Family & Relationships - 6 January 2007

My husand is a terrific man except in his free time he is always on the computer.Not chatting or being bad but playing these war games and so forth.I feel so alone at night sometimes and we have talked and tryied to compromise but it doesnt change.Any others who have a husband who has a computer for a mistress?

2007-01-06 22:12:24 · 15 answers · asked by karen e 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently an old friend came to visit me.We have known each other for 10 years.There has always been sparks between us.We simply cannot be in each other's presence without touching each other.We also have a great friendship & soul connection but has never formally dated.
Since his visit I met someone else - amazing person.He has all the qualities I look for in a guy and potential husband.We are dating exclusively at the moment.He wants to marry me and will give me the life i always dreamed off.The only thing is that that all consuming passion is not there.
Now my friend has informed me that he left his girlfriend and that he wants me to go&spend time with him.I know this might be my long awaited chance to have a relationship with him.I am only scared that he will leave me as he has habit of breaking up with girls after awhile.
How do I choose between all consuming passion & stability and security?

2007-01-06 22:11:58 · 7 answers · asked by lilly 1 in Singles & Dating

in the sex category i prefer for my wife to be clean shave when i go south. so am i to assume that the women in general like for the men to follow suit?

2007-01-06 22:11:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 22:10:57 · 16 answers · asked by Julianne Marie L 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 22:10:53 · 5 answers · asked by artis2005 1 in Singles & Dating

how much should my sons father be paying? he never takes him overnight and has him for 5 hours on a sunday. my son has swimming, karate and golf lessons which costs me a fortune (i'm not complaining) surely this is to be taken to account too?? hes gave me the same amount for 4 years and i dont think its enough.

2007-01-06 22:10:05 · 15 answers · asked by shonkamur 3 in Family

I am really confused coz you know I don't really know if he has the same feeling toward me..... Just being curious...... that's all. Please help me......

2007-01-06 22:07:24 · 6 answers · asked by Glorivee 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I love each other very much. Everything's great between us...but he as a person likes to have fun. He likes to take it easy, find the humor in everything, because like he says life is too short.
He makes fun of me a lot...and would only love it if i did the same thing to him. But even though I know he only does that to add humor to situations...it gets to me sometimes, especially when i'm PMSing. I end up making a mountain out of a molehill and ruin both of our moods.

I promise myself each time that I won't allow myself to get upset over silly things again, but he would say another funny comment and there we go all over another time.

Anybody been in a similar situation? What do you do to become less sensitive and find the humor in it?

Thank you

2007-01-06 22:05:11 · 8 answers · asked by big h 2 in Singles & Dating

Whats the difference between the two and which do u prefer?

2007-01-06 22:05:07 · 21 answers · asked by Bridget H 1 in Singles & Dating

I spent 5 years to get over my first heartbreak
And I am overcoming another heartbreak
I feel if I love again, I will live under the shadow and fear of my previous relationshp
Do you feel the same?

2007-01-06 22:05:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 22:04:53 · 4 answers · asked by arsalan_abdulmajeed 1 in Singles & Dating

It is rather strange that a man become consious about his falling hairs,but when bald people buy a comb and keep that in their hip pocket it always surprised me.

2007-01-06 22:03:15 · 20 answers · asked by rulethisworldman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

them every little detail but tell them some stuff about your life? my other friend was like does she ever call you to hang out? and it bothered me because people get busy and dont have time to just hang out. and it bothered me that she said that. my friend and i never hang out but i feel close to her cuz in went on a trip with her for 9 days and we saw each other alot...and we still keep in touch. am i wrong to be annoyed by the other friends comment

2007-01-06 22:02:11 · 6 answers · asked by boo 1 in Friends

There's a guy i really care for, we work together sometimes. We spend time together outside work aswell. We flirt alot and he is always touching me and hugging me. He is always the one starting the flirting. Anyway at first it was just a bit of fun, but now its gotten more serious. Alot of the time i think he might really like me, other times i think he's just having a bit of fun. Usually i'd go with my gut, but i can never be sure. Im starting to think maybe he's not sure how he feels?

2007-01-06 22:01:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 22:01:32 · 17 answers · asked by Realdeal 2 in Singles & Dating

difference between them and which one is best one

2007-01-06 21:59:35 · 20 answers · asked by rv_rinku 1 in Singles & Dating

Here is my situation: I'm married to a young lady for now over two years. We are separated and I don't want to get back together anymore. She's has some issues mainly a Drama Queen. I'm laid back, but I handle business when it comes to the home and our children. I am thinking about filing for a divorce. Right now, she won't allow me to see the children. The main reason why I'm divorcing her is that she's not happy with me and I'm not happy with her. I think we both have been holding on for the kids. At least I have. I wanted them to come up in a home where they could see and feel the importance of family. My wife is not allowing that. I just want to divorce and get joint custody of my children. I miss them so much and pray everyday that I will see them again soon. I'm a good father and provider. I will spend or do anything for them. It's not about the money. I just want to be in their life as a father, leader, and friend. They are my best investment I have ever made.

2007-01-06 21:59:33 · 11 answers · asked by Christian_2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-06 21:59:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you going out with him. situation- youve just met some where you started talking for a while and he asks you for your number or asks you out do you give hime your true number and the rest is history or do you give him a fake number and what do you do if he asked you out

2007-01-06 21:57:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a step son and i have been in his life for 5 years now, and he still treats me like crap most of the time. He is only 8, but he is so very mouthy to me and his dad, and he doesn't listen to what I say and when I do tell him to do something and he gets mad he screams and yells like a girl and cries like a baby. and he has started with the "your not my mom" thing and I knew that was gonna come someday I just thought it would be much later in life. I love this kid so much, but the way he treats me sometimes I think... is this all worth it??? I love his dad unconditonally, and it scares me to think I would leave b/c of his son, but a person is only capable of so much...I need real advice, not smart comments, please help

2007-01-06 21:56:23 · 19 answers · asked by suelynn_99_99 1 in Family

2007-01-06 21:54:52 · 15 answers · asked by Tanya Ghosh 1 in Friends

2007-01-06 21:53:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 21:52:46 · 25 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Family

2007-01-06 21:52:38 · 7 answers · asked by Huguenot 5 in Singles & Dating

I am very curious as to what people think a open marriage is. I have been in a open marriage for years and it is great but it seems that most people have a very warped view on it. What do you think it means to be in a open marriage.

2007-01-06 21:51:25 · 26 answers · asked by sexyladyinak 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am.......it sucks....i wish i wasnt......she has moved on.....but still calls me just to mess with my head.......she thinks im her insurance just in case she breaks up with her boyfriend.

2007-01-06 21:48:31 · 21 answers · asked by John D 1 in Singles & Dating

i found a new friend but kind of analyser idont like it, he first told me people that are skinny are moody, i took it lightly n simply told "well i dont know the criteria u use to say sm one is skinny cos i dont consider myself skinny n to make matters good im not moody", as if that was not enough he said people that walk first get annoyed so first. Remember all these general analysis came from nowhere but told me he is a scientist. i ditaste that kind of a friend that seem to categorise ur physical appearance with negative stuff. i like him as afriend but he is kind of a friend that knows how to put medown. This guy is short and have not told him that short people are short tempered. wat do i do, i feel like going after him n let him know abt the character attached to his physical appereance. plis help

2007-01-06 21:48:08 · 7 answers · asked by Ruth M 1 in Singles & Dating

I've never heard of a woman giving a man flowers. Why is this? I'm a man, and I don't understand why flowers are only given to women by men.

2007-01-06 21:48:03 · 28 answers · asked by john 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm madly in love with a man who's in Iraq right now, we have had a good strong relationship for 8 months. He emails me & calls me as often as he can. I get a call this morning totally blindsides me. He asks me how my mom is, my family, we discuss possiable car choices for my new vehicle. And then he gets real quite and I ask him if he's okay, and he says, 'No I'm not.' (And that is breaking my heart) And I say, 'oh baby is there anything I can do to help?' And then he says I have to break up with you. I can't do this, both my job & have a girlfriend right now, my job is the most important thing, and I am going on a speical mission for months, so I won't be able to contact you, don't want you to worry about me. Besides your too good for me anyway. So I'm ending it. I'll call you once & a while if you want me too. And I'll give you a call as soon as I get home.' I'm very upset & crying at this point & saying 'what I don't get a choice?' him 'No, not this time.' I love you.

2007-01-06 21:47:34 · 8 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Singles & Dating

I am in a great need of a true friend.Please Will u be mine?I have friends but they r not true.And the one who was true ,I lost her by my own mistake.She is wid me but she doesnt love me,cares 4 me as she used to do.Please i really need a true friend wid whom i can share my all such problems.
I have many problems.Now i am disheartened and am not understanding wat to do?
Very often i feel depressed and scared of tommorrow widout any frnd.
I am 20 yrs old college going simple girl.I need a friend(GIRL).
Please< Get me out of this depression.

2007-01-06 21:45:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends