my situation..what would you do/feel?
ok my bf & i been going out for 2 1/2 years now & for the past year or so he's been hanging out w/ his friends & going to all these places [eating at restaurants he has never taken me to, usually goes to NY w/out me] & he also went to this mall in pennsylvania [prince of pursia] which is supposedly big & high class shopping w/ his GUY friends. come on now isn't that a little weird? i mean, i don't mind sometimes but it's happened so many times that it's beginning to bother the hell out of me b/c he doesn't take me anywhere like the way him &his friends go out & i guess you can say I'M JEALOUS OF HIS FRIENDS. whatever i hate it. how would you feel? &what would you do?
& another scenario, when we go out to his cousins house or whatever & i don't feel like going, he keeps nagging me to go & i asked him why can't he go w/out me? &he says that he doesn't like leaving me. so i asked him how about when he goes out w/ his friends? he says THAT'S DIFFERENT.
2007-01-07 05:13:20 · 7 answers · asked by T-NEE 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when we weren't together yet he'd take me everywhere he went, with his friend or not. and now that we've been together he had not once invite me to go out with him and his friends.
tell me that isn't BS!
2007-01-07 05:14:46 · update #1
well, i would say when he is with his friends he prolly acts different and maybe is afraid of acting that way around you. Or he is doing things he should not be doing and doesnt want you to know about it. if you have a gut feeling he is lying about something, go with it...always trust yourself.
Now ways to change him...get a group of friends and start going out, be short with him. treat him like you dont care, and have a blast with your friends.watch how fast he changes once he knows he might be losing you.
2007-01-07 05:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by machgirl21 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is like that and now he's on jail because of his friend's mess. He didn't do anything wrong but he was with them and as the saying goes: the good gotta suffer with the bad. He is a very mature person but once he gets with them (his friends), he allow them to bring him down to their level. Him being in jail should be a wake up call. He will be getting out soon.
2007-01-07 13:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the King of Prussia Mall..I live like two feet away from that mall.
Well..I would talk to him about it and ask wats up!! sounds like you should dump this guy tho...
2007-01-07 13:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey just take a deep breath and relax girl!!! maybe you should suggest him taking you out somewhere and go to a fancy resturant!! tell him your jealous of his friends!!
2007-01-07 13:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mater_rocks!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like its a long story that i dont feel like reading... HEY.. at least i answered you question!
2007-01-07 13:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by COlder THaN AlaSka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a new boyfriend.
2007-01-07 13:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by momonster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's cheating on you.
2007-01-07 13:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by just that girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋