Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

My relationship started out with lies. He would never invite me to his house although he said that he lived alone. He claimed that his home was too dirty. About a month after we started dating, I received a phone call from his live in girlfriend. I confronted him about it and he confessed to living with her but not being happy. He told me that she uses drugs and alcohol and because he is a recovering alcoholic/addict, the relationship was very unhealthy for him to be in. I had empathy for him, and allowed him to move in with me only because I had recently been in a similar situation. I too am a recovering addict and my x boyfriend was using drugs. Once he moved in, all was good for a while until one day he lost his temper when I accidently cut his fingernail too close. It scared me. Now, noticing all the little things, I notice that he is very lazy. He won't water the grass, he can't wash clothes, and he won't help out around the house. What should I do?

2007-01-07 05:19:40 · 15 answers · asked by Asknushallreceive 1 in Singles & Dating

please listen to this story,
i met a soldier in iraq online over a month ago. we hit it off completely and have been writing almost everyday (unless hes on a mission) we fell for eachother very quickly and hes not coming home until september...i told him i will wait and there is no question that i will. we decided that we will not see other people at all. its been so hard because i can only get about one email from him a day and sometimes a couple phone calls a week. he will be here on RnR in april and i will see him then.
I have never been in this situation and having a hard time not being able to talk to him as much as i would like.
i need helpful advice on how to stay positive because im finding myself getting sad over him not being here. and him not being here soon. i send letters everyother day and make sure im always here to take his call. any advice will help.......thank you.

2007-01-07 05:19:17 · 13 answers · asked by nonyerbusiness 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 05:18:28 · 10 answers · asked by lil hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

To cut a long story short, at college, after having known this girl for a few months, I asked if we could meet up during the easter holidays she said smiled and said yes, i then send her a text telling her i would call her that weekend. The next day she replies and says thought about it, and will be too busy Sorry!
Back at college I ask "whats wrong?". She replies a little agressively "I told you im busy". I then suggest another time, and she says "whats the point... we have nothing in commn anyway"

2007-01-07 05:17:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told my close female friend that I needed time apart from her---not for good,only for a short while(time limit not set).Also asked her to be honest (for once) if she felt anything for me--wud she take this as me calling her a liar???
I had to get over my feelings for her as she only only wanted to be friends and said she "don't deserve my feelings".

It's been 1 month, I've tried to get in touch: by text\phone\sent a card+gift--have apologised for my behaviour,said that her friendship a lot to me -- no response from her yet...

How would a girl feel after hearing this???Hurt???Angry???

Will she ever speak to me again???

How long would she consider "no contact" as being for??? Will she ignore me for good???

Will she 'eventually' get in touch? A few months?

WHAT CAN I DO TO SHOW HER HOW MUCH SHE MEANS TO ME+THE FRIENDSHIP???

2007-01-07 05:17:34 · 15 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a proud mother of 8 and wont to know people have to ridicule me for having so many... I can afford them, i love them all, i can give emotional care and attention to all, so why do people feel that they can tell me to stop.... I want 2 more and will be haveing to more before i decide to stop..................

2007-01-07 05:16:21 · 13 answers · asked by GRANDMA 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Share your experience please

2007-01-07 05:16:00 · 11 answers · asked by love_momo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am curious, can a guy who is catholic marry a christian girl without the guy being converted?

2007-01-07 05:15:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I just got a girls number from her friend. When should I call her and what should I say when I call her. Should I ask her out or just talk to her?

2007-01-07 05:14:51 · 10 answers · asked by Floridaboy 1 in Singles & Dating

Does true love exist? And how do you differentiate between loving someone and being in love with them?

2007-01-07 05:14:43 · 27 answers · asked by weedraker 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 05:14:37 · 3 answers · asked by slims 1 in Singles & Dating

ok.....so my boyfriend asked if i could go to a movie and i told him i couldn't because i really couldn't......then after that he seemed really really sad........do you think he's mad at me?? what do you think he's thinking?? and what should i do??

2007-01-07 05:14:29 · 13 answers · asked by Mater_rocks!! 2 in Singles & Dating

I call him Daddy and my friend thinks it's weird.

2007-01-07 05:14:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She speaks fluent french which is required for my business. I have invested the entire money and she is my working partner. She is quite efficient and hardworking. I do not have the time to search for a dedicated and hardworking partner like her. I have told her many times and she knows that I love my wife and not interested in extra-marital affairs. Still she persists especially when we are travelling alone for long hours. Can someone plz give me a sensible and reasonable answer about what to do in such a situation? I am serious. How to get her to accept the fact that I mean only business, for making money for both of us, and there is no place for sex in between?

2007-01-07 05:14:05 · 5 answers · asked by kaykay 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sory if this sounds lude but I realy am just wondering. If you are ever realy horny, but are sleeping in the same room as someone else (ie. at a sleepover) do/have you ever masturbated? Because, as a guy I sometimes want to but obviously cant because of the obvious movement, but it seems you could just sort of lie on your hand or something. So, have you? What if you are in the same bed as someone else?

Thanks for all your anwsers.

2007-01-07 05:13:32 · 14 answers · asked by flaminious 1 in Singles & Dating

my situation..what would you do/feel?
ok my bf & i been going out for 2 1/2 years now & for the past year or so he's been hanging out w/ his friends & going to all these places [eating at restaurants he has never taken me to, usually goes to NY w/out me] & he also went to this mall in pennsylvania [prince of pursia] which is supposedly big & high class shopping w/ his GUY friends. come on now isn't that a little weird? i mean, i don't mind sometimes but it's happened so many times that it's beginning to bother the hell out of me b/c he doesn't take me anywhere like the way him &his friends go out & i guess you can say I'M JEALOUS OF HIS FRIENDS. whatever i hate it. how would you feel? &what would you do?
& another scenario, when we go out to his cousins house or whatever & i don't feel like going, he keeps nagging me to go & i asked him why can't he go w/out me? &he says that he doesn't like leaving me. so i asked him how about when he goes out w/ his friends? he says THAT'S DIFFERENT.

2007-01-07 05:13:20 · 7 answers · asked by T-NEE 3 in Singles & Dating

is because my dads birthday is 10 of january.

2007-01-07 05:12:09 · 6 answers · asked by andrea r 1 in Family

used to live in Russia now in england and there was this boy at my old school who really liked me. back then i didnt feel anything to him, just friendship, then i suddenly moved away and didnt have the opportunity to tell him, as it was in the summer hols. 2 years later, i returned for a holiday and went to my old school's xmas party - this boy didnt even look at me! i reckon he's pi$ed off for me not telling him.

now im starting to have feelings for him - i dunno why. one of this year's resolution i told myself i'd patch things up with him, just to explain that i'm sorry and see if he wants to start things up, but i dont know how he'll react

PLZ HELP!!!


the different countries dont bother me coz when i finish uni im gonna go back

i dont want him go be upset with me (coz i cant bear knowing that someone isnt content with me) - i havent actually got his phone number, but i can get it from one of my friends...

2007-01-07 05:11:47 · 4 answers · asked by no-one listens... 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 05:11:11 · 12 answers · asked by Treacle 2 in Weddings

I'm starting to feel very resentful. This is not an inexpensive hobby! I feel like when he spends $xx,xxx.xx on a new bike (which he only has 2) or hundreds of $$ on parts, etc., that I should be able to spend as much doing something! Even if it's just stuffing it in an account somewhere. I want to support him, because he's at least home working on it all the time or at the track racing, but I'm getting very resentful about it all. I cringe whenever he starts to talk about it. He just started this hobby 1 year ago (has always loved racing), he won a race last year, not a ton of cash, but irregardless, a win=cash. Did he take the cash??? NO!!! Because the other guy lifted his tire at the line! GIVE ME A BREAK!!! I told him it could've bought at least one part he may need in the future or fuel or little things he has to get here and there. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-01-07 05:10:15 · 8 answers · asked by CluelessOne 5 in Marriage & Divorce

like in the bible does it say not to marry a woman who has been divorced? and i know about not being yoked with the unbelivers, but i think she believes im not sure, anyway can a christian date a girl who has a kid or not?

2007-01-07 05:08:36 · 14 answers · asked by AXL ROSE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-07 05:08:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 05:07:54 · 10 answers · asked by emk788 1 in Friends

he,s chubby like me has some acne and so hot

2007-01-07 05:07:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Jesus, marriage, and procreation thats all they think about. What happened to all the liberated women with spontaneous personalities!!! Most of them seem to have disappear after their mid-20s. Why are traditional women so boring?

2007-01-07 05:06:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he's nice but I don't feel any of that chemistry. :)

2007-01-07 05:05:43 · 21 answers · asked by ReRe 3 in Singles & Dating

SHE GETS REALLY ANGRY EVEN WHEN i D0N'T D0 ANYTHiNG SHE ENDS UP HURTiNG ME..BEATiNG ME T0 THE FL00R...THE LAST TIME SHE T00K ME T0 MY R00M [[AN ATTIC]] AND DID iT THERE S0 N0 0NE CAN HEAR ME SCREAM. SHE LEFT THE WINDOW OPENED THOUGH SO ACOUPLE OF PEOPLE HEARD. Y0U GUYS CAN SAY i'M LYING BUT MY M0M SAYS SHE D0ESN'T CARE IF SHE G0ES T0 JAIL JUST AS LONG AS SHE HURTS ME BEF0RE SHE D0ES..AND SHE SAYS IF SHE D0ES G0 T0 JAIL IT'S G0ING T0 BE MY FAULT...i WAS THiNKiNG 0F RUNNING AWAY T0 MY BEST FRIEND'S HOUSE F0R A WHILE..BECAUSE HIS FAMILY TREATS ME LIKE ONE OF THEM..ESPECIALLY HIS MOM. ONE TIME MY MOM NEARLY KICKED ME OUT OF THE HOUSE BUT I REFUSED TO GO....WHAT SHOULD I DO?? SHOULD I RUN AWAY? SHOULD I TELL SOMEBODY?? PLEASE HELP!!

2007-01-07 05:04:55 · 16 answers · asked by annetteXskye 2 in Family

i had this one friend that didn't like this one girl i talked to and she got all mad and stuff. she didn't talk to me for a week. ot was very bad to. should i still care about her or no?

2007-01-07 05:04:10 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

Lets say you are getting married or engaged.. before you get on serious is it an offense to ask or to ask him to test for any STD's examination??

Since i am still a virgin so i dont think i need myself checked out .. but i just want to make sure that he does not have any kind of records or illness that can affect the family we want to built in..
by the way living in somehow this sex is still a taboo thing .. i'm kinda afraid to bring the topic up..

help me out ..

thanks in advance.

2007-01-07 05:03:22 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend and i are almost 16 years old. lately, i don't know what's been happening to her. it's like she's changed all her values all of a sudden. the only thing that she talks about now is getting a boyfriend, "hot guys", and making out. her grades are slipping... and she's becoming a completely different person. i don't know what to do with her!! is it weird that i'm not obsessed with looking for a boyfriend and that she on the other hand is?

2007-01-07 05:03:17 · 9 answers · asked by Maria18 2 in Singles & Dating