Help I need to know what his body language means?

Question

Help me out with this male body language please.
My boyfriend will
1-Stand in front of me while im sitting and talk to me while looking down at me
2-He will start biting his nails after we kiss or cuddle (is that like a "bono-er" thing)
3-He's always trying to look me straight in the eyes but I've never really been comfortable looking people directly in the eyes so why does he do this?
4-If we're play fighting or something he always has to end up the winner or the one who restrains
5-Hes always saying things like"if you do that again imma tackle you but I'd do it gently"
6-And we just started (french kissing) and when we're kissing he's always pushing his tounge in my mouth even when I'll back away a bit (where usually laying down watchin a movie when that happens)
7-And we will be sitting down like on a bed and he'll like playfully push me down onto the bed and lay all his weight on me.
What does all this mean please help meh Ive googld it but found nothin helpful
HELP!Ashley-

& Basically I'm 16 he's 17 ...
Just so you have a age range in your mind set for answering.

Answer 1

1. showing his dominance over you.
2. no clue
3. dominance thing again. OR he wants you to see eye to eye on what hes saying. (you know how when you're a child and your parent is like "look at me when i'm talking to you!" it's like that.)
4. dominance thing
5. dominance thing and he wants sex
6. dominance thing.
7. dominance thing

i think everyone on here is missing something. i just noticed your name is forever shy. when you're shy sometimes people take advantage of that. you're bf sounds too dominant. and the fact that he looks down on you when talking is just really bothersome (even though you were sitting theres still ways to to talk without looking down at someone) . i'd find a new bf. one that treats you as an equal and isn't as agressive as this guy. you're noticing that somethings not ok here otherwise you wouldn't have asked the question. i'm just trying to tell you to be careful and be aware of things you aren't comfortable with.

Answer 2

Sweetie, I think most males at your boyfriend's age may be a little on the overbearing side--it probably has much to do with hormones. Raging hormones maybe. When he says things like, "If you do that again I will tackle you--but gently", again probably the dominaiting side of him coming out--but in a gentle way meaning he wouldn't intentionally try to hurt you. As far as the biting the nail thing after you make out--although weird, he's probably ever bit as uncertain about this relationship and his feelings as you are. The french kissing bit--you two have to figure that one out on your own--all that comes in time. What you could do is tell him, "let me kiss YOU a little bit". That way he won't get his feelings all mashed up and think that he's doing it wrong. Guys sometimes like it when the females take charge.

As you get older you will find more mature males will be eye level with you when having a conversation and you should do the same, get more comfortable looking someone in the eye.

If your relationship does happen to turn from a 'playful push down' to a 'knock-down-drag-out' you need to tell someone. Sometimes what one might see as just age or hormones or just being a boy may turn out to be one of those "If I Can't Have You No One Will" deals. Without revealing too much "way personal" info, moms are ideal to help you. Both your's and his. Your mom will always have your best interest at heart and his mom should want him to be a strong young man and treat you right.

Good Luck Sweetie!!

Answer 3

I feel you are asking this question because you already have an idea about the answer. Maybe it's not one you are comfortable with. This is what I think he is doing with his body language and actions:
1-Looking down on you is being dominant.
2-Boredom or insecurity. He's either not really thinking about anything or he's wondering what he should do next and so he's nibbling.
3-Looking at someone's eyes directly can either be an aggressive thing (he doesn't like you not looking at him) or an insecurity thing (is wanting to know how you feel).
4-This is a dominant guy thing. Few guys are comfortable with their masculinity enough to let a woman win physically.
5-Sounds like he wants an excuse to be physical.
6-Some guys think we like this. It's a bit too macho usually.
7-He wants to get physical with you and is seeing how far you are willing to take it.
I think some of the other answers are right. He really wants to go further (have sex). You need to decide whether this is what you want to do. It would be a good time to think about whether any of his moves are overly aggressive. You don't want to be pushed into doing something you aren't necessarily ready for. If he's a good guy he'll listen. If not - run away. What we need are guys who think about what we want. Not just about getting in our pants.

Answer 4

It means that he is dominating you, or wants to dominate and control you. Also he is keeping you just for himself, like he wants to own you and not allow you to associate with other people. If this fits, then you might want to question if this is the type of relationship you want. If you like him enough that you want to stay, but you don't want to be dominated and controlled, you will need to stand up for yourself and express yourself openly. A good start would be letting him know what you don't like about his posture and positioning around you, and what you want him to do differently. This may either improve the relationship or sink it, so be prepared if you plan to confront him.

Answer 5

It means he needs to be dominant over you, and he is controlling. At this stage, he may not exhibit this openly, but that's how it is. Best suggestion, only stay if you want to be with a man that feels you are lower than him and that he can tell you what to do all the time. But if you like that thing, it's up to you.

I personally would not stay though. Guys who exhibit this behavior tend to be more likely to be abusive in the end.

Answer 6

Well, he is a guy and most guys want to be dominant in a relationship. He is acting on instinct if you ask me. If you are uncomfortable with his actions then tell him. He might act mad, but he will change the behavior. In the end, he is a guy and his actions are all leading up to a sexual encounter.

Answer 7

He does not know what to do but ultimatly he is looking for SEX.
Standing in front of you while you are sitting is a good indication of where he wants your eyes. All the clues are there.

Answer 8

I have a question for you:

Not to be rude, but how many times are you going to ask the same question?

Now that that is out of the way, he likes you and wants to make another move, but isn't sure of himself and how to go about it. He's more than likely trying to let you know that he wants to have sex. Let him know how you feel and what you're comfortable with.

Answer 9

simply ... he is inexperinced and you cant blame him for that >3. he want you to see love in his eyes but you don't try to look him romanticly in his eyes 5. he want to show you that he cant hurt you even in the bad position 6. he is not expericne 7 . don't know it hurt you tell him

have a good time hope you joy

Answer 10

I think that your boyfriend wanted to tell you that he wants to "upgrade" your relationship from "hugging-hugging" to a little bit of sexual.But one tip for you,reserve your virginity because you're very young.