if i dont listen and i go and have one she will give me a beatin out of this world.please help me.
2007-01-07 04:52:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you should ask why she feels that way. is it your age? maybe so. if you already like a guy and she doesn't like him, that could be bad. i know it's better to go w/ your parents on this one then go behind your backs. it's better to wait until later than not date--at all. good luck!
2007-01-07 04:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by whit-to-the-ney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately listen to your mom, she knows a whole lot more than you. You are in a lose-lose position. The way you make it seem is as if you're wanting to get a dog or a pair of jeans. A boyfriend should be a very special person whom you love and not just an accessory. If you get a boyfriend, you will break a little of the relationship you have with your mother. If you don't, it's only for a little while until you're old enough to understand and handle a real relationship and you will cherish it. Many women who were in childhood relationships wishes that they waited.
2007-01-07 04:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would listen. As long as you're living under her roof, you owe her respect. Why not negotiate with her about it? Tell her you'll take on more chores around the house (cook dinner, for example) or keep your grades above a certain average if she'll let you go out on dates.
You might also compromise on what a date means - allow her to chaperone, and never leave the door closed when you and your boyfriend are in the same room together, and have him come over with some flowers for her to introduce himself.
Good luck!
2007-01-07 04:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well young lady is it worth getting a beatting for?Come on don't go against your mothers wishes you have plenty of time to have a boyfriend.As a matter of fact think of it this way all the boys you already know are your (boy)friends (smile)hey don't take it wrong it's alright to have friends just don't bet serious with any of them.And as far as your mother beating you well that's a horse of another color,It's against the law period for somone to beat you.Even your mother....So don't push it do as your mother ask for now she should of all people know what's best for you.Look at it this way she didn't have to have you...Love is really confusing and complex but listen to your mom anyways,
2007-01-07 05:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I had my first boyfriend when I was 11. My mother didnt really care, but it depends how old you are. Your mom knows what is best for you, but I personally do not think it is fair for her to just say "no" to all guys. Some guys can be really great, and others not. She probably doesnt want you to get hurt, and I agree with her. But if you meet a really nice guy, who is sweet and funny and all good qualities, then go for it. But get to know him before you agree to be his girlfriend. Your mom is right, but if you meet someone you absolutly love, then how can going out with an angel hurt anyone?
2007-01-07 05:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by XoSuGaRbAbiiXo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do. What do you need a boyfriend for? You have a full life ahead of you. Stay in school and focus on your future career before you even think about Boys. Listen to your mother.
2007-01-07 04:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by VK1960 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While you may think her rules are strict, parents create those rules to protect their children. Right or wrong, the rule exists because she loves you. Obey that rule if only because of its intention. Most young teenagers aren't emotionally mature enough to handle relationships anyway so all you're saving yourself is a lot of wasted time and worry.
2007-01-07 04:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by PUtuba7 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should listen. keeping a realtionship behind your parents back wont be good and its better to just not do it. the relationship will probably be affected one way or another. if you really think this boy is something special, maybe convince her to at least meet him to see what she thinks. again, this will have to take a lot of convincing.
good luck!
2007-01-07 04:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by ... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depending on your age and how serious you might have been getting your mom is probably right. Listen to her and you'll probably be better off. Also being single might just be a fun change for you !
2007-01-07 04:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by actress_leadgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont' say how old you are, but let me guess and say that you are between 12 and 14. Listen to your mother... she's been there before. Besides, she is your mother... do what she says.
2007-01-07 04:54:23 · answer #10 · answered by David L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋