Family & Relationships - 6 January 2007

2007-01-06 23:23:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-06 23:22:49 · 12 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My grandmother is 92 and still lives at home alone. In the past few months shes needed a bit more support and has a carer from social services pop in twice a day. once in the morning to help her dress and get breakfast and once at lunchtime. She is close contact with my dad , and my parents do her shopping and take care of anything else might need. Yesterday she fell and hurt herself, the hospital allowed her home and my dad spent the rest of the day with her. she fell again this morning n is back in the hospital. shes a very independant, proud woman and needing to go to a care home would be totally soul destroying for her. My parents are unable to give up their jobs to care for her full time, and her other son takes little interest in her although he and his wife are both not working. I would have her come to live with us if we had a spare room but we dont.
my question is, will social services be liklyto be willing to up her home care a little? or will they insist she go to a

2007-01-06 23:22:02 · 12 answers · asked by serephina 5 in Family

We used to always say I love you. We've had a ton of problems in the last year so I've sensed his feelings for me changed. I haven't had the satisfaction of feeling he wanted to reassure me that he wants to make things right by apologizing or by being completely being honest about everything. So I use to always ask my husband if he loved me anymore and how he feels about our relationship etc.. . We've stopped calling each other our pet names, I stopped caring to ask how he feels about me, and we haven't said I love you in a long time. He said it once last month, I was shocked and said it back but haven't said it since. I feel awkward because usually I would want to say it alot more but I am now ok with not saying it. Do you think he notices a change in me also and does it sound like I have lost interest? I'm just trying to check myself before thinking it's only him feeling differently.

2007-01-06 23:17:15 · 12 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He avoids me. How do I approach him? I know that he likes me. But don't know that can he get over it.

2007-01-06 23:17:08 · 12 answers · asked by LotsaQs 1 in Friends

2007-01-06 23:16:13 · 34 answers · asked by Nanny Bev 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, he was cute,caring,smart,and a gentleman.He always hugs me
and when he was bored,he likes to tickle me very hard. But one night, He stared at me and said that he is madly in love in me and i was shocked.what will i do?

2007-01-06 23:15:02 · 17 answers · asked by cherrylicious_13 1 in Friends

Am I normal in wanting to save myself for someone special, if it is that rare?

2007-01-06 23:12:28 · 31 answers · asked by Mr. Shadow 1 in Singles & Dating

Help me out with this male body language please.
My boyfriend will
1-Stand in front of me while im sitting and talk to me while looking down at me
2-He will start biting his nails after we kiss or cuddle (is that like a "bono-er" thing)
3-He's always trying to look me straight in the eyes but I've never really been comfortable looking people directly in the eyes so why does he do this?
4-If we're play fighting or something he always has to end up the winner or the one who restrains
5-Hes always saying things like"if you do that again imma tackle you but I'd do it gently"
6-And we just started (french kissing) and when we're kissing he's always pushing his tounge in my mouth even when I'll back away a bit (where usually laying down watchin a movie when that happens)
7-And we will be sitting down like on a bed and he'll like playfully push me down onto the bed and lay all his weight on me.
What does all this mean please help meh Ive googld it but found nothin helpful
HELP!Ashley-

2007-01-06 23:11:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to cut a long story short my best friend was seeing this guy. i say seeing but from where i'm standing he was going round and shagging her once a week when he felt like it. a little while ago she liked my brother in law and he liked her but he was married they have now split up and shes been texting him and has seen him a couple of times. she also slept with him on new years eve. this other bloke shes been seeing sent her a really random text msg out of the blue on thursday asking her to sleep with another woman whilst he watched. it was put quite so politely though! she obviously text back no. with which he said i wish you were more dirty and went into more detail! she didn't reply. she started to say maybe he was messing about but it took him till saturday afternoon to aplogise. i think he was being serious. would a man mention something like this if it wasn't what he really wanted? he's also boughtup a similar conversation about it before. my brother in law really likes her too!

2007-01-06 23:10:55 · 21 answers · asked by deward 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you find yourself giving out advice to others easily however find it hard to give yourself advice?

2007-01-06 23:10:43 · 9 answers · asked by scholar021 1 in Friends

She broke up with me a year ago. She tries to talk to my friends when she sees them. She didn't talk to them much when we were going out. Why is she trying to talk to them now? My friends won't talk to her because she did me wrong. She just tries to talk to them and they walk away. Why is she trying to talk to them? Don't tell me about not caring what she is doing because she is my ex. Obviously I am interested in why she is trying to talk to them. I still have the same phone number so I would think that if she wanted to get into contact with me she would call but maybe not because we ended kind of badly. She went off with someone else.

2007-01-06 23:10:35 · 4 answers · asked by forgot my real name 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We're both in the same church, and he started talking to me online last year, and confessed to liking each other. But I wasn't really ready for a relationship then, and I didn't feel like going out on solo dates. He, however, asked me out quite a number of times, but it never happened. Mostly because I didn't give him a definite answer. We soon stopped talking as much as before.

A few weeks ago, I was talking about wanting to go to this cool bookstore but had no one to go with (my fellow book-loving best friend was in Japan) and he offered to go with me. But, yet again, it never happened!

I don't know if he still likes me. I still like him though! Should I tell him I like him again? His birthday is in February and maybe I should tell him then? What should I say? :)

2007-01-06 23:08:36 · 9 answers · asked by penguin 1 in Singles & Dating

My grandmother (who has just turned 81) gained a daughter in law in 1993 when her son married. Since then (and more especially now as they have two children) she has shown no appreication towards my grandmother (despite my grandmother letting her live in our holiday home and we looking after their farm in Wales). Should my grandmother simply state that we would like some appreciation?

2007-01-06 23:07:21 · 6 answers · asked by Harry Hayfield 6 in Family

I'm expecting something like "playing hard to get" and so on...
I want your tricks of the trade ..?

2007-01-06 23:07:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wat would u do.... ps he f'd me and left me

2007-01-06 23:04:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hmmm why do i always get this feeling when im around my best friend,i know for sure that its not because i like him and i dont.But i know he likes me so im a bit concern about that.Got any ideas?

2007-01-06 23:03:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got a call yesterday afternoon that my sister was extremly sick...and my brother-in-law called me n asked me if I would come n pick up the kids. I said okay...got dressed n went out to my car. My car would not start...so I called my friend to ask her for a ride...n I told her that it was na emergency. She had some lame excuse to not take take me. I didn'y have enough money for a cab. I had just missed the last bus going to that side of town. So I ended up walking..n borrowing cab $ my bro- n-law. This friend of mine we have been friends for almost 7 years. I have always been there for her...whenever she needed me. But everytime I need her she completly ditches me. She is also a complete flake...everytime we make plans to go out or hang out she either never shows up...or comes up with a stupid excuse of why she cannpt make it...when in actuality she is at home sitting on her lazy *** watching tv. Should I keep this person as a friend? Or should I cut her out of my life forver?

2007-01-06 23:02:17 · 21 answers · asked by butterfly 2 in Friends

Looking to spice up the bedroom with the misses and need some wild ideas...

2007-01-06 23:01:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When going out, especially at night, I typically get hit on by men of all races. When a white guy approaches me, I usually tell them no I have a boyfriend. Last week I said that to some guy, and he said "oh you're not into white guys"....that made me think. I know for some men, it's intimidating approaching a woman and from what I hear, a black woman, especially if you are not black. I never considered that when a man of a different race approaches me, that it may come off that I'm not attracted to that race. Do you think it would be doing to much to mention that my boyfriend is white when I'm approached by white so as to not offend them. Or what do you suggest I say to a guy of ANY race so they don't think it's because I'm black, I must not be attracted to them?

2007-01-06 23:01:23 · 9 answers · asked by Transformers20 2 in Singles & Dating

He has plans to visit his friend and his going on his own. We are try ing to put this back together again after afew rows. But I'm am feeling anxious.. Can't talk about it again as we will end up arguing.

2007-01-06 22:59:44 · 10 answers · asked by Sani 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-06 22:58:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have shared interest and he asked me to go out to this shared interest event with him.He also said he would pay.If a guy does this and asks me to have a bet with him but says if i lose he'll still share half the alcohol with me what does this mean?is he looking for more and is he being subtle or am i just blind?

2007-01-06 22:57:11 · 6 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 22:57:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a skin condition thats called tinea versicolor, it's nothing serious or gross.... it's just a tad discolouration of the skin, little circle ish lighter patches on the arm. maybe each one in diameter ia a bit bigger then a jiffy tip size. You can only tell if you get UP CLOSE to it... and you can't feel it or anything,and it's not contagious. would it gross you out ? mature people only please.
Thanks :o)

2007-01-06 22:56:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A sweet cute girl thats into love and romance or a girl that just likes to have fun with no real commitment?

2007-01-06 22:55:21 · 20 answers · asked by Deleted 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 22:55:05 · 10 answers · asked by leroy g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Due to an overwhelming reponse to my previous question, mostly telling me to get out of my existing relationship (deep down i knew the answer anyway i guess, as she cant be reasonable at all) can anyone tell me how responsible am i for her children? We are not married but share the mortgage on the house. She doesn't work and cannot buy me out or earn enough to take the house on. I earn a 'comfortable' wage. I would like to sell the house and move on even though i know selling a house is going to be difficult in itself let alone under these circumstances. Can i force her to sell? Will i be held accountable for her children until they're 18. Should i live in the house whilst it is going throught the selling process. I know she doesn't want this really, she is taking advantage of my love for her and wants her cake and eat it. Please help. For the record' my friend is allowing me access to his account and any questions posted before today do not relate to my situation.

2007-01-06 22:54:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i wanna get over my ex... he has a girl friend but i don't have a boyfriend so wat do i do?

2007-01-06 22:53:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please understand, my brother died just a year ago by accident. He was married and devorced once. His X, remarraied later. They had two terrific children together, my precious nephew and neice. These young people are now late teens (my bros kids).
Though she divorced my brother and her second husband, I remained friends with all throughout.
Here's my problem -- somewhere in the old testament it is stated that the wife of a fallen brother becomes the automatic responsibility of a decending order of brother if (single) available....
This is blood-line I assume....
I don't know where exactly this verse is, but I know it to be valid.
Some may say that as a Christian the laws of the old text do not apply....hummm, happploowee.... I still observe the living word pre-universe & as we now it now....
Sorry, okay, to keep it short here is my question -->
I never married no/kids, she (my brothers x-wife)was divorced from second marriage well before the time of of my bros death.
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2007-01-06 22:53:09 · 9 answers · asked by highendsystems 3 in Marriage & Divorce