3 months ago I asked my fiancee for time apart. things were moving fast, marriage was coming, and I thought I needed to think alone. She was very upset, but I insisted and didnt see her for a month. I realized how much I loved and I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me and she was dating someone else. She kept dating him for about 1 week. She eventually forgave me and we are engaged again. Recently I found out that she had sex with the other guy the night before she took me back. She says she wanted to experience him, but that she wanted to teach me a lesson and test my love. She also said wanted the guy was very sweet and she wanted to thank him. She told him she would go back to me, so the last night she admits they did it almost all night, three times. We have talked a lot, about how she was hurt, and I have expressed its ok to tell how she enjoyed the sex. we are back in love and my heart knows that, but I cannot stop my head from being jealous. advice??
2007-01-07 05:00:36 · 7 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude are you blind? That chick or your finacee likes you, but she doesn't like taking "breaks". So, just don't let he slip through your fingers again or you might not be so lucky next time. Oh and jealousy is natural....Deal with it.
2007-01-07 05:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah tell her you're jealous, because chances are, since you've posted this question 72 times in a 6 month period, you will never let this go. I really don't see her sticking around if that's all she's had to listen to for 6 months. Yes you asked for a break, yes she screwed up, if you really love her then accept it and move on, if you keep posting this then you are not ok with it and you are better off ending the relationship! GROW UP!
2007-01-10 04:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a pretty messed up situation. It's ultimately up to you what you decide to do in regards to the relationship, so I'll just say this: under no circumstances is it ever a good idea to "let your girlfriend know" that you are jealous. Never never never. It's a true relationship sinker. As a man, the only thing to do is figure out how to get over it and move on.
2007-01-07 05:04:58 · answer #3 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hay guy, sorry yet I wanna say some thing to you: don't be stupid. after I research your doings to her, you're as chance free as an angel. you in consumer-friendly words stated that each little thing become shifting quickly, perchance you meant that you've been no longer waiting for a wedding ceremony yet, and basically because of that she finished it, and laid with an excellent type of sweet adult men. how are you going to believe that she continues to be loving you after that? And Do you anticipate me to believe that she is doing a majority of those to objective your love??? she is basically revenging herself on you!! basically let HER go! And locate more effective a kindhearted woman. it truly is my suggestion to you, guy.
2016-12-28 07:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to tell her exactly how you feel. She told you the truth and now you should be honest and work through it all together.
2007-01-07 05:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should always share your feelings. If you're going to marry her... you guys cant have secrets between the two of you!!!
2007-01-07 05:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by spotted_moofers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have hte same problem. lemme know when you find out PLEASEEE.
2007-01-07 05:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋