my best friend and i are almost 16 years old. lately, i don't know what's been happening to her. it's like she's changed all her values all of a sudden. the only thing that she talks about now is getting a boyfriend, "hot guys", and making out. her grades are slipping... and she's becoming a completely different person. i don't know what to do with her!! is it weird that i'm not obsessed with looking for a boyfriend and that she on the other hand is?
2007-01-07 05:03:17 · 9 answers · asked by Maria18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there really is nothing you can do about her. Shes most like just going through a phase. No its not weird that your not obsessed like her. Its actually a good thing. Your grades are way more important than any guy. Trust me on this one. I know from way to much experience. You don't need a guy to get along in life. Yea guys are nice and they can be very much fun to have but don't obsess over them. There's plenty of them to go around and one day you'll find your guy.
2007-01-07 05:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by Frannie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems to want to be a "pop chic". A pop chick is a girl who acts like she only cares about manicures, hot guys, finding a boyfriend, and sex/kissing. She purposly makes her grades drop so she will look like a dumb blonde. She wants to be popular and she needs support. Talk to her about it. Tell her that lately she has been acting like a real d u m b a s s. Tell her that you miss the old her, and the look she is going for will never work. Do a Jessica Simpson impression for her. Now I love Jessica Simpson, and she is not a pop chic, but in most movies she acts in, she is a pop chic. You might think all the things you have to say and do to your friend to stop are mean, but its called tough love. If you do these, she will go back to her normal self and stop trying to be someone she is not.
2007-01-07 05:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puberty does strange things. Its just part of growing up. Let her be who she is, while still finding time to do the same fun things the two of you have done in the past. Your bestfriends, and sometimes you just have to make adjustments in your relationship.
2007-01-07 05:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change for different reasons, like she could be tired of feeling sad because most people she knows has boyfriends and she doesn't.
2007-01-07 05:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friends doing the same thing. It's annoying i know. Give her some space for a while. thats what im doing.
2007-01-07 05:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by Kay-Bianca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. people change when they get to about your age. either you won't be able to stand each other anymore, or she'll mellow out. be her friend if you want, but let her deal with her own problems.
2007-01-07 05:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a boy obsessing stage
2007-01-07 05:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by hoplessly_in_love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just going through a stage... a stage where she loses her virgianty
2007-01-07 05:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by LacrosseStudCalifornia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why r u bothered much about her .........it's just the beginning.........age factor..................some ppl will do it later.........may be u next....jus kidd..
2007-01-07 05:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋