How do you cope......?

Question

I am a proud mother of 8 and wont to know people have to ridicule me for having so many... I can afford them, i love them all, i can give emotional care and attention to all, so why do people feel that they can tell me to stop.... I want 2 more and will be haveing to more before i decide to stop..................

Answer 1

♥ Don't listen to anybody else. It's your life, and as long as you can take care of your kids, then YAY FOR YOU! You sound like a good mother, and as long as you stay one, then I see nothing wrong with having a couple more. When people ridicule you or say mean things, just say,"Well, I have the money, supplies, and the brain to take care of 8 children. Therefore, I see nothing wrong with it. If I'm a good mother, then having 8 children isn't a big deal. I'm good to them, and I have the money to take care of them. Unlike many, I'm perfectly fine having more!" I'm sure you're a role-model to many moms because I'm sure it's a challenge with 8 kids. Don't worry about it. Having 8 children is more of something to be proud about. ♥

Answer 2

I say good on ya girl I'm 22 and got two beautiful girls and if i could afford it would have at least 10 more.Being able 2 have children is a gift there are women out there who cant have kids and i really feel for them cause i couldn't imagine my life with out my girls.and i say butt out 2 any one who criticise women who have lots of children it is a couples rite 2 decide how many children they have and as long as the parents or parent can give them what they need emotionally and physically then go for it,me and my partner are considering having another in a years time,my grandma had 8 and worked and all my aunty's and uncles and mum came out perfectly well i look up 2 my grandma cause she is an amazing loving caring women,and any women who wants lots of children and can cope with them i take my hat off to them.

Answer 3

Some people don't understand how to communicate if you are getting flack about how many kids you have. If you are able to financially/emotionally support that many, more power to you. Many people don't understand the ideas of large families. When they comment about it, just sweetly reply back that your reproductive ability is your concern. And then ask them to stop 1) Buying a gas guzzler that depletes the oil supplies and pollutes the atmosphere 2) Using the school system as a baby sitter/discipline for their wonderful brood 3) putting their nose into your life and tell them you're sorry that they don't under the love of a large family 4) create your own comeback ;)

Answer 4

well im glad for you some feel that a large family is just to much for people and that they may end up not being able to care for them all i think if you have the money and the time and you want large family then go for it they can be such a joy im a single child and my mother couldnt afford to have more even if she wanted
just think of all the fun and memories all your kids can make and will dont let other people bother you its your body and money and if you want them then go to it
good luck with such a busy household

Answer 5

well sounds like it's your need, not the need of your children. no one should tell you to stop but you have to take into consideration the things that could go wrong and also we r a very overpopulated world.
I hope nothing happens to your money and that your children get a good education, i find it hard with 2 children they need alot of individual input.
Good luck

Answer 6

Good for you. I think if you can take care of them, more power to you. Some people just don't know when to keep there mouths shut.I'm prod of you for being so great with your children. keep up the good work.

Answer 7

PEOPLE WILL SAY ANYTHING TO GET IN YOUR BUSINESS
IS YOUR LIFE WITH YOU WANT TO HAVE 8 OR 10 CHILDREN. THERE IS NO LAW THAT TELLS YOU U CAN NOT HAVE CHILDREN OR HOW MANY YOU CAN HAVE.

BE HAPPY YOU CAN AFFORD THEM.

GOOD LUCK

Answer 8

Hey as long as you can afford to have the children without taking tax payer money to raise them and you can emotionally handle it, then hey all the more power to ya!!!!!!!!!! But if you are on assistance. Get a grip!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

I'm glad you can afford them and give them all love, but this planet is growing beyond its means. Do you want your great-grandchildren to suffer because of overpopulation?

Answer 10

As long as you love each and every one of your children, don't worry what others say.
Perhaps there's not as much love in their lives as there is in yours.