its like they are all cool, but then after I sleep with them its like they got what they wanted and thats it. Its like they just use us for sex, then you find out they were talking to their ex for four hours who cheated on her and treated her like crap. I am sick of just being a piece of meat to women, so why are they like this?
2007-01-07 04:58:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ahahaha! That was good for a laugh.
2007-01-07 05:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not all women are like this but it is not just the women who do this I know a lot of guys who use women just to get a piece. So keep looking there are some good women out there. I have only been with one man since I was 15 and a married him I have no regrets the sex is great.
2007-01-07 13:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a compliment to start with, because obviously these women are in need of some emotional comfort, and they're not getting it elsewhere. I bet they don't even mean to use you, they just need that closeness with a bloke to make them feel better about themselves. At least it means they think you're a good bloke who would treat them well, otherwise they wouldn't go to you! It sounds naggy, but get to know these girls for longer before you sleep with them. If they only want you as a rebound thing, it'll soon show up. On the other hand, you may get to know a really nice girl, and you'll trust her more not to treat you badly if you know her better :)
2007-01-07 13:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by cheesemonkeymonkeycheese 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
girls do that to you because you let them, and probably because you are attracted to the kind of girl that does that to a guy... guys are the same way they do the same thing to girls, only want sex and then they leave...
try searching for another type of girl someone out of the usaul for you... and when you find that girl then dont give everything up soon, get to know each other first and then see where it progresses, make sure she is into you... go in with your head instead of your heart because that way in the end you will hurt but not as much...
Good luck i hope you find someone that will treat you and respect you like you should be!
2007-01-07 13:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
not all of them are- but most are bc even tho guys are stereotypical for only being after sex, women are also. They just dont like to admit it. itll take some trial and error if u want to find the rite woman-sry!
2007-01-07 13:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by onetwothree 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow i am shocked i used to think that guys do this to us . coming to the girls doing what they do to you and if this happens to you always with all the girls then i think you pick the wrong girls go for girls who are not looking for diversion after breakup with their ex and and are not with you on rebound and if this is just in this case with this girl i do think that if she is talking to her ex it is not that big deal lot many people are better friends than good bfs and gfs you don't have to hate your ex that gives him more importance talk to her about this tell her how you feel analyse your self too maybe you are jealous and insecure i know that it doesn't sound good and is difficult to accept but is true in many cases
2007-01-07 13:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well maybe if you got to know them before you slept with them, that wouldnt happen. Because studies show that only 13% of women use men only for sex.
2007-01-07 13:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by XoSuGaRbAbiiXo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because if they are the snobby kind they just want your money and they might give the i realized i want my ex back and it was a mistake to leave him or something like that
2007-01-07 13:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by Andrew H. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with her, that not all girls are like that,but make sure you find the one that you noe you love and make sure you trust her before sleeping with her, sorry if you dont agree with me! =))
GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-07 13:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by jskadl s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont mean to burst your 'im a sex god bubble' but did it ever accur to you that maybe they dont come back because you were complete crap in bed??
2007-01-07 13:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Act like a Pimp, and you will get treated like one.
2007-01-07 13:03:51 · answer #11 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋