last night i had a HUGE fight with my b/f he called me names i will never forget (swears), but when we arnt fighting it is amazing and i know this is the person i want to spend my life with. anyway yesterday we fought, horribly, but after i just gave in and forgave him-we made love, and the night ended, but thinking about it now i am still mad and i feel like i have made a HUGE mistake in forgiving him, what should i do now? is it to late to let him know how i really feel?
2007-01-07 03:58:40 · 10 answers · asked by Ash 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are probably mad because you gave in when you didn't really want to. Pick your battles, some things are worth fighting over until you work them out and some are not. Definatley get the fighting over with to some degree before you marry him. If he gets that mad and calls you names and you feel like you have to give in to make peace then he is using his anger as a way to control you. He might not be the one. Wait it out and see how he responds when you tell him what you think. If he blows up then you are setting a pattern of not being able to talk things through with him. Hope this helps. Good luck!
2007-01-07 04:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by healergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it will be hard, you should end this relationship. Love isn't about arguing and fighting and bringing each other down. Sometimes relationships don't work out. Let go and start looking for a new and better love. Sometimes you have to change the life you planned in order to find the life you were meant to live.
2007-01-07 12:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in an abusive relationship. You need to look closely at your future with this man. You deserve much better. This man needs help. He is not GOOD marriage and husband material. Please make him get counseling for his abusive behavior or dump him. You can find someone who truly loves and respects you.
2007-01-07 12:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not too late speak your mind , let him know how you feel and next time dont be so quick to give into him. it can easily become a pattern and he will know then that a Lil sweet talk will get him what he wants
2007-01-07 12:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by sissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always great to kiss and makeup but somtimes u gotta be a little strong 4 yaself/////and its never to late 4 anything!
2007-01-07 12:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by da8man2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off with him if he makes you feel bad all the time like that. You deserve better!
2007-01-07 12:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does not sound like you will have a successful long term relationship with this guy...
2007-01-07 12:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should challege him to have a boxing match so u both can settle this once in for all.
2007-01-07 12:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better to forget about such things, and move on..
good luck.
2007-01-07 12:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Angel Of Fallen Stars*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good guy don't do that
Move on
2007-01-07 12:03:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋