I asked thst and if you think its bad to lose your virginity before you're married.
2007-01-07 03:53:40 · 19 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should wait till marriage
2007-01-07 03:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's bad to lose your virginity before marriage. Very few people are waiting until marriage. I do know a friend who is, and it's had a negative effect on her relationships. No one sticks around for long, and I wonder if it's because most guys aren't used to dating virgins. There just aren't many of them around, generally speaking (also, this friend does everything but sex, so I think that guys view her as a tease).
I'd say that you should know him for a couple of months before you decide to do anything. Really get to know him. I definitely think that you should love a guy first, especially if you're giving him your virginity.
I wasn't a virgin when I met my fiancee, but I didn't sleep with him for a couple of months, and he said that he respected me for it. If I'd been one of those girls that gave it up on the first date, we probably wouldn't be together now.
Sleeping with someone too soon labels you as "easy," and guys don't respect that. Respect yourself, and they will too. You're worth more than a one night stand. You want to be with someone who cares about you.
2007-01-07 12:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by Galoshes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont lose your virginity if you think you are not ready and will regret it or feel guilty, as you cant get it back. As for how long to know a guy - it depends on the guy, some guys you may not really know even after years, others you may know really well after a few weeks. Just do it when it feels right.
2007-01-07 11:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not written in stone that you must have sex with the guy you're seeing, ya know, honey? And about marraige... you may NEVER get married. It sounds like you're just ready to do it and get it over with. If I had it to do over again, I'd wait until I graduated college and was financially stable to tell you the truth. Sex leads to children, you know? If you're not ready to have them, you really shouldn't be having sex... condoms or not.
2007-01-07 12:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are still a virgin I would wait a month or so to see what happens, some guys hear virgin then you just become a mission or challenge. But if your not a virgin do it when it feels right
2007-01-07 12:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sherry A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter, If u like the guy and it seemed like it will eventually become a relationship then it's probably better to wait. If u both know it's a one time off thing then the sooner the better!
2007-01-07 11:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by sugarscamp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's important to know at best the person and waiting the marriage to have sex is a way to donate the best of you to your lover.
2007-01-07 12:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by Francesca G 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here is the formula for unmarried people :
X = your age in years
Y = Years to wait
Y = 35 - X
2007-01-07 12:03:20 · answer #8 · answered by Frank S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should wait until marriage because it will be more special and you obviously really do love them, and it's not lust or anything else.
2007-01-07 12:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by .:Blair:. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The very second you decide you like him is almost too late
Give the guy what he wants
2007-01-07 12:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by obnoxioustroll5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋