HELP! WHAT! does his male body language mean???!?

Question

Help me out with this male body language please.
My boyfriend will
1-Stand in front of me while im sitting and talk to me while looking down at me
2-He will start biting his nails after we kiss or cuddle (is that like a"bono-er"thing)
3-Hes always trying to look me straight in the eyes but I've never really been comfortable looking people directly in the eyes so why does he do this?
4-If we're play fighting or something he always has to end up the winner or the one who restrains
5-Hes always saying things like"if you do that again imma tackle you but Id do it gently"
6-And we just started (french kissing) and when we're kissing hes always pushing his tounge in my mouth even when I'll back away a bit(usually when were laying down watchin a movie)
7-An we will be sitting down like on a bed and he'll like playfully push me down onto the bed and lay all his weight on me.
8-An he will get angry or ignore it if I talk about any of my guy friends
What does all this mean please help!

Basically I'm 16 he's 17 ...
Just so you have a age range in your mind set for answering.
THANKS FOR ANY ANSWERS I'LL READ THEM ALL THANKS- ASHLEY!!!

Answer 1

he is just jealous of the other guys. do they walk around shirtless or something?....he just obviously has not been with any other girl or hasnt done much so he doesnt know what to do. im 23, had those problems when i was your age. but i grew up and learned more. alot of things dont bother me....if you have more questions, you can email me.

Answer 2

I'd like to start by saying "chalk it up to hormones", but I'd be making light of your situation. Most of his behavior is about domination. If you are noticing it now, it will only get worse as your relationship progresses. He is most likely holding back as much as he can right now, but in the future his behavior will escalate.

If you haven't had sex or talked about it yet, that will be another factor/point where things will get worse, too.

If you really like this guy, the best thing for you to do now, is to discuss these things with him and let him know that you are not comfortable with them, and that if things continue, then the two of you will not have a future together. If he cannot respect the way you feel now, he never will.

If you have any doubts about where he is headed, watch Animal Planet for a while. (Not a great source, I realize, but the similarities between humans and animals when it comes to relationships is hard to miss).

In any case, I'd like to wish you the best of luck. You'll need that and some strength to work through this, he'll need it and some patience.

Answer 3

Obviously you are uncomfortable with his behavior and that should be enough to put up a red flag for you.
He sounds controlling... if you are asking for opinions you are just trying to justify the feelings you are having.
You do not need to justify your feelings; if you are uncomfortable with the way he treats you then tell him. If he doesn't stop then end it now.
I might add that 17 year old boys are lead by one thing and one thing only... you know what it is. You are both young, don't start a pattern of doubting yourself and/or staying in unhealthy relationships so young.

Answer 4

He is trying to be the dominant partner in your relationship which isn't that uncommon for guys. It is usually caused by their low self-esteem. The problem he has with you talking to other guys is a symptom of that as well. However, the aggressive kissing and pinning you down need to be addressed. Letting this kind of behavior go without stopping it will only lead to more aggressive behavior later.

Answer 5

I think you really ought to be careful with this guy of yours because he seems to be very controlling. All of these things he does are things a man does when he feels the need to be in control. He feels that he's bigger than you and perhaps you are smaller than him (rather than equal or larger than him). Be careful! If any arguments come up, he'll definately try to win them, which isn't healthy. And it also seems like you're losing your control in your relationship. My advice to you is to talk to your boyfriend about being a bit more sensitive with you, rather than so tough and rough, and for him to treat you as his equal, rather than looking down upon you when talking to you.

Answer 6

I think you have one dominating bf there Ashley. Either learn to enjoy it, some people like dominance in the bedroom (as long as it is only confined to the bedroom and he is not trying to dominate every aspect of your relationship) or tell him you don't like it and if he doesn't stop then leave.

Answer 7

okay he does like u but i was a ittle restrained by some of the things he does. just set some ground rules hit him back and show him u dot like it.when u french kiss its the point to jab his tounge into ur mouth,and when he gets mad it means that he thinks that ur showing off to them u and ur bf.

Answer 8

I think he really likes you, but he's kind of horny and can't wait to "do stuff" with you. I think you need to just tell him to give you some space. He obviously really likes you, and just wants to be around you. You're lucky to have a really commited guy. Good luck.

Answer 9

him standing in front of you is a way of intimidation (subconscious, but still), he seems to be a very possesive type of person. I'd go really slow in this relationship.

Answer 10

hey...only.. thing... take it easy at the age of 17 ...is i s too... controlling ..if you ask me.. so.... take it easy...don't give in to him....next time... when he looks down at you and talk ... You need to stand up girl...