She speaks fluent french which is required for my business. I have invested the entire money and she is my working partner. She is quite efficient and hardworking. I do not have the time to search for a dedicated and hardworking partner like her. I have told her many times and she knows that I love my wife and not interested in extra-marital affairs. Still she persists especially when we are travelling alone for long hours. Can someone plz give me a sensible and reasonable answer about what to do in such a situation? I am serious. How to get her to accept the fact that I mean only business, for making money for both of us, and there is no place for sex in between?
2007-01-07 05:14:05 · 5 answers · asked by kaykay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stand up for what you believe in. Tell her to find someone who is not married. Tell her you love and respect your wife and are not interested. I would say you must make time to search for another partner, if she persists. She is not going to accept a sensible or reasonable answer. Looks like trouble ahead if she persists.
2007-01-07 05:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anne2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to tell her no, and try as hard as you can not to put yourselves in situations that would wear down your barriers. You are very honorable and respectful, and the truth is if you really do intend to honor your vows and marriage, you have to tell her that she must cease or you will leave the partnership and pull out your money. Show her you mean business. Pun intended.
2007-01-07 13:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shd start looking for a new partner, true, it might affect ur business for sometime, but the present situation could mess up a good marriage. I dont think this woman'll give up, or she might pretend like she understands but might hold up a grudge against u for rejectin her.....Does ur wife know?
2007-01-07 13:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ladylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well keep tellling her no and that you are devoted to your wife and tell her that she is making it uncomfortable to work with her maybe you could set her up with a single guy that you or your wife knows or at least try and get her back in the dating scene so maybe shell leave you alone
good luck
2007-01-07 13:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never mix business with pleasure. And you are married - I would end all involvement with this woman; she is obviously not professional and has no respect for herself or for you.
2007-01-07 13:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋