Do we get upset seeing a male who goes out with a female who is blonde, big breasted, with a fabulous body?
If we do get upset, why??
2007-01-07 03:57:56 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because we want to be the blonde, big breasted and fabulous body, or we want to be the one with her.
2007-01-07 04:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We get upset because we instantly compare ourselves to these stereotypical women that the media perceives to be beautiful.
A gorgeous woman is typically seen as:
-tall
-blonde
-blue eyed
-hot body
-huge chest
but we forget that men love personalities just as much. There are many forms of beautiful and beating ourselves up about one kind does nothing for us. Those blonde, big breasted women with great bodies may have qualities that we don't have but we also have qualities they don't. Try to focus on what makes you unique and beautiful and you'll start to feel more confident and less upset lol.
2007-01-07 04:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by jesusfreakjen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should I feel upset because a guy is going out with a blonde? Why should I care? If that is his thing then that's up to him. It would be like suggesting the blonde would be upset to see someone with a brunette with a pear shaped body? That is ridiculous.
If you compare yourself to the blonde and get upset because you want to look like her and can't then that is another matter. I think this applies to you and you need to get some self esteem.
2007-01-07 04:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we do!!! Its because we want all of that. Big breasts, fabulous body, everything! But it doesnt matter what the girl looks like, boys are just a bunch of jerks looking for girls with big breasts, and a big butt and all that stuff. Girls should be treated to only be liked by their personality and how nice they are.
2007-01-07 04:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I try not to agree with or think about the sterotypes of any particular set of people so it doesn't bother me when I see a male going out with a female of that description.
2007-01-07 03:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't get upset ,because at night everything of mine stays in place ,And in the morning I'm still the same person ,on the other hand ,can you say the same thing about her ?lashes out ,make-up out ,Extra padding out ,extra heels ,to many extras.
get real real stuff ,not every woman wants to look like fake barbie .
So hell nope what's to be upset?
2007-01-07 04:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probaly jealousy or low self esteem.
but someone with big boobs, a nice body, and blonde really isn't my idea of beautiful, and if it is, it's not the ONLY beautiful. I appreciate my own self. yeah, I want to change some things, and I am working on that. but I never compare myself to anybody. if she got the whole package, good for her.
2007-01-07 04:02:23 · answer #7 · answered by WHY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity.
2007-01-07 03:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity.
2007-01-07 03:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't bother me one bit!! The only reason "HE" is out with her is for one thing and one thing only!! Big breasted blondes are always on dates because they can't seem to keep one of "THEM"!! LOL!
2007-01-07 04:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by draygonfli_19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋