whole entire night and then he would hold me very close(I didn't mind) but then he would rub my thighs and in between them. (kind of bothered me) I should have said stop, but I did not.

We did not have sex or anything, we just kissed.

He was drinking the WHOLE entire night. I don't know if he was only acting like that because he was drunk or if he was acting like this because this is how he feels about me(after 6 mnths) , or if he just wanted some.

He wants to go out again and I am not sure if I should, I really do like him. If we do go out, I want to make sure he is sober so I can see what he really wants.

What do you guys think?

2007-01-07 03:52:16 · 25 answers · asked by vsweety 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 03:51:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When is the Ideal time to get marry,anyone?

2007-01-07 03:50:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i really want to lose 5 pounds. i get so many mixed signals.
"dont eat carbs." "dont eat sugars" "dont eat." what the freak do i do

2007-01-07 03:49:58 · 13 answers · asked by britt s 1 in Family

I am a boy in 6th grade, and I really think I like this girl in most of my classes. We have a lot in common (we both play the same sports) but we haven't ever talked. I am used to girls asking me out with notes in 5th grade, but I don't think she will come to me or even know if I like her.
What do I say to ask her out?
Don't post answers like "ask her to a movie" please.

2007-01-07 03:49:50 · 8 answers · asked by LacrosseStudCalifornia 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year,
and he sometimes say things that really hurt me, but he truly believes hes right, and he the most stubborn person.
we had an agreement that he'd stop smokin weed,
and i was supposed to give him something, then i lost it, and
now after about 6 months of him bein clean, hes sayin if i dont find it today hes gonna smoke.
and every time we fight he blames everything on me, i want him to know hes wrong,and know hes hurting me, and he makes me cry so much....for some reason i feel like i aint **** with out him...and im miserable, if i cant help him understanding hes wrong and make him regret this, how can i leave him without hurting like i know i will?!?

2007-01-07 03:48:15 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 03:48:13 · 20 answers · asked by monali 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so ive been seeing this girl for about 2months and im starting to really like her but i dont know how to ask her to be my girl friend .see the thing is i think things will change if we become bf and gf. im lost

2007-01-07 03:48:12 · 4 answers · asked by devildog_3025 1 in Singles & Dating

My niece who is 15 years old just told me that she was bisexual. On several occasions my sister and I have encouraged her to talk out her feeling with us. I have, in the past, promised her that I would not tell her mom what we talk about. I just feel that if it were my child I would want to know as soon as possible. At the same time I feel that I should not betray her trust in me.

2007-01-07 03:47:34 · 18 answers · asked by Karmy 2 in Family

Why did you do it and what did you do?

2007-01-07 03:45:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

getting a divorce but my cousin dosent think they are going to sell the house but they are because my moms brother told me aka:there dad what to do help he is being a *****

2007-01-07 03:45:27 · 4 answers · asked by hockeylova#1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

like whenever i look at a necklace my ex gave me i get the feeling of summer(cuz he gave it to me during or close to the summer) and of how i felt when i got it.

2007-01-07 03:44:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been with her for more than a year now.I love her.I really really do.her brother has died recently and shes pushing me away.she says not to love her again and not to worry about her because her friends are taking care of her.she keeps on being mean and keeps pushing me away but i say nothing because i know shes having a rough time.I have done nothing but be the best boyfriend i can be.it seems evident now that shes becoming closer to someone else.She spends time with this person and she does not mind his company at all. I am scared because this guy,'Divindra', is very fond of her and i am scared to death that i might stand a chance of losing her to him.my entire life has truly begun to revolve around her.how do i fix this situation?

2007-01-07 03:44:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has a guy ever done something mean to you and then you wanted to get revenge so you put makeup on him/dressed him up as a girl?

2007-01-07 03:44:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My Best friend Kimberly has had a long rode of troble with her parents. Yeasterday around 3:00 noon she called me telling me that she cut her rist and said thats she was going to do alot more today. Plese no stupid answers. THIS IS REALLY SERIOUS. HER LIFE IS DEPENDING ON THIS. what sould i do? Her mom lets her get away with every thin.

2007-01-07 03:43:43 · 12 answers · asked by Owned by A-vin 1 in Friends

my husband and seem to have a hard time not fighting sometimes. i think a lot of it has to do with the fact that we never have a single day off together during the week. i work at an airport and work every sunday - wednesday even holidays and my husband works at a breakfast club and bar monday - saturday and he has no set hours. his schedule changes ever week. so between the two of us one of us works everyday of the week. could this be having a negative affect on our relationship? and should i find another job or should he?

2007-01-07 03:43:35 · 13 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i need a female cleaner who would wear just a pinny?

2007-01-07 03:42:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have always questioned this. My friend, who is now 22, started dating her boyfriend when she was 14. They have had their share of problems like any other relationship of course, but they're still together, going strong, and will most likely get married.

Isn't there stuff she missed out on? For example partying, the single life, no strings attached sex? Is this stuff we later on in life miss?

Sometimes I just wonder how some young couples do in fact make it ...

2007-01-07 03:42:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a turkish fella online lastnight and we are now engaged i thought my friends n fmily would have been happy 4 me but no they think im stupid (typical blonde as they put it) but this fella is really genuine and very good looking 2! he wants 2 marry next month but i need 2 send him over some money for a surprise hes going 2 get me. my friends say hes only after a visa but i know hes not i asked him and he said he wasnt. i think my family n friends are just jelous bcause i have finally found some happyness

2007-01-07 03:40:44 · 39 answers · asked by dellyboppers 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here is my situation: Me and my girlfriend have a very compatable and loving relationship and everything in our life is practically perfect accept for a few issues in the kitchen. She constantly leaves the butter out on the counter and doesn't put in back in the refrigarator. She leaves the milk out, leaves ceral boxes open on the counter, leaves a loaf of bread out with not twisting the bag together, otherwords, leaves most perisable items that suppose to be kept in the frig, out, all the time. Sometime, I am away from home several days at the time due to my busy work schedule, and when I return home, I am afraid to eat anything that comes out of the refrigarator because I don't know how long anything has been left out. Here lately, when I am home, and she leaves stuff out, I purposely do not put anything back in the frig just to see how long she will let it sit out. It never gets put back up unless I do it. Any suggestions?????

2007-01-07 03:38:25 · 19 answers · asked by J. P. 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I have heard the phrase "trophy wife" numerous times and am now wondering what it really is. I know what taxedermied trophy animals & sports trophys are but what exactly does the word "trophy" have to do with a wife.

If I were being called one, what would I be doing to get this label ? If I had to guess I would say it simply means a "great wife", but on the hand I get the impression that it could be an insult like the phrase "dumb blonde".

Set the record straight here and let me know what it means, or at least what it means in your area of the world.

: )

2007-01-07 03:37:16 · 24 answers · asked by Kitty 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I used to know this guy who was like my best friend and we always had secret feelings 4 eachother. We were 2 young 2 date and so we didn't and now i miss him ever since i moved. We're only cities apart so i don't c why we can't hang out together or anything. It doesn't make any sense. I don't want to date him cuz of how we don't c eachother every day, but i want to be as close as we used to be, as friends. My friends that go 2 his school that i still keep in touch with say that he wants to email me...so i gave him my email but now he doesn't respond. Help!!!

2007-01-07 03:36:55 · 5 answers · asked by Sample ID 1 in Friends

in this category middle schoolers are always looked down upon with remarks like isn't it your bed time? and other stuff. i'm sick and tired of it. most of you don't even realize middle school can be the roughest part of a persons life. all of my family(high schoolers, colleges, adults) say it was the hardest part of their life. people don't realize this is the time of their lives when they get thier first real relationship and people look down upon them why?

2007-01-07 03:36:14 · 26 answers · asked by Lone Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating