love my ex and i want her back, we broke up 2 months ago.. i txted her today and asked her does she have feelings for me... she didnt want to say at first,but then she said, "i do still love you but i felt smothered in our relationship, and i dont want that again, i want to be with you i do but i feel like it would be the same again after a while", i have changed i really have, she said she doesnt think i could change only after 2 months... how do i win her back? please i really need advice, i love her and im willing to do whatever it takes! should i be her freind for a while, what should i do, or say to her..
2007-01-07 05:00:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in the words of pop singer usher let it burn
2007-01-07 05:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was feeling smothered before, the last thing you want to do is launch a "come back to me" campaign. That will only confirm her fears and drive her away. The best way to get her interested again is to show that you can move on. Start dating other people. A number of things could happen by doing this. First, she could realize that she's not the center of your world, and know that you have attractive qualities, and she could become interested in you again. Another thing that could happen is that you could discover that you are interested in someone else, and you might actually move on. Either way, you win!
2007-01-07 13:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by rainy_blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably felt trapped when you when out. girls hate that. I have this problem with my boyfriend. Hes always saying he loves me every 5min and saying he never wants to leave me. it gets REALLY annoying.
Also- if she has had plans for a while DONT PUT HER IN A GUILT TRIP (my boyfriend did that. i was supposed to go to a party with a friend and i canceled on my friend i felt horrible)
2007-01-07 13:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by Kay-Bianca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her an adequate amount of time for her to believe that you've changed. then try to get together again. but don't tell her that you were this way on month2 when it's month 6. good luck.
2007-01-07 13:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do little things to show her you are thinking of her. send her an email, or flowers to her work. Don't do it everyday and don't talk to her everyday. show her you care and make her come back to you. Even if you hang out bring her flowers or a stuffed animal to show you are trying to win her back, not just hanging out as friends
2007-01-07 13:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by blufairie218 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur kinda liek my bf hes all over me nd u kno smotherin me.but ive learned to deal wit it.1st u mite wanna give her soem space nd just b friends nd show her how youve changed.nd if she REALLY loves u then she would take u back nd give u another chance.
2007-01-07 13:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by blue21693 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends did she leave u or did u leave her??
2007-01-07 13:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by big daddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋