like in the bible does it say not to marry a woman who has been divorced? and i know about not being yoked with the unbelivers, but i think she believes im not sure, anyway can a christian date a girl who has a kid or not?
2007-01-07 05:08:36 · 14 answers · asked by AXL ROSE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-01-07 05:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can. Adultery is having sex, or maybe lusting after a woman who is not your wife. It has nothing to do with dating a girl who has a child. If you like her, date her. Talk to her about your beliefs and see if she believes the same way. Do not tell her that you are concerned about dating her because of her child. She will walk out of your life right then. But see if your beliefs match. It isn't up to you to judge what she has done in her past. Look at who and what she is now. and remember, there is only one unforgivable sin.
2007-01-07 13:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by David L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you take her out on one date and find out what her views are on Christianity and if she has been saved. If she has repented for fornication and having a child out of wedlock, then there is no reason not to pursue a relationship with her. Since she has not been married before, it will not be adultery if the both of you should marry.
2007-01-07 13:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the woman isn't married then it is ok. She may have a kid but if you can apply your faith to your relationship and show a genuine love and caring towards them both then I don't see that there should be a problem.
However you need to ask yourself is this person worth your love? What were the circumstances around her pregnancy? Was she on a one night stand? Was she in love? Does she still live in the same way? Are her morals/faith different to yours?
I hope that she was in love when she had her child and I hope that you both will have a strong and loving relationship. gd luck and god bless x
2007-01-07 13:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by jesusfreakjen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was never married, it can't be adultery. Adultery is when a women was married and then either divorced or separated thru death.
I see no religious reason why you shouldn't date a women who has a child out of wedlock. If she attends church where you do, I would ask your preacher, pastor, priest or maybe ask someone at the church, an elder or whatever they call them.
2007-01-07 13:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by suzyq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a child out of wedlock is wrong, yes. Is it adultery to date a girl with one? Heavens no! She wasn't married! It's fine! However, you do want to make sure she's a believer of the same God and the same doctrines you are, or you WILL experience problems.
2007-01-07 13:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by jdd's_kitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can date her.
2007-01-07 13:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by t t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but who the hell cares! its not like ur going out while she is still with her kids daddy. in the word of god " once love may be loved again" keep that in mind, just cause she has a kid dosent mean that u are not a true christain. Go with her, god made u meet her right. she was put on the plant for a reason and hopefully it was for u to see past religion and go on with life. good luck
2007-01-07 13:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by quikblue11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date her all you want but don't have sex with her, as then you would be the adulterer!
The child is innocent but the children do pay for the sins of the parents, says so in the Bible.
sex is for married people only- the issue produced from adulterous relationships is called bastard kids. I know I am surrounded by them from my current husbands family- such good catholics are they not?
2007-01-07 13:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by flyingdove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not adultery. And if you have any doubts about her beliefs, just ask her sometime. Perhaps one of your dates could include a church function of some type.
L.
2007-01-09 00:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by tink3610 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure we can. This is fornication and not adultery. If she truly believes now, even if she did not before, then you have a valuable person.
2007-01-07 13:13:29 · answer #11 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋