She's calling on you to be her life line, her parents have failed to protect her and she's crying out for help, she obviously trusts you, so do what's right and get her some help. Tell your parents or a school counselor or even the cops. This is very serious, all you can do is be a good friend. Go see her, talk to her and really listen. Tell her that nothing in life is bad enough that you need to end it. tell her you are there for her and you will find a way to help. good luck!
2007-01-07 03:59:51
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answered by Lindsey M 3
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you really have no choice here. you must contact her parents and tell them about this or contact the police and tell them . since your friend gets away with everything i think that they might under estamate how serious this is so i would go for the police call myself.
i can tell you that the police will write down what you said and then go around and see her. when they see her they will be left to make there own descion about taking her to the hospitail or letting her remain home.
if they take her to the hospitail a doctor will see her and then another and they will do what they think is best . by the sounds of it they should hold her that is keep her in a locked ward and talk to her and monitor how she gets along with the others and what she does . then after only a short time 1 to 3 days they will decide if she is ok to go home and follow up with the doctor or keep her.
this is the right and good thing to do i assure you calling the police about this is really what your friend wants you to do she may swear at you and so on because she is mixed up now but
that is what she wants you to do.
further more if she kills herself which is a possibility a very real one you will be faced with living your life knowing that if you had picked up a phone talked to the police the girl your friend would not be dead.
i sure hope you do the right thing i assure you what i have told you is the right thing to do.
i am not someone who would tell you phone the police because your friend smoked a joint . no i am really a man who has been around and knows at least in this case what i am telling you is 100% the right thing to do.
2007-01-07 04:01:29
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answered by Anonymous
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There's not a whole lot you can do other than tell her that you care and that you'll be here when she needs to talk things out. She called you to tell you because she is wanting some drama. She wants you to fuss over her. If she really intended to kill herself, she would have done it. But she does need help, and it's not the kind of help you can give her. If she doesn't get counselling, she may inadvertently kill herself. It's up to her to sort through her issues and figure out how to deal with them appropriately. I know it's hard to do, but you should back out a little. She's wrong to be putting this kind of weight on your shoulders. It's hurting you and scaring you and will drive you nuts. If it was me, and I really believed she was that serious about killing herself, I'd tell her parents or maybe the school guidance counselor. And either way, I'd back out for a few days until she got her thoughts together, but I'd make sure she knows that if she needs me, I'll be there.
2007-01-07 04:05:47
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answered by Laura Renee 6
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If they didn't get her medical help, you need to call 9-1-1 right now and tell them everything you just wrote.
Here are some numbers for you too.
SUICIDE PREVENTION
Suicide & Crisis Hotline 1-800-999-9999 Help for Troubled Teens
National Hope Line Network 1-800-784-2433 Suicide Prevention
SOMEONE TO TALK ABOUT IT TO
Talk Zone 1-800-475-TALK Peer Counselors
Teen Help Line 1-800-400-0900 Help Line For Troubled Teens
Teen Hot Line 1-800-747-8336 Hot Line For Troubled Teens
VOICES In Action, Inc. 1-773-327-1500
Youth Development International 1-800-HIT-HOME (448-4663) Youth Crisis Hotline
2007-01-08 12:16:38
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answered by The Notorious Doctor Zoom Zoom 6
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sure, it turned right into a suicide attempt. maximum folk who dedicate suicide have a tendency to do a straightforward volume of learn of the concern and every person's who's researched suicide options might want to comprehend that taking an overdose is a particular-shot technique to fail. yet human beings do not often comprehend this so if someone's suicidal they could attempt to overdose to let others comprehend that they are suicidal and choose help. I advise you confer consisting of her to be sure what's bothering her, reason no matter if it become one of those self-damage and by no ability a suicide attempt, it ability she's depressed. in case you locate that the concern it too severe and larger than you are able to cope with, you want to cajole her to flow to a therapist. desire this helps.
2016-12-28 07:37:46
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answered by ? 4
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Your friend is crying out for help...which is what suicide is--especially a failed one. You need to some adult involved with this situation. This is way too much for you to deal with on your own. Get a pastor, YOUR parent, call the nearest psychiatric hospital to you, this girls parents SOMEONE---but you definetly need to get her some intervention, some serious help. There are probably a lot of reasons for her attempt, and more than likely she needs to talk to someone who isn't going to judge her--but get this help before her suicide attempt DOESN'T fail!!! Just do what you have to, and let an adult know that she is doing this and that this is a serious situation! My prayers are with you.
2007-01-07 03:53:09
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answered by Austins Mom 6
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Your friend needs to talk to someone.Now. I suggest you see if you can get her to talk to a trusted adult like a couseller or Aunt or Uncle. Talk to her parents about it because this is a cry for help hun. If her Parents do Nothing talk to your parents and Possibly call the Authorities.
Good luck and My heart goes out to you
2007-01-07 03:58:31
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answered by -Ashlee- Eeeep! 2
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I agree with the others here-advise her parents.
I was at this stage one, I hope it does pass for your friend.
Try and talk to her and tell her that she shouldnt let some disappointments/heartbreaks rob her of the chance to live, and to love.
Remind her of her good qualities, make sure she knows your there for her =]
2007-01-07 04:04:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Call the police and tell them. They can make sure she gets the help she needs. Do it A.S.P.A. before she does accomplish it. It certainly sounds like her parents won't do anything to help her.
2007-01-07 03:58:52
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answered by Jodi C 5
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Tell her parents immediately. Or they will not listen, call the cops.
2007-01-07 03:48:44
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answered by dnelak 2
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