i met a turkish fella online lastnight and we are now engaged i thought my friends n fmily would have been happy 4 me but no they think im stupid (typical blonde as they put it) but this fella is really genuine and very good looking 2! he wants 2 marry next month but i need 2 send him over some money for a surprise hes going 2 get me. my friends say hes only after a visa but i know hes not i asked him and he said he wasnt. i think my family n friends are just jelous bcause i have finally found some happyness
2007-01-07 03:40:44 · 39 answers · asked by dellyboppers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow he's sounds hot, your family are SO jealous. He's buying you a present so he must be genuine.
You go for it girl and if it doesn't work out then just get another one there are loads of Turkish men that adore blonnde women lmfao xx
2007-01-07 03:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know what you are setting yourself up for?
I guess not.
how do you know that's him your really talking to?
what if you are talking to some strange creep or serial killer?
why would you think that ANYONE would be happy for you ,after you immediately got engaged to someone who you barely know?
so what if he says he's not only after a visa. how do you know that for sure? what you are going after is not going to make you happy because you are in it too soon, and making some really dumb moves. I don't even know why you came on here with the B.S.
your friends and family aren't jealous.....they just didn't think you were that stupid. but go on ahead. don't listen to them. you'll eventually fall flat on your face.
oh, and another thing I don't get.
why do YOU have to send money so that he can get a gift for YOU? it's kind of like buying the gift for yourself. it's doesn't seem right.
2007-01-07 03:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by WHY 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he is getting you a surprise then why do you have to send him money? think about it.. You should have to send any money for your own present.. DO NOT send the money.... It is a scam. This guy is a typical online player trying to use you for money. He is not genuine. He is going to surprise you alright for getting as much money out of you as he can. Once you send some he will need more and more and his excuses will pile up on why you two have to postpone the wedding...Until you have given him all the money you will. Dont send him anything.... Sorry but, he is just using you.
2007-01-07 03:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
HELLLOOOOO Girls stop dreaming . He is either trying to get money out ofyou or a visa . He dosen't love you !!!! How could he he don't know you at all . You need to think about this real hard . What would you think if your friend came and told you the same thing . Think about your details there isn't much therefore you shouldn't even be thinking about this at all .
2007-01-07 03:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey delli,how could you discuss our personal business on Yahoo answers, I thought you loved me. You have broken my heart and I can never forgive you, the engagement is off and "may the fleas of a thousand camels fly up ....."
PS, Your present has been given to the Istanbul Institute for Aged Curly Toed Shoe and Hubbly Bubbly Pipe Makers. (CIU affiliated)
2007-01-07 03:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by bletherskyte 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the people who are close to you because they only have your best intrests at heart. You also may want to look up some similar cases like this online and see how they worked out because they could tell you somethings that you wouldn't have believed otherwise.
2007-01-07 03:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You met him last night and now you're engaged!! Geez girl maybe you should slow it down a little. Your parents and friends are just trying to protect you from rushing in to anything, so maybe you should get married in a few months not next month. I believe you, in the fact that he loves you but SLOW DOWN!!
2007-01-07 03:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by *Scandinavian Sweetheart* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do I get you right, you met someone online last night, you are already engaged, should send him money and want to get married next month?
Are you OK?
2007-01-07 03:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by kengoller 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how can they be jealous your freind is right you met him online last night most men living in other countries do this just to get a visa you hear about it all the time listen to the people who really love you this guy is probably using you dont fall for anything he has told you and think to yourself what do you really know about him?
2007-01-07 03:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by likkle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but I agree with your family. If marriage really is for you and this fella then waiting for a year or two wont matter.
Be carefull
2007-01-07 03:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by Tatty Ted 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋