He has plans to visit his friend and his going on his own. We are try ing to put this back together again after afew rows. But I'm am feeling anxious.. Can't talk about it again as we will end up arguing.
2007-01-06 22:59:44 · 10 answers · asked by Sani 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Revisit the reasons for your rows. Ask yourself do you trust him? By letting him go will it make your relationship stronger or weaker? While he is gone will you worry what he is doing etc..
You have to trust him. If you don't move on, as it will cause more problems later on. Like the saying let a your love go if it comes back then the love was true. Don't crowd him sometimes people need space, we all do at times. You SHOULD be able to talk to him openly..Key factors in a loving relationship.. Love, Trust Honesty, Communication, Attraction. Does your relationship have all these? If it doesn't honestly do you think you and he will be able to develope them?
Be true to yourself if you can't discuss what's bothering you with him as your should since he should care about your fellings too. But also are you being unreasonable in your want for him not to go on his visit? Or is his visit suspect? Ask him talk to him or you may never know the answers to your questions. If he loves you he will consider your view points and openly talk to you to find a happy medium and if he won't then he may not care for you as much as you do for him. It's all about balance and it has to equal out or you have one side carrying all the weight.
Hope all works out..
P.S if he acts like a complete **** remember your are beautiful and there is somebody great out there willing to give you what he won't.. so don't waste your time b/c time is precious..
Contessa
2007-01-06 23:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by Contessa Noir 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are havin any doubts about him goin for any reason then maybe the relationship isnt worth savin but on the other hand a bit of time may do you both good as it will give you space and timeto assess what you both want and whether or not its the same thing! good luck hun xx
2007-01-07 07:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by theoriginalbitch 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him go away - you can't make him stay and he will not love you for it. If he messes up he was never going to do the right thing anyway.
2007-01-07 07:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by delphi13 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not? Or is it that you dont trust him? Mustn't curb people's independence...sometimes you need time away from each other, being possessive and insecure only jeopardises relationships
2007-01-07 07:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by J1312 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would you want to be in control of him like that? he is a grown person with his own right to do whatever he chooses.. same goes for you too... if he insisted you did not go somewhere that you wanted to go to, would you not go because he said soo? if you would not go then you are not living your life how you want too but how someone else wants you too
2007-01-07 07:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by confused 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love, shouldn't have to have boundaries. If both of you "Love" eachother. He ain't gonna wanna leve. don't try to posses him. you wouldn't want him to do the same. You're worth more than that.
2007-01-07 07:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let him go the time apart will do your relationship good.
2007-01-07 08:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets face it you cant MAKE someone stay with you can you.
he wants to go so let him.
2007-01-07 07:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
let him free
2007-01-07 08:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by mile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you trust him, let him go, if not end it
2007-01-07 07:01:47 · answer #10 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋