to cut a long story short my best friend was seeing this guy. i say seeing but from where i'm standing he was going round and shagging her once a week when he felt like it. a little while ago she liked my brother in law and he liked her but he was married they have now split up and shes been texting him and has seen him a couple of times. she also slept with him on new years eve. this other bloke shes been seeing sent her a really random text msg out of the blue on thursday asking her to sleep with another woman whilst he watched. it was put quite so politely though! she obviously text back no. with which he said i wish you were more dirty and went into more detail! she didn't reply. she started to say maybe he was messing about but it took him till saturday afternoon to aplogise. i think he was being serious. would a man mention something like this if it wasn't what he really wanted? he's also boughtup a similar conversation about it before. my brother in law really likes her too!
2007-01-06 23:10:55 · 21 answers · asked by deward 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do men really want?.........Like a sexy woman who likes to get laid ............that's about it, in a nutshell.................
2007-01-07 16:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi there !!! Can't say what a man really wants because I am a woman, but what I can say is that , why does it matter what they want anyway if it is something that can cause us harm morally or emotionally.
As woman we should give ourselves respect, not expect some smuck to come and give it to us. No way jose.
Not all men are alike, the same as women.
The first guy you mentioned sounds like someone who just wants to have sex, period.
I would avoid him like the plague.
Second one is just getting over another relationshiop , he needs some time , not be in the rebound. Your best friend should take a break from the man scene, figure out what she wants , find herself, then be involved when the right person shows up.
In regards to the text message she received, many times people say things seriously, ( or text message them) then they say it was a joke, yeah right, he wanted to see how far he could get, he should get a life.
Your best friends best bet is to get away from these two guys, find peace within, do some soul searching , then when she feels good about herself, she is ready to allow quality men to come into her life.
I hope that she finds herself soon. Each day is a golden opportunity to start over, to live life to its uttermost.
Love light and peace
2007-01-07 07:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dude who asked your friend to sleep with another chic...He wasn't kidding. Additionally, your instincts are correct. He is'nt serious about her. Why you ask? First...a long period of no contact followed by a sudden text message accompanied by a request for a lewd sexual act...COME ON...that's not something you do to someone you care about. If he slept with her once a week or so, she is a "booty call" and nothing more. Additionally, to tell someone that THEY need to change because they don't sign off on a personal fantasy of YOURS is a bit arrogant I would say. Hook her up with your brother in-law...but be warned, if that goes south as well, you could be in an awkward predicament with both of them.
Best of Luck!!!
2007-01-07 07:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by iipiki_okami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first she needs to decide if she wants a relationship with the bro in law or if she wants a peice of *** and thats it..... men find it sexually attractive and a compleat turn on 2 see 2 girls going at it or being part of a three some or even more..... why i dont have a clue, im not a man and for me being a chick its not my thing... if its something that she wants to experiance then more power to her but pretty much its every mans fantisy.....
2007-01-07 07:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by jingles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably drunk or something was up. Don't ponder over it too much. Personally I just like to be feed and cuddled with, but most men have what I would call a fantasy that'll never happen like what you posted above(women on women in front of himself thing).
2007-01-07 07:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas P~~TheForsaken. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her take a clean break from that looser and get with a better guy.
If she has feelings for your brother in law and he has for her tell her go for it
She doesnt not need that prat hanging off her when he feels like it
Good luck
2007-01-07 07:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by aoife k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to keep away from the freak, unless she gets a kick out of being treated like a doormat.
2007-01-07 07:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by simon m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who puts that on text and not face to face is either drunk or a total nerd.
Either way watch out. He's probably both.
2007-01-08 06:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow the three RULES
1. Feed ME
2. F#*@ ME
3. Leave ME alone afterwards
Bascily what men want simple not complicated
2007-01-07 07:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by XC220 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like this (most men yes but not all of us). I think he is a jerk for asking the poor girl that question in the first place.
Its disrespectful and degrading and she should tell him to get a life and stay out of hers.
2007-01-07 07:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by WillyBob 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy sounds like he needs a size 10 foot up his behind-sleazebag
2007-01-07 07:31:50 · answer #11 · answered by MI5 WANNABE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋