Do i really have to be cool to get girls. Also what is being cool.
2007-01-06 00:02:48 · 11 answers · asked by silvestani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no just be sweet to girls and like that other person said dont try to be a nerd and just be your self
2007-01-06 00:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being cool is like a frig. Open up the doors and there is great stuff inside. Being hot well that's like an oven. Open up the doors and if your not careful someone can get burned. I think being cool to get girls takes a little bit of coolness and hotness. Good luck!
2007-01-06 09:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by 38C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not try to be "cool". Trying to be cool will only make you look like a fool. Keep your imagination in check, it is not like TV. Be yourself. If you are being yourself then your friends will like you for who you are and that means the girls will too.
2007-01-06 08:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by Cess B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what girls you are going after....a lot of girls fall for the "cool" guys which then end up being the non cool guy ..be your self
2007-01-06 08:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, being cool is not being afraid to just be yourself. Not worrying about whether or not it is acceptable to other people the way you CHOOSE to be.................That's what being cool is and if you want to get a girl who you really click with then yes you do have to be cool (my definition of cool though!!!)..........:)
2007-01-06 08:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by Minx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being cool helps - by that I mean not acting like you're desperate for a girl!
2007-01-06 08:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way i found to get girls is just be yourself.I find out the older i get the less being cool really matters.So just hang in there and be yourself.
2007-01-06 08:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by big taco 78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. You want people to like you for who you are, not for acting like someone else is. If you act differently to get a girl or make a friend, you will have to keep up the charade to keep them. People want you to be honest to them. They will respect you more. If they don't like the "real" you , what have you lost? There are girls who will like you for being up front with them and not acting "cool" or like someone else. They will tire of the charade fast and move on once they find out the real you, especially if they don't like the "real" you, or they may get mad because you were only "pretending" to get them hooked. What would you think if a girl acted like someone else and then a month down the line she lets her guard down and you find that she isn't the person you thought she was?
Acting "cool" is impersonating someone else. You may pretend to like certain music because everyone else thinks it's "cool" or "hip" or whatever term you apply when you can't stand it. This would apply to clothes, shoes, cars, anything. Why would you want to wear clothes that aren't comfy, you don't like , or listen to music you hate to impress someone? people that follow the crowd are shallow and have NO self esteem or GUTS. Why is everyone afraid to be "different".? Answer is because we worry too much about what some jerk thinks of us and we try to make them happy instead of ourselves. DO YOU WANT TRUE LOVE OR SOMEONE TO PRETEND TO LIKE/LOVE YOU?
2007-01-06 08:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool is different from one individual to the next. To get girls you need to be yourself. Thats the "coolest" thing of all...
2007-01-06 08:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey lately nerds are in. So dont worry.
2007-01-06 08:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋