Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

2007-01-07 05:01:42 · 10 answers · asked by Apple C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

love my ex and i want her back, we broke up 2 months ago.. i txted her today and asked her does she have feelings for me... she didnt want to say at first,but then she said, "i do still love you but i felt smothered in our relationship, and i dont want that again, i want to be with you i do but i feel like it would be the same again after a while", i have changed i really have, she said she doesnt think i could change only after 2 months... how do i win her back? please i really need advice, i love her and im willing to do whatever it takes! should i be her freind for a while, what should i do, or say to her..

2007-01-07 05:00:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just need to know.. ;-)

2007-01-07 05:00:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

3 months ago I asked my fiancee for time apart. things were moving fast, marriage was coming, and I thought I needed to think alone. She was very upset, but I insisted and didnt see her for a month. I realized how much I loved and I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me and she was dating someone else. She kept dating him for about 1 week. She eventually forgave me and we are engaged again. Recently I found out that she had sex with the other guy the night before she took me back. She says she wanted to experience him, but that she wanted to teach me a lesson and test my love. She also said wanted the guy was very sweet and she wanted to thank him. She told him she would go back to me, so the last night she admits they did it almost all night, three times. We have talked a lot, about how she was hurt, and I have expressed its ok to tell how she enjoyed the sex. we are back in love and my heart knows that, but I cannot stop my head from being jealous. advice??

2007-01-07 05:00:36 · 7 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Singles & Dating

its like they are all cool, but then after I sleep with them its like they got what they wanted and thats it. Its like they just use us for sex, then you find out they were talking to their ex for four hours who cheated on her and treated her like crap. I am sick of just being a piece of meat to women, so why are they like this?

2007-01-07 04:58:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why does it seem like some people are so accustomed to being a "victim" of one form or another that when they enter into a good relationship with a lot of potential, they seem to undermine and sabotage it? What does one do to overcome this (be it the "victim" or the "victim's" SO)? Anyone have success doing so?

2007-01-07 04:58:47 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Every guy I ever go out with, whom I finally think is wonderful, end up being a jerk. I don't understand why? Is it something I do?I mean I dress very conservatively and modestly (you'll HARDLY ever see cleavage-maybe once a year on special occasions), I am also hard to get. I don't go out with a lot of guys. I have only dated 4 guys in my whole life. But in the end of EVERY relationship, and let me stress that these all lasted a month, it turned out the guy just wanted to have sex with me. Please help. What do you think?

2007-01-07 04:58:01 · 23 answers · asked by JamaicanmecrayZ 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to get a divorce but wondering if I need to since we were married in another country.

2007-01-07 04:57:14 · 2 answers · asked by adgirl86 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you have thier past checked out to see if there was any history of domestic violence, or adultery, or if he had a criminal record?

2007-01-07 04:56:54 · 11 answers · asked by Marie 7 in Singles & Dating

does your mate have to have you around most of the time? do they need you around too much? can you get some free time to your self?

2007-01-07 04:56:40 · 5 answers · asked by wisdom 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i can't stand my mom,dad,step mom,and my 2 step brothers.they get on my nerves. if i could i would cuss at them and hurt them.what should i do before i go crazy?PLEASE HELP?

2007-01-07 04:56:21 · 5 answers · asked by josefina f 1 in Family

i like this instructor who works at the local gym, Whenever i go there, he always chats to me for about 45 mins to an hour on a one to one about all kinds of stuff, he always asks me to go in when he is working, he tells me the times of when he was working and asks me to go in and see him. He came into the gym looking for me once too. He has given me compliments and also walked me to my car the once, and I never notice him talking to any other girls! He has a girlfriend but has recently split with her, and he told my friend that he knows that i like him and that he doesnt want to lead me on, so now I'm really confused, it really seemed like he liked me, could it be it's too soon for him? do you think he likes me at all?

2007-01-07 04:55:52 · 13 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-07 04:55:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it a conscious decision married women make by not keeping up their physical appearance, because they are married and it doesn't matter anymore? or is it more of the same: kids, cooking and cleaning.

And if you do have more pressing responsibilities than to be physically appealing to your husband, why don't you get your husband to help out around the house? I'll tell you why, because it's not a priority for most married women to be alluring to their husbands. And if he refuses to help out in maintaining the household, why are you still married to him? I'll tell you that too. Because your are comfortable and would rather take on all the responsibilites rather than take care of yourselves. What say you married women?

2007-01-07 04:55:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been with this guy for almost 4 years now.. he promised me that he will marry me this october 2007.. he gave me a friendship ring but he never proposed to me yet.. we have been looking for engagement ring for almost 2 weeks now.. he hasn't spoken to his parents about our plans..my biggest worry is his dad - his dad doesn't like me. his mom is so wonderful!!! he told me that he will talk to them about our plans.. im also worried about the preparation part - we only have 9 months to go and i dont know what to do..do i have to push him to tell them? do you think he's ready for this? what do i do?

2007-01-07 04:55:18 · 5 answers · asked by Candie D 1 in Weddings

I called this girl yesterday to hang out and she did not answer. I left her a voice mail to call me back and she never did. I am assuming she heard the message. I am leaving town tomorrow so tonight is my last night to see her for a while and I really want to hang out with her. So, should I call her one more time today or is that too much? Should I call again today one more time or wait until she calls back and then maybe we can reschedule another date?

2007-01-07 04:53:29 · 18 answers · asked by DN1503 4 in Singles & Dating

if i dont listen and i go and have one she will give me a beatin out of this world.please help me.

2007-01-07 04:52:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-07 04:51:42 · 3 answers · asked by Faby 1 in Friends

Well, after asking my last question (will he choose me) on Xmas day, i did what i was advised to do and told him not to text me or bother me again. All was going well, until he text me 3 days later. It was amazing, we chatted on the phone for hours and we met up last Tuesday, then again Friday and we are going to the cinema in a few days time. The whole issue was with another woman he told me he had feelings for. I have sat him down and talked to him, telling him i need to know where i stand. He told me to my face that they are not lovers and they don't have a sexual relationship he also said he hasnt got a problem telling her about me. He met her last night first time in 2 weeks, he said the subject would probably come up. I am scared to ask and be nosey, but i do want to know if it was came up. Does this mean that i am doing ok and he does in fact want me? He told me he woke up the morning i told him to leave me alone and cried. How do i take this relationship further and not ruin it

2007-01-07 04:50:37 · 12 answers · asked by beckietuck 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 04:50:12 · 7 answers · asked by renganathan g 2 in Friends

2007-01-07 04:50:10 · 26 answers · asked by wisdom 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

She was cremated and sent to Arlington National Cemetary to be burried with my dad. Everything was prearranged and her wishes were not to have a service of any kind just direct cremation and burial. My sister and I want to abide by these wishes but her only surviving sister wants a service and expects my sister and I to have one. We are being torn in different directions over this. Any comments or suggestions??

2007-01-07 04:49:49 · 25 answers · asked by Bo 2 in Family

Do you know any romanitc stuff that i can send my bf on email? like a cute love email. I want to send him something that will make him say "aww how sweet." like love poems, any cute stuff.
thanx

2007-01-07 04:48:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if anyone ever used this, i just tried signing up, but where the heck is the part where you put in what physical characteristics you want in a person? On tv, they say you can put in what you would like the person to look like?? i don't see it on there

2007-01-07 04:48:06 · 2 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Singles & Dating

an engagement ring, more like an appreciation ring, but is very special because he worked hard and saved up for it (over $600). I had also told him I loved it a couple of months ago when we were at Saks and looking at the David Yurman jewelry. When his mom saw it Christmas day, she went out and bought one EXACTLY like it the next day for his little sister. Does this not seem weird to anyone? I was pretty upset about it because it doesnt seem special anymore like it was meant to be. His mom does this anytime I get something new, like purses, bags, jewelry, clothes, ANYTHING. The ring was kind of my last straw. Any opinions about this?

2007-01-07 04:47:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this boy was going to kiss me and i like him but he is a horrable kisser. what should i do????????

2007-01-07 04:47:49 · 19 answers · asked by punk_angel200798 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 04:46:46 · 15 answers · asked by mutt 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

i love her and i want to marry with her in futer but i dont know she loves me or not .i am only 19 years old .

2007-01-07 04:46:42 · 2 answers · asked by simon h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am so tired of being lied to, I am starting to think that there is no such thing as an honest man.

2007-01-07 04:45:40 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently went to Las Vegas with my boyfriend of one year for his friends wedding. I had a good time, until the journey home, when we has a small dissagreement and he then refused to talk to me for the entire journey. Since the trip things haven't been great and this has happened a couple of times since. I have asked for a bit of time apart to think things through, and he has taken it really badly. It might sound trivial but the flight was 8 hours long and it has made me see him in a different light. Do you think this may be a sign that he's not the sweetnatured, easy going boyfriend i thought he was?

2007-01-07 04:45:21 · 9 answers · asked by weedraker 2 in Other - Family & Relationships