Family & Relationships - 6 January 2007

she's protective and ignores me when i say something related with her bf.

2007-01-06 00:33:55 · 5 answers · asked by Princess Sandra 1 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 13 years. Until about 5 years ago, he was romantic, I love him with all my heart. But its like the last 5 years his idea of romance has completely changed. Now all I get in means of a kiss is a peck on the cheek or mouth before he leaves for work. I have asked him to be more romantic, even gave ideas, such as giving more hugs, kisses once in a while, and just showing me he loves me ya know. His reply was, "That is not me." He says he loves me with all his heart too, so what is the deal? Yea we have had problems like everyone else, but the non romance has got to go. Please give some ideas..........

2007-01-06 00:33:15 · 19 answers · asked by Kelly M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need advice on how to tell a guy that's 2 years older than me that i really need to wait a while before i start going places with him, because my parents really dont know him that good yet. He really cares about me and i need a way to tell him where it don't hurt his feelings or make him not like ne anymore. i bet this sounds really stupid but i am in desperate need of help!!!!

2007-01-06 00:32:14 · 12 answers · asked by pretty_grl_321 1 in Singles & Dating

i have lost my favourite teddy bear. i have had it my whole life and now its gone. what shall i do? shall i buy a new one? but it wont be the same......

2007-01-06 00:29:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I"M SCARED OF WHITE GUYS WHAT SHOULD i do with the guy I'm seeing now?
I have a big problem, i'm black and i have been seeing a white guy for 4 months. I have kissed him but i'm scared to sleep with him because of all the horror stories i have heard of white guys. I think it is upsetting him because i will not even allow him to show me his penis. I like him alot but i do not know why my thoughts are winning over how i feel.

My friends tell me i will live to regret sleeping with him. Any black girls here who have slept with white guys. tell me, is it as bad as people say. i know i'm hurting his feelings.

Another thing i cannot get past are his blue eyes. i cannot look him in the eye for some time because his eyes are creepy to me. i know white girls find them sexy but i don,t.

I KNOW THAT people will ask why am i with this guy. I like the way he treats me and he has proved to me time and time again that he deserves a chance from me. i really like him and i need help getting over all the bad stories about white guys. how can i do this. Be kind.

2007-01-06 00:29:09 · 17 answers · asked by good_but_naughty_gal 1 in Singles & Dating

No, don't tell me it's time to move on. We are both older and I know exactly what I want. Also, at my age I won't move on, I might let go, but will love him for the rest of my life, absolutely no doubt about that. I met him on a dating site, we got involved, quite passionately, but live in different countries. I flew to his country to meet him the first time and it was... gosh, I can't describe it... We were together for a week, and after that kept contact and met up in different countries a few times again (I'm EFLing and travelling). The problem is that after each meeting he's strange, distant in his emails, which hurt me and caused me to refuse to see him again. His reaction was fury, he broke all contact with me, but I still email him. I know that he has a lot of family issues after a sad childhood, not talking to some other fam members, and I know he's addicted to anonymous sex. I'm a Christian, he isn't, and I just keep believing and praying... Should I stop trying?

2007-01-06 00:25:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

here in Iran teenagers in my age do not know any thing about this important things about sexual activities. just because Iran is an Islamic country teachers here cannot talk to students about this things and our parents do not talk with us about it.so we cannot be guided.i hope you tell me about what to do with my wife in the night of marriage

2007-01-06 00:24:34 · 16 answers · asked by ERSHADINHO 1 in Marriage & Divorce

thanks for sharing your opinion

2007-01-06 00:21:33 · 11 answers · asked by cheen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so im 20 and in the army, you would think that would be attractive to most girls, cuz i got a career, and ok, paying job right? if thats so why are girls scared to get involved with a military guy? Its not like we choose to get deployed, its part of the job, so y cant girls understand that and accept you for it.......im single, not by choice but because most girls wont even take a shot at a relationship with me just because i am in the military....?

2007-01-06 00:21:25 · 8 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

a Donkey Jacket,now she has left me.....what did I do wrong ?

2007-01-06 00:20:31 · 22 answers · asked by iain xx 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-06 00:20:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a father and his son are involved in a car accident, as a result of which the son is rushed to hospital for emergency surgery.the surgeon looks at him and says "i can't operate on him, he is my son"explain(the answer is not step-father

2007-01-06 00:18:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

3 months ago I asked my fiancee for time apart. things were moving fast, marriage was coming, and I thought I needed to think alone. She was very upset, but I insisted and didnt see her for a month. I realized how much I loved and I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me and she was dating someone else. She kept dating him for about 1 week. She eventually forgave me and we are engaged again. Recently I found out that she had sex with the other guy the night before she took me back. She says she wanted to experience him, but that she wanted to teach me a lesson and test my love. She also said wanted the guy was very sweet and she wanted to thank him. She told him she would go back to me, so the last night she admits they did it almost all night, three times. We have talked a lot, about how she was hurt, and I have expressed its ok to tell how she enjoyed the sex. we are back in love and my heart knows that, but I cannot stop my head from being jealous. advice

2007-01-06 00:17:00 · 11 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Singles & Dating

3 months ago I asked my fiancee for time apart. things were moving fast, marriage was coming, and I thought I needed to think alone. She was very upset, but I insisted and didnt see her for a month. I realized how much I loved and I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me and she was dating someone else. She kept dating him for about 1 week. She eventually forgave me and we are engaged again. Recently I found out that she had sex with the other guy the night before she took me back. She says she wanted to experience him, but that she wanted to teach me a lesson and test my love. She also said wanted the guy was very sweet and she wanted to thank him. She told him she would go back to me, so the last night she admits they did it almost all night, three times. We have talked a lot, about how she was hurt, and I have expressed its ok to tell how she enjoyed the sex. we are back in love and my heart knows that, but I cannot stop my head from being jealous. advice

2007-01-06 00:16:10 · 25 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And you tell the wife or girlfriend what he's been up to. The men always have the same resopnse "You ruined my life". Why do they say this? In fact, he's to blame...him and his wang!
I don't set out to date married men or men in relationships. I tell them that up front. Therefore, if I find out that he's been lying to me and he's a cheater. I'll expose his behind quicker then I can tell him to get to steppin!

2007-01-06 00:14:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there this guy crushing on me his a soccer player and so am i
he came up to me and told me he liked me but
his cute in all by i kinda like someone else what should i do?????

2007-01-06 00:13:55 · 9 answers · asked by spongebob 2 in Singles & Dating

Is my female colleague hitting on me?
Ok maybe I am looking too much into this, but maybe not. She is quite macho attitutde-wise but quite a petite Asian girl. I don;t know if she is gay or not but word on the street is that she is. Thing is, I am such a girly girl I would have thought it was obvious I am straight (apologies if my generalisations are showing through here. i am just being honest). lately she has taken to popping in to my office, hugging me a lot, offering a shoulder to cry on, telling me I am beautiful and will wow my new boss when I told her I was worried, and e-mailing me. She looks at me in *that* kind of way- or maybe I am just being paranoid. Thing is, girls that aren't one's friends don;t do this kind of thing. It is men that are flirting with one that do this!!!

I don;t really mind either way, I am just intruiged.

2007-01-06 00:13:06 · 14 answers · asked by AussieRockchic 1 in Singles & Dating

Also, if you consistently do the same thing that angers, upsets or concerns her, should her reaction/ response change? I mean, how are women to come across as loving and helpful instead of bitchy, controlling, hateful? I don't want to harp on things or bring up the past while responding or reacting to my boyfriend. But he consistently does the same thing over and over again. He expects that his apology is good enough. But to me they are empty words. I just feel that there should be respect in a relationship. And so when he continually repeats the same thing over and over again, I feel like I have no say. And I feel as if he doesn't care about my feelings. I have told him this to no avail. It really is like beating a dead horse. We have a decent relationship except for his addiction (porn). My request is that he not look at it in my home. I don't feel that I have to bend or compromise just to make him happy. If he lived here, I might reconsider to a certain extent. But he does not.

2007-01-06 00:11:23 · 8 answers · asked by whoanelly 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 00:08:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Been with her for 4 years now, we own a house together and it's about time I made an honest woman of her. She's 25 and I'm 29. I need a romantic, yet cool and original way of doing this.

2007-01-06 00:08:45 · 33 answers · asked by SurfCop 3 in Weddings

2007-01-06 00:08:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 20 years old and I dont have a job and I am looking for a job to support myself. I dont have much skills that employers are looking for so its hard for me to get a office job. My other problem is that I may be pregnant and I can't even take care of my baby. My bf says he would take care of us but I want money of my own. i dont want to depend on him. Then the next problem is when my parents find out where would I go. I cant even get a place without a job or a place for my baby. I dont know where to start.

I took so many preg test which were neg but my period still havent come 2 months later and I am type scared. I dont know what to do. I definately want to be in my own place but Im afraid it isn't possible. Can you please help me what do you think I should do??? All I request are your positive opinion. thank you.

2007-01-06 00:07:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But the catch is He has already been married and had 3 wonderfully boys!!! Which NOw a days, Im the mother type for them, the ex-psycho wifee left!!! ANd now he wants to marry me, and I wonder if it's the right decision. Would this be soo much different than the first?

2007-01-06 00:05:56 · 17 answers · asked by im a keeper 1 in Weddings

I have known this girl for about a year and a half? Things are great we do everything together, but we arent officially together and I dont want to ruin anything as she is my best friend and would never want to lose this friendship. Although she tells me that she would want to marry me (to be honest I love that and would to) and spend the rest of her life with me even her friends see her and I ending up together! Although i dont know as she always has the attention of other guys and from what I see loves it especially if we're at a club. What gets to me the most is that if I move away to be closer to mates or where ever she keeps telling me that she will follow. wtf do I do? I dont want to drag her away from her friends or feel like she has sacrificed things to be with me I love her alot and wouldnt/couldnt let her do this unless things were different more serious with us... What do I do even if I think that she does have feelings for 1 other guy even though were always together?

2007-01-06 00:05:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she says that she does not really want for anything. any suggestions???

2007-01-06 00:03:49 · 11 answers · asked by Jeff B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do i really have to be cool to get girls. Also what is being cool.

2007-01-06 00:02:48 · 11 answers · asked by silvestani 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 24 year old male virgin. And it really shocks me that most people see sex as something fun and not special. I am not a virgin for religious reason, I just believe in being sensible, but I am surprised to learn that no one else is these days. Its just I feel like giving up on finding love altogether because of the way society views sex as just something fun and not meant for just one person. Because chances are, if I ever do fall in love, the women I fall in love with would have most probably had sex over 100 times already. That’s why I feel like giving up on love because no one sees it as something special anymore.

2007-01-06 00:00:59 · 27 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating