SHE GETS REALLY ANGRY EVEN WHEN i D0N'T D0 ANYTHiNG SHE ENDS UP HURTiNG ME..BEATiNG ME T0 THE FL00R...THE LAST TIME SHE T00K ME T0 MY R00M [[AN ATTIC]] AND DID iT THERE S0 N0 0NE CAN HEAR ME SCREAM. SHE LEFT THE WINDOW OPENED THOUGH SO ACOUPLE OF PEOPLE HEARD. Y0U GUYS CAN SAY i'M LYING BUT MY M0M SAYS SHE D0ESN'T CARE IF SHE G0ES T0 JAIL JUST AS LONG AS SHE HURTS ME BEF0RE SHE D0ES..AND SHE SAYS IF SHE D0ES G0 T0 JAIL IT'S G0ING T0 BE MY FAULT...i WAS THiNKiNG 0F RUNNING AWAY T0 MY BEST FRIEND'S HOUSE F0R A WHILE..BECAUSE HIS FAMILY TREATS ME LIKE ONE OF THEM..ESPECIALLY HIS MOM. ONE TIME MY MOM NEARLY KICKED ME OUT OF THE HOUSE BUT I REFUSED TO GO....WHAT SHOULD I DO?? SHOULD I RUN AWAY? SHOULD I TELL SOMEBODY?? PLEASE HELP!!
2007-01-07 05:04:55 · 16 answers · asked by annetteXskye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i REALLY WANT T0 RUN AWAY!!! BUT THEN i D0N'T WANT T0 G0 T0 JUVIE! WHAT iF SHE HURTS ME EVEN M0RE iF i TELL S0MEB0DY..i PR0MiSED MYSELF THAT iF SHE EVER BEAT ME S0 BADLY i C0ULDN'T TAKE iT, i'D RUN AWAY...WAS THAT A BAD THiNG?? i ALWAYS OBEY MY M0THER, BUT EVERY0NE iN MY FAMiLY iS N0T TRUSTiNG, THEY MAKE UP LiES AB0UT ME, S0 WHEN i TELL MY M0THER iT iS N0T TRUE, SHE HiTS ME HARDER!
2007-01-07 05:35:39 · update #1
MY M0M D0ESN'T HAVE A MENTAL PR0BLEM..SHE jUST GETS MAD WHEN MY FAMiLY MAKES UP LiES AB0UT ME LiKE KiSSiNG A B0Y AT THE C0RNER & 0THER THiNGS..i'M 13 YEARS 0LD BY THE WAY. EVEN WHEN I TELL HER IT'S NOT TRUE SHE HITS ME!
2007-01-07 07:43:45 · update #2
If this is happening as you say, then you ned to tell someone. Tell a counselor or teacher at school;tell a minister;call Children's Services.
If this results in her going to jail then it is HER fault, not yours. You need to protect yourself. If other people heard what happened, then they can verify what you say.
Just because she is your mother, that does not give her the right to do that to you.
If you have friends that you can stay with, take your clothes and go. If your mother tries to get you to come home, don't go. If she gets the police to come after you, tell them you have been abused and you do not want to return home.
The most important thing is to keep on telling someone until you are listened to.
2007-01-07 05:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by Marilyn E 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
My name is Joan . I am a Mother of 2 kids, my son is 31----and my daughter is 26.
I want to let you know right now you really need some help.
I take it you still are in school. I want you to go first thing to the
Principal's office. There they will call and get you some help there at the school, during your school hours.Number one thing is to get you some protection. Just because you have had bad problems with adults "like your Mom" don't let that bother you about following directions with the adults that will come and help you please!!!! Please don't run away! It sounds like your Mom has a very serious problem! She may have a mental disorder. And if you run away to your Best friends house -----his parents would get into some bad trouble with the law!! I feel like you would not won't that to happen to these kind folks. I understood you to say they really treat you very good.
I am so sorry this is happening to you it can and will get better.
I will be praying for you. Love Joan
P.S. Please Tell!!!! Don't run away!!!! It's a bad world out there!!
2007-01-07 06:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by missbeasley1958 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry your dealing with this. Unfortunatley it doesn't seem like your going to change her, but you need to seek out help. Talk to your teachers, a counselor. Call the police and other family members. If your best friends family can take you in do it. But it seems like your mom needs serious help. But you need it more, you MUST report it, and most importantly talk to people and confide in them about how you feel, you can't bottle it up.
Know that you are special and your mom's the one with the problem. It won't always be like this. Eventually you will be a adult, and can make the life you want. And even a parent yourself someday, with a vow never to be like her.
Focus on school and be determined to make a good life for yourself. With or without her
2007-01-07 05:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by inlovewithwoody 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell a trusted teacher or counselor at school by law they have to help you. No one not even your MOTHER has the right to hit you. Protective services will get you guys into a program to help her deal with anger and it would benefit you. Running away will only make matters worse. Then the courts will see you as a delinquent. People are out there willing to help, and after your Mom gets help she will see that it was the right choice. So please tell a trusted adult at school to help you.
Good luck and remember domestic violence is not your fault.
2007-01-07 05:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by Stacy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she goes to jail, it's HER fault. I would almost be tempted to set up a hidden video camera (borrow one if you don't have one) and try to capture her behavior in case you need to prove your claims. But you do need to get out of there. The thing is, if you're under 18 and run away, YOU'LL end up in Juvenile detention. Your mother is calculating; taking you up in the attic. She knows she's doing wrong and is trying to cover her tracks. That's why it might be beneficial to try to capture her behavior in case this gets to be a judicial issue. Do you ever fight back? Be careful, because you never know how far someone like this will go! Good luck!
2007-01-07 05:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by bfwh218 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK - there's no way that your mother should do that to you. But as a mother, I know how angry I get when my kids wind me up. Yes, my daughter swore and me and I slapped her and I don't care - I would do it again. So be honest - how much responsibility do you bear? Parents are only human and they can only take so much. For example, if you obeyed her, would she get so upset? She might have had bad parenting herself and so does not know how to deal with a mouth teenager.
If you know that your mother is mad, and likely to snap for no reason, go and get help.
I'm not saying that hitting you is ok - not at all. But I am saying: don't provoke her. And if that isn't the cause of the problem, see someone who can help you.
2007-01-07 05:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your best friends mother. A counselor at school, your minister, priest, rabbi. You need help. Your mother could have a mental health problem, and could be helped with the proper medication. Good Luck.
2007-01-07 05:10:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anne2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go get help...either from another family member (like your grandmother or such) or from the police. I had a mom much like that and she nearly killed me before I was "rescued" by the police.
2007-01-07 05:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by Terrible 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. Don't let her get away with abusing you. Make her take responsibility for her actions.
2007-01-07 05:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone you trust such as your friends parent you were talking about. You do not need to stay there.
2007-01-08 12:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by Eric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋