ok.....so my boyfriend asked if i could go to a movie and i told him i couldn't because i really couldn't......then after that he seemed really really sad........do you think he's mad at me?? what do you think he's thinking?? and what should i do??
2007-01-07 05:14:29 · 13 answers · asked by Mater_rocks!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you think too much about what he's thinking. He wanted to take you to a movie.....and you couldn't go. Did you tell him why? Did you tell him that you'd be happy to go with him another time? He apparently likes you well enough to want to spend time with you, and was disappointed when you couldn't go. Tell him you'd still like to go another time.
2007-01-07 05:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man this was like me a few weeks ago...well anyways when i asked if my girlfriend could go wit me to the movies or something she said she couldnt. i thought that mabey she rather hang out with her friends then me. hey dont think that he doesnt love u anymore cuz thats not true. he mite be really really sad because he really really misses u and was hoping to be with you so bad and then he finds out that he cant so that must be why hes sad. if i were u i would try to find a free time and ask him if he can do something or just tell him "hey sorry bout last time when i couldt go with u to the movies im relaly sorry and i really wanted to go" and say "mabey we can work something out next week if thats ok with you and sorry that i made u sad" i hope this helpd, man these questions are bringin back memories
2007-01-07 05:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by lilblazex7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be thinking you have a boyfriend because telling him you really couldn't wasnt a good enough reason because to a guy that is like saying i have something i dont want to tell you so the best thing to do in this situation would be to tell him why you couldnt go to the movies with him
2007-01-07 05:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by Andrew H. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is trying to manipulate you. Trying to make you do what he wants by making you feel sad abut him feeling sad. Don't fall for it. If you do, he will have right where he wants you. For your entire relationship. And it will not stop with a movie, it will be used for other things he wants. It will eventually be used to extort sex from you. Be smart. Don't fall for it. And I would bet that if you looked into it, his family dynamics are built around this sort of thing.His mom uses this tactic to get wht she wants more than likely. (Say, is he Jewish?) Don't be used!
2007-01-07 05:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you really couldn't go and that you will do your best to be available next time he asks you out. Tell him you need more notice.
2007-01-07 05:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably dissapointed... not mad or sad... probably was looking forward to spending time wth you...... just think if you thought you were gonna do something but then were told no..... sOME TIMES BF OR GF EXPECT A YES ANSWER ALL THE TIME SO THEY GET A LIL DISSAPPONTED WHEN T DOES NOT HAPPEN
2007-01-07 05:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by jbren89639 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's upset.I believe he thinks that you don't like him,but I think that he will not give up so easely.You should go up to him and say..."You were saying something about a movie?".I think that by saying "I cant,because I really can't"(by nut giving a reaon) he thought that you don't like him.
Hope this helped you.
Good luck!
2007-01-07 05:19:33 · answer #7 · answered by Nevermind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make plans to go out with him. Make it up to him. Perhaps he really wants to spend some time with you and only you. So show him you want to.
2007-01-07 05:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by yugitony85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he's mad after he went threw the trouble of cutting a hole in his pocket
2007-01-07 05:17:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to go to the movies with you another day.
2007-01-07 05:18:52 · answer #10 · answered by Jack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋